What should parents do if their children are undisciplined in class and refuse to change their education methods?

First of all, children are not born to be disciplined. Children are taught by adults to observe discipline. In the face of children with poor classroom discipline, parents should reflect on whether their children receive too little or too much attention at home. Children who pay too little attention will get others' attention in a destructive way. Children who pay too much attention will want to extend this highly concerned model to schools. So spend more time with children, pay attention to them, let them feel love and attention, and gradually help them get rid of bad habits.

What should parents do if their children have poor classroom discipline?

1, parents set an example and set a positive example. Children's problems are more the result of family education. When children have problems, our parents should first reflect on themselves and find their own problems. Children's problems are often the crux of family education and the shadow of parents.

2. Communicate with children repeatedly to help them correct. Teachers can only be the disseminators of knowledge, while parents are the most important guides of children's behavior, and parents are the head teachers of children's lives!

3. In daily life, we should also instill discipline in children, such as not talking loudly in public places, not running and fighting in the library, so that children can learn to be disciplined from an early age.

4. It will only be counterproductive to beat and scold severely at will.

5. Cultivate and establish children's awareness of rules at home and let them know what to do at school. And tell the children why they should obey the rules. What inconvenience will non-compliance bring to everyone? Before the child goes to school, make an agreement with the child about what to do in class. If the teacher can't talk, eat or make small moves in class, then listen to the teacher carefully.

6. Don't spoil your child too much. When a child makes a mistake, you should criticize and educate him in time. Most of the children's behaviors are caused by their parents' doting, which makes them feel that I am the only one in the world, and gradually develops a arrogant situation. Parents should stop their children's behavior in time, correct their children's wrong behaviors and words in time, and give them some criticism and education.

7. Cooperate with teachers, unite home and school, and don't pin all your hopes for strict discipline on teachers. I see that many parents think so, and they all want teachers to be strict with their children. However, while asking teachers to be strict with their children, they are also conniving at them. The teacher's sternness is useless to children.

8. Parents should be patient. Rome was not built in a day, and children's poor discipline was not formed overnight. If you want to change, you have to train slowly. For example, go home every day and let him practice meditation for ten minutes; You can also let your child practice calligraphy and write quietly for ten minutes. Time can be extended slowly until the child slowly learns to be disciplined.