It's understandable to expect a child to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix, but many education and training institutions have grasped the psychology of parents and offered extracurricular training courses regardless of their academic qualifications and education level.
My child attended a writing training class. He learns both hard pen and calligraphy. He was just in the first grade, and I don't think his posture of holding the pen is quite correct. But his parents reminded him never to listen, so I sent him to the training class, hoping that the teacher in the training class would teach him the correct posture.
I didn't expect how well he really studied. For the original purpose, I just corrected his pen-holding posture. As for the effect, we will wait and see. If I learn well, I will continue to let him learn.
Unfortunately, we paid the fee for two months and went for two days every weekend. After two months, the child's pen-holding posture hasn't changed at all, and his writing is very sloppy, let alone calligraphy.
This made me very dissatisfied, so I asked the teacher who was training at that time. I made it clear when I said I'd come to pay the bill, that is, let him change his pen holding posture. Why hasn't it changed at all? As a result, the teacher retorted that you came too little and paid two months' money. Can you come every day? What wonderful logic is this? The training effect is not good, and we are to blame for coming too little. Isn't every child free to do homework after school? Do you still come to practice writing every day?
I'm really angry to hear them pass the buck like this. But I can't. I have paid the fee and the time has passed. Although it's useless. My colleague's children signed up for a writing class near their community. Others are really responsible for one-on-one, and they write very well and neatly. It can be seen that there are still relatively good training institutions. By contrast, our training is really pleasing. I really hope that the relevant departments can control the chaos of education and training.