First, "The Distant Savior".
The author's purpose in writing this book is to enlighten the public. The book expresses many ideas that subvert traditional thinking through simple plots. Ding Yuanying, the hero, is a successful man. He once ruled the business world. We can understand his view as a strong culture. The so-called strong culture is to break away from the traditional concept of equality and emphasize that people should rely on themselves, not others. The older generation often said, depend on parents at home and friends when going out. We always want to find a backer in our bones, as if having a backer can solve all our problems. For example, parents always want their children to work honestly all their lives, even if their income is small, and don't try anything risky, such as changing careers or starting a business. However, in reality, you will find that those who are extremely successful basically rely on themselves, because the beginning of a person's real growth lies in the time when he realizes that he has to live on his own. I will study hard and improve my cognition. Constantly let yourself judge correctly and do the right thing over and over again. There is no such thing as a savior. You are your own savior. I believe this is also the original intention of the author to name this book.
Second, "anti-vulnerability."
In this book, the author lists an anti-fragile image metaphor. A glass fell to the ground and broke, which belongs to fragility, while a plastic cup fell to the ground and did not break, which belongs to firmness. Imagine that a cup fell to the ground, not only didn't break, but also became two. The cup is fragile-proof at this time. The author wants to tell us that the world is full of uncertainty. You may lose your job because of the economic crisis, but if you are resilient, you can benefit from the crisis. The author gives four operation steps: anti-fragility, 1 and identifying fields. For example, your job may face the risk of being eliminated, unemployed and replaced by machines because of professional characteristics and competition. You need to have anti-fragile thinking. 2. Create possibilities. For example, use off-duty time to recharge, learn one more B skill and try a part-time job. 3. Confirm the barbell strategy. The company is poor, its income is halved, and it faces the risk of being laid off. At this time, B skills can reduce unemployment losses and maintain income balance. 4. Yes or no, deny the wrong option. Of course, not all the skills you choose are suitable for you. You should constantly try to filter out skills that you are not good at. In short, you should give yourself a variety of choices and seek to minimize the loss when an accident occurs.
Third, "a world without complaints".
The author of this book tells us that complaining is the most energy-consuming and useless behavior, and it is indeed the case. You think complaining is a sign of dissatisfaction with life. In fact, in most cases, you will only keep complaining, because complaining is actually putting all the mistakes on others. Without letting yourself take action to change the status quo. Modern people are rich in material things, but feel that life is very tired. It's not that life itself is very tired, but that you are in an environment full of complaints. For example, you can find a bracelet and a hair band to wear on your hand. When you realize that you have the idea of complaining, take off the bracelet and take it to the other hand. Repeat this action as long as you complain until your complaints gradually decrease. Also, you can post a notice at home. It is stipulated that this is a place where complaints cannot be made. I hope that all family members will abide by the regulations and list the corresponding punishment measures.
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