This book list will start with an insight into human nature, show you the real human nature and improve interpersonal relationships by the way. Knowing a little about people's hearts and learning some communication skills will make life a lot easier.
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Weakness of human nature
Dale. Carnegie
An interesting phenomenon is that Carnegie still has a copy of the advantages of human nature, but he can't sell the weaknesses of human nature all the year round. What does this mean?
Knowing the weaknesses of human nature can be changed, but knowing the advantages of human nature is of no use. (and what is the advantage of human beings, and what does that advantage have to do with me? )
Therefore, only by understanding the weakness can we truly understand the universal law of human nature.
In this book, Carnegie introduced six ways to make others like you, 12 ways to make others recognize you, and nine ways to make others accept your point of view. It is simple and not rude, and it is worth posting anywhere visible to the naked eye, which is very practical.
Know this book in three sentences.
1. No one likes to listen to other people's criticism, but everyone likes to be praised and respected by others. This is human nature.
The expression on a person's face is much more valuable than the fur on her back.
Nobody can beat anyone.
The wisdom of life
Schopenhauer
We always give a dog-tailed mink to a decent life because of some obsession with happiness. This book can save you.
When all the chicken soup for the soul is teaching you how to live happily, Schopenhauer tells you that a happy life lies not in how much happiness you get, but in how much pain you can bear.
After reading this book, you will find that those things that make you suffer are actually nothing serious. It doesn't matter whether the leader praised you today or which colleague said something ugly. Anyway, life is like that ghost. When you don't expect much from it, life will be much easier. If you don't pursue happiness, you will be happier. Maybe it taught us to accept fate ...
In short, if a person can only read one chicken soup for the soul in his life, Schopenhauer's masterpiece must have a name, with an antidepressant index of 5 stars.
Know this book in three sentences.
1. Rational people pursue not happiness, but no pain.
2. A person is either lonely or vulgar.
The biggest mistake that human beings can make is to trade health for something other than themselves.
Selfish gene
Richard Dawkins
Maybe it's hard for you to admit that we are born selfish, like the survival of the fittest, and the law of the jungle is just for evolution. Selfishness and greed are our nature.
When you realize all this, you will no longer be disappointed in human nature.
Know this book in three sentences.
1. We and all other animals are machines created by our own genes.
2. A prominent feature of successful genes is ruthless selfishness.
3. Obviously altruistic behavior is actually selfish behavior in disguise.
experience
Amy Herman
In modern society, who doesn't want to have the ability to understand human nature? People who can see through people just want to be friends with people.
When I first read this book, I thought it was to teach you how to communicate. In fact, there is a mystery hidden in it, not to teach you how to "speak", but to teach you how to see with your eyes. The so-called "tongue disease, eyes treat you."
Those who can observe it will never be too unlucky, not to mention that the author of this book has taught the FBI many times to help them solve the case successfully. After reading this book, your detection ability will achieve a breakthrough of 0- 1.
Know this book in three sentences.
1. Pay attention to the neglected, ordinary and seemingly unimportant things.
Only when you can put yourself in others' shoes can you really understand a person. This is to trigger a * * * sound, which can promote better cooperation.
3. How to organize information quickly: Ask yourself three questions: What do I know? I don't know what? What else do I need to know if it is possible to get more information?
thought reading
Henrik fix
Mind reading, a name that sounds very powerful. Mind-reading is in my hands, all over the world.
This book is very interesting, teaching you how to judge whether others are lying from body language; How to find language defects from a person's voice; How to interpret the psychological dynamics of others from facial expressions?
It's amazing. I want to learn every skill. I have learned this system of knowing people, and I can understand, persuade and influence others quietly.
New EQ
Daniel Gorman
The father of emotional intelligence has advanced a little and brought new emotional intelligence, which is good news for people who are anxious and confused. Compared with the old EQ, it has joined the theory of oriental wisdom and neuroscience, that is, there is something wrong with our brains, perhaps it is our brains.
After reading this book, you will have a new understanding of your body and your life will change accordingly, which is quite amazing. The so-called change of thinking, change everything.
Whenever life is confused, it always works wonders to open this book and read it repeatedly.
Know this book in three sentences.
1. Consciously pay attention to the present without making any judgment on the development of things. If you try to do this several times, what you are doing will change.
Pay attention to one thing, that is meditation.
3. The amygdala is the key node of the brain pressure circuit, and meditation helps to reduce its activity.