1, self-esteem does not abandon others.
"People speak their destiny and respect themselves as much as a thousand." People who know how to respect and cherish themselves are more likely to be respected and cherished. A person who can love himself will love others. No one wants to stay away from and abandon a round and lovely person, and society will not abandon and abandon anyone worthy of respect.
Self-motivated people are not lazy.
"Internal cause is the decisive factor" is the essence of philosophical thought. As the saying goes, "anyone who pretends to sleep can't wake up." Any outside help is a kind of assistance. Only self-motivation, self-motivation, diligence and perseverance are the true meaning of sustainable growth.
Self-disciplined people will not die.
Self-discipline is far superior to heteronomy. There is a hot word on the Internet: "The world is rewarding those who can exercise self-discipline". Indeed, self-discipline is the best practice, or life, or career, or growth. The more self-discipline, the better and more successful.
4, self-knowledge is not confused.
He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise. People are self-aware. Only by correctly understanding and understanding ourselves, accurately evaluating and positioning ourselves, can we not be confused and lost, especially be good at discovering and facing up to our own shortcomings, so as to make up for and improve ourselves and grow continuously.
Modesty does not offend others.
A modest gentleman will make people look up. Su Dongpo, a writer, calligrapher and painter, even ridiculed himself that "no talent and no knowledge, only one stupid word" is even more admirable. On the other hand, arrogant people offend people because their abilities are too strong and their eyes are above the top.
6. Self-improvement is not weaker than others.
"Heaven is healthy, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement". Self-improvement is a kind of self-reliance, not afraid of weakness, not afraid of bad situation. Through unremitting efforts and dedication, rise up in difficulties and setbacks and spontaneously "don't whip yourself." Diligent practice, persistent struggle, and achieve a strong self.
7. introspection does not blame others.
Confucius said, "Visit the body three times a day", "Think about the spirit when you see the sage, but not the sage for introspection". To err is human. We must always carry out self-evaluation, self-reflection, self-criticism, self-adjustment and self-education in order to correct the positive, find out the missing, fill in the blank, correct the right and wrong and cultivate our self without being severely criticized by others.
8. Self-reliance is not done by others.
"Do what you can and be self-reliant." Madame Curie once said, "You have to walk on your own to get wider and wider." Although you can't live in solitude all your life, you can't "do everything in Dont Ask For Help", but you can't rely too much on and depend on others, otherwise you will be subject to others and everywhere.
9. Confident people are not worse than others.
Einstein said, "Self-confidence is the first step to success". Edison said, "Self-confidence is the first secret of success". A confident person must have real strength, otherwise he is blind and confident. People have as much confidence as they have ability. Confident people are always confident, neither supercilious nor condescending.
God helps those who help themselves, and winners help themselves. You are the master of life, and your dream can only be realized through your own efforts. Read these nine "self" secrets well, and you can constantly improve yourself and get everything you want!
(This article has been launched on Baijia)-Author's Note