First of all, I think there are mainly the following reasons:
1. Many college students study hard to get into college. After entering the university, they are no longer bound and can only rely on self-discipline. They no longer study hard, have no goals and plans for future employment, which leads to the inconsistency between the future they want and the present situation. While thinking that studying hard can have a good future, I can't help but feel unwilling to study and fall into an anxious state. The end result is that college students are generally confused.
Nowadays, most college students are only children with good family living conditions. Because of their parents' doting, their practical ability is not strong. Many students' ability stays in the knowledge of books, and only when they really need to solve problems do they find that their ability is insufficient, so that they know that they will grow up and be independent, but they don't know a lot of common sense in life.
3. Impetuousness and quick success in employment mentality, requirements: good position and high salary. But they are dissatisfied with the present situation and unwilling to work hard. They clearly know that a college diploma is only a stepping stone to finding a job.
4. This kind of college students seems to be a large group of college students. Compared with the glamorous resumes of famous students, they have no advantage at all. Some enterprises even directly stated in the recruitment notice that they would not accept non-985, 2 1 1 fresh graduates. They know that ordinary universities also have good students, but the social environment is like this, and they have to choose. Compared with some colleges, it is said that having a bachelor's degree should have some advantages, but this is not the case. They would rather have some students without a bachelor's degree but with some internship experience. So we must make more efforts to get more certificates and higher degrees. Maybe these are not what we really want. In the face of unfair treatment, we often feel confused and don't know why we have to work so hard.
Second, what should college students do if they are confused?
"The ivory tower is lush, and the wild fire burns all over the adult world." It's no use being confused. Stand up straight and move towards the light. Even on your knees, you will reach the finish line.
1. First consider what you want to do in the future, scientific research, management, entrepreneurship, technology or marketing.
Ask yourself what you really want first, and then make a plan. What should you do now!
When you gradually know what you want, you will be more aware of what you should do now.
When you don't know what you want, the most important thing is to learn your major well and improve your comprehensive quality and ability (eloquence, interpersonal communication, emotional intelligence, analyzing and solving problems, etc.).
Third, specific practices.
1, learn English well
Have you passed CET-4 and CET-6? Did you get high marks? I won't say much about how important English is in my later life. Knowing a language must be a big advantage for you. With the basic ability of the first half, there will be more choices in the second half. If you really don't know what college is for, then study English well. Once people are busy, there is no time to be confused.
2. Improve your writing ability.
The ability to express words here is not the ability to write articles and novels, but the ability to express one's ideas concisely. Any job requires strong writing skills, and there is no harm in practicing more.
3. Master a skill.
Such as ps, secondary office, video editing, etc. You must have a martial arts when you come out to mix.
4. Don't care too much about other people's lives.
When we were young, we were often compared with other people's children by our parents, but when we grow up, we often compare ourselves with others, which is not unique to our parents. People should keep a certain distance from other people's lives. Others have other people's goals and growth paths. Don't look at what others do, ask what others do, and who can give the answer of the person in charge except yourself.
Don't always stay in the dormitory.
Everyone knows how the ecological environment of the dormitory is, and it is an effective way to reduce attention to let yourself fall into some specific contradictions! ! ! What's more, it's nonsense to say that you want to study in the dormitory. It doesn't exist.
Finally, don't always say "what do you want to do", it doesn't make any sense. It's best to master some basic abilities and have the ability to catch something you really like when it comes.
Four. abstract
Confusion is nothing more than the inconsistency between reality and ideal. Four years of college is a golden world, so we might as well try harder, stick to the careful precipitation of our initial heart and don't be anxious. We should make steady progress instead of rushing for success. Finally, you will find that under countless days and nights, the frozen soil will also grow delicate roses.