After tasting a work, I believe everyone has gained a lot. You can't just watch. Write a review. So can it really be written? The following is my feedback (5 selected articles) on the cooperation between 2022 School and Lide Shu Ren for your collection. Welcome everyone to learn and refer, I hope it will help you.
Home-school cooperation Lide Shu Ren feedback 1 (1) Parents set an example for their children, the school guides them attentively, and both sides make joint efforts.
We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are the best role models for children. Only when they do it themselves will the children follow suit. If it is only reasonable, but the ego can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the failed education will not work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't understand how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example, which made him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, under the inculcation of the father and the school teacher, the child has not only made progress in his studies, but also made gratifying progress in other aspects and became a sensible good child.
(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.
My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.
(3) Cultivate children's interest, interest is the best teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that if you can play, you can also play new tricks, such as making slides for other children. What a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English at present. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I don't understand my son's Chinese very well, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.
(4) Punish children appropriately, guide them with your heart, and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. After we understood, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son, pointing out that it was wrong for him to hit me, and my son admitted his mistake. At the moment, my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is very enjoyable.
As parents, we actually grew up with our children. We think we have influenced and nurtured our children. In fact, our children are constantly influencing and teaching us to improve ourselves and be more qualified parents. Every child's characteristics are different, and every parent has a set of educational methods that are most suitable for their children. Let's share two or three experiences on my family's educational methods.
First, cultivate people's personality.
Parents lead by example. When they meet neighbors and acquaintances, they will take the initiative to say hello. Children have also developed this good habit of being polite and are often praised by neighbors, so they know how to respect others better.
As long as children like to do things, encourage them to try boldly. For example, run for class cadres, encourage her to participate bravely, take responsibility bravely, be a teacher's little assistant and help her classmates.
When a child encounters difficulties and setbacks, encourage her to face them bravely. Sometimes the exam results are not ideal, and the children will be a little depressed. We will educate her that one or two exams can't represent everything, and it is also a good thing to have wrong questions. You can find out the problems in your unit and then understand them, so that you won't make the same mistakes again in the future. You don't need to take scores too seriously. Hard work and serious process are far more important than grades.
We will also take the opportunity to share and discuss some social events with our children at home, hoping that she will realize that this society also has bad sides, so as to better protect herself, have a healthy mind and psychology, be physically and mentally healthy, and grow up better.
Make friends with children, don't oppress them with their parents' majesty, and let them share anything happy and unhappy with their parents. Occasionally, I will show weakness and take the initiative to seek comfort and protection from my children, so that my children can learn to be considerate and care for their parents and family.
Second, cultivate persistent quality.
Eight years of learning the piano not only cultivated children's specialties, but also tempered their persistent qualities. One lesson a week, one practice every day, each grade exam, repeated practice, bit by bit progress.
Tagore said: "It is not the beating of iron that turns rough stones into beautiful pebbles, but the singing and dancing of water." In today's era of rapid development and diversification of various new things, education is an unavoidable problem for every family and even the whole society. Family is the cradle of children's growth, and family education is the foundation of the whole education. After becoming a mother, I have been exploring ways to educate my children. I have read a lot of relevant educational theories, but there is often a certain gap in practice. After carefully watching the open class of family education "home-school education, moral education", two experts made in-depth analysis and explanation, which gave me a deeper understanding of the essence and connotation of family education. At the same time, I also realize that I still have many shortcomings and problems in the process of educating my children. Here are some thoughts and feelings to share with you.
First, we should attach great importance to the far-reaching significance of family education. "Hemu was born in a milli; In the systematic project of talent training, family education is the basic project, and the quality of family education will directly affect the prosperity of the nation and the motherland. Family education is an important part of the national education system and the foundation, supplement and extension of social education and school education. Educator Cai Yuanpei said: "Family members are the first school in life. "
Family education will accompany and influence people's life, which is very important for their growth and success. The quality of family education is closely related to the fate of society, the country and the health of the next generation. Children are a big tree, social education is its branch, school education is its backbone, and family education is its foundation. If the branches and leaves of the tree are removed, the tree can still live. If a part of the trunk is cut off, the tree can still live, but can the tree live without a foundation? Therefore, as parents, we should fully understand the significance and far-reaching influence of family education, consciously do a good job in children's education, fulfill parents' responsibilities and obligations, and do our duty to protect children's growth.
The second is to continuously improve the knowledge and ability of family education. Family education is a complex systematic project, a science and an art. Correct family education, such as bathing in the spring breeze, permeates children's life. The post-80s parents are a generation that pays attention to family education. On the road of educating children, they no longer rely on experience and feelings, but seek more scientific and wise ways.
Home-school cooperation and Lide Shu Ren's reflection 4 Children are innocent and pure, and their brain development is not only affected by basic genetic effects, but also has a great relationship with their childhood life experiences. If parents don't let their children realize that it takes great efforts to make contributions, and children encounter many difficulties in the process of studying hard, they will think that they can't be the kind of person their parents say, and they will feel depressed and sad, which will seriously affect their confidence in making progress and seeking knowledge. Therefore, parents should help their children to establish correct values! Let's share some ways to establish children's correct values from our own family education experience!
1. Create adversity and sharpen children's perseverance. Don't spoil children, you can create some setbacks and test their perseverance.
2. Let the children strictly ask the children from overcoming small difficulties, and let the children overcome difficulties gradually, and must persist until they are effective.
3. Play a role model and inspire self-exercise. According to the characteristics of children, parents can tell stories, watch movies, go to the Martyrs Memorial Hall and read books. Let children learn typical characters, inspire self-education and cultivate perseverance.
4. The combination of love and strictness The correct love for children is the basis for cultivating children's good character. If parents want to love their children properly, they must unify love and strictness. Parents are strict with their children in behavior quality, and children will certainly suffer, but in the long run, it will help cultivate their good character. Fear of children suffering, too accommodating to children, may lead to Japan, their willfulness and dependence are strong, and they can't suffer in their later lives. In fact, whether children will be happy in the future is more influenced by their personality.
Helping children to set up lofty ideals is the core of personality. Ideal is a conscious pursuit gradually formed in children's minds through the inspiration and guidance of parents, teachers and society. Parents can't set goals, set ideals and impose them on their children. The child is naive. They often want to be a writer when they grow up, because they read an article that touched them, and they want to be a scientist, because they visited a natural museum. They may decide to be teachers when they grow up, because they met an amiable and lovely teacher. Don't easily deny these ideas of children, but encourage them to be positive and ambitious. With the growth of age, according to the emergence of different advantages of different children, we will gradually guide them to develop in the right direction.
6. Pay attention to the cultivation of dripping water and see the sunshine from daily chores. It is not enough to talk about the director of the avenue to cultivate children's sound personality. It is important to start from daily life.
Home-school Cooperation and Lide Shu Ren's Post-evaluation 5 First, pay attention to a good family environment and cultural atmosphere, and lay a good foundation for children's growth.
Children grow up in the family, just like a small tree growing in nature. A good natural environment is conducive to the growth and rapid growth of trees. Similarly, a good family environment and atmosphere will promote the healthy and happy growth of children. Therefore, I attach great importance to the construction of family cultural atmosphere and the construction of learning families. Although my house is small, it has a strong cultural atmosphere. In my life, books are my friends and learning is my habit. As long as I have time, I will study and study every day, so that my children can be influenced by me. This influence is subtle, and it is a long-term contact and edification. Now my children love reading, which is probably influenced by me. Why are children affected? I think it has something to do with herd mentality. For a phenomenon, children first follow the trend and then form a habit. Especially living with children for a long time, can he be free from your influence? The so-called "near Mexico is black, near Zhu Zhechi is black". Therefore, as parents, it is not only the responsibility of parents, but also the hope and future of children. This should become a law: responsible parents will certainly cultivate successful children!
Parents should tap their potential to the limit, and every potential is a rare element for children's growth. Every parent has the advantage of children's learning, and this advantage is your potential. We should turn these advantages into sunshine, air, water, soil and nutrients for children's growth to moisten and nourish their hearts.
I like China traditional culture, such as seal cutting, calligraphy, Chinese painting and flute playing. I think these hobbies are very beneficial to children's growth. Learn seal cutting and practice calligraphy and painting as soon as you have time. Although I may not let my child do this in the future, I think such a family environment must be beneficial to him. The home is permeated with the taste of scholarly culture. This kind of breath will penetrate into the child's mind and affect his behavior. Sometimes, I will make a painting with my child to let him feel the charm of traditional culture. Moreover, you can also take the opportunity to educate your children. Once, my child asked me to teach him seal cutting, so I gave him a piece of Yin Shi and told him how to do it. The child took the stone and carved it carefully, but he couldn't. Finally, he said, "I didn't expect seal cutting to be so difficult." I said to him, "it is not easy to do anything, but it takes effort, not just enthusiasm, to do it well." In this way, in daily life, I entertain the host and let him understand things.
Second, communicate on an equal footing and form a friend-type parent-child relationship.
In enterprise management, it is considered that "communication is more important than power". I think communication in the family is more effective than scolding. The mistake we are prone to make is that once a child makes a mistake, such as doing homework wrong or doing homework too slowly, our parents' emotions will suddenly become impatient, and some parents will even punish their children. In fact, this kind of education method is wrong. Can't you reason with children and communicate on an equal footing? Only when you treat your child as an independent and dignified education object can your child accept your point of view. We are both parents now. If we were scolded or beaten by our parents when we were young, we don't want to remember now. On the contrary, what we want to remember most is how our parents patiently communicated with us on an equal footing. Therefore, when we educate our children, we should not be too simple and rude. The more you try to deal with the problem simply, the more complicated the child's problem will become. And now children around the age of ten are prone to rebellious psychology. Therefore, equal communication is more effective than reprimanding. I remember once I had an in-depth conversation with my child about his homework and taught him to overcome his carelessness. In the future exams, he worked hard and his grades improved. Equal communication can help him find the crux of the problem and help him find a solution to it.
My relationship with my children is very friendly, completely a friend relationship. This harmonious father-son relationship will be beneficial to his growth. We often discuss, play chess, sing, draw pictures and fly kites together. I also wrote an article "In spring, my son and I fly kites together". This article tells the story of me and my children flying kites, telling children that they will encounter setbacks in the process of growing up, learn to face setbacks, walk against the wind like kites and fly high for nine days!
It is with equal communication that I can grow up with my child, feel the process of his spiritual growth and appreciate his spiritual world! In fact, on the one hand, I can't grow up without children. Children are also educating me, because children will urge me to constantly improve myself! At this point, I have to thank my children!
Third, strict requirements, emphasizing not only to study hard, but also to pay attention to being a person.
The education of children should not only focus on learning, but also on all-round development, especially learning to be a man. In learning, it is mainly to cultivate children's good study habits. For example, in composition writing. I first ask children to learn to observe people or things in life carefully. Catch with your eyes and feel with your heart. Sometimes I will teach children how to observe things, grasp their characteristics and describe them in words. My child's composition has never been written directly in the exercise book. I have to draft it first, and then revise it. He basically did it all by himself. In the process of revision, I explain the writing method from the aspects of conception, conception and language expression. In this way, his writing level has been continuously improved. In addition, I also bought some good books for my children to read, to enhance their literary perception.
We are strict with our children, pay attention to educating them on the little things in daily life and cultivate their good moral quality. Teach him to honor his parents, respect others, learn to be polite and be grateful. The child wrote an essay "Deep Motherly Love". His mother was very moved after reading it. She feels that the child has realized his mother's love for him, which shows that he has a grateful heart.
Family education is a long-term task and a meticulous work. As long as you work hard, you will see the hope of success and the children's tomorrow!
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