In a blink of an eye, the college entrance examination has been over for more than a month. Fortunately, in this college entrance examination, you played normally and played your own level, so it should be no problem to go to college. You have also fulfilled your original ambition and won the stage of life.
However, one month after the college entrance examination, I still want to say a word to you after watching your performance.
First, don't relax yourself. After a short rest, you should continue to work hard.
The race of life has just begun, and the college entrance examination is only the first step of the long March. When you graduate from high school, it also marks that you have reached adulthood. Legally speaking, you already have your own rights and obligations, and you have the obligation to make your own contribution to your family and society. Don't be satisfied with the status quo, keep learning and cultivate your learning ability. Dad once told you that the college entrance examination is only the first exam in your life, and there will be many exams in the future, such as exams for various subjects in universities, qualification exams for future units, professional title exams and so on.
Judging from the driver's license test I reported to you recently, I didn't expect such a simple subject. I took it twice and haven't passed it yet. It's not that you have no strength, but that you don't study hard. Everything in the world is difficult. It's not difficult to learn. You didn't invest a certain amount of time and energy. Don't expect to pass any exams easily.
Second, cherish time and learn more useful things for your future development.
Don't indulge in some online videos and games. Learn more skills in life while you are young. Whether you study writing, calligraphy, music, driver's license, cooking and fitness, these will be used in the future. As long as you concentrate on your studies, your efforts will not be in vain.
Don't waste time easily. Time is like running water, slipping away from you unconsciously. Dad doesn't object to your getting together with classmates, nor does he object to your traveling for fun. But in time management, we must have the concept of cherishing time. Youth is easy to lose, youth is easy to die. For you, four years in college is fleeting, and you will feel something later. If you don't cherish time, you will only leave regrets for yourself in the future. Time is as precious as a person. Don't take your time seriously.
Third, strive to improve their abilities in all aspects.
I have told you many times that dad has high expectations for you. Dad wants you to be a very, very good child. Therefore, whether it is dad's accusation or preaching, I have no dissatisfaction with you. Instead, you will hate the expectation that iron will not produce.
I hope you are excellent in all aspects, and I hope you have a high learning ability and master all kinds of skills. During my school years, I achieved excellent results in all subjects and made outstanding contributions to society. I can be promoted step by step in my career and reach the peak of my life. I can make my parents proud, and I don't waste my training for you over the years.
Fourth, take care of your body.
For a young man, you may not realize the importance of your body. But dad tells you that the world does not belong to rich people or powerful officials, but to a healthy and progressive person. Keeping healthy will give you more confidence and ambition to start a business. Many people give up their ideal goals because of poor health.
Having a healthy body also needs to be paid. Those who insist on running on the playground every day are persevering people, and those who pay attention to exercise every day are also super-self-disciplined. Some people, his body is not bad, but in order to pursue better, in order to pursue their own stronger body, in order to prepare for the heavy work in the future, let the hardships of starting a business have a strong backing.
Dad lets you go out to run and play ball every day, just for your health. When you go to college, you must put your health first, take an active part in various sports activities, pay attention to improving your physical fitness, and lay a solid physical foundation for your future career.
Fifth, always keep an enterprising heart.
University life just provides you with a platform to study in a higher field. Going to college doesn't mean that you can do it once and for all, let alone play and indulge yourself. On the contrary, we should set higher goals for ourselves. In college, you must be more strict with yourself, because college is different from high school, there is no teacher to supervise you, and learning depends entirely on yourself. Know as many like-minded students as possible and associate with motivated people. Learn more knowledge, learn more skills, stay away from friends who have no ambition, knowledge and skills, look up to excellent classmates and ask teachers for advice.
You should establish your own world outlook and outlook on life, distinguish between good and evil, beauty and ugliness, and see through the essence of human nature. All these require you to read a lot, get in touch with the society and get into the habit of reading a book regularly every week. External beauty can be dressed up by clothes, while internal beauty can only be improved by reading. As the saying goes, reading more books will greatly enhance your temperament
Sixth, be a responsible person.
As a boy, you must know the importance of the word "responsibility". You can ignore feelings, but you must emphasize responsibility. As a child, you have the responsibility to honor your parents. As a student, you have the responsibility to respect your teacher. As a friend, you have the responsibility to help others. As a man, you have the responsibility to take care of your wife or girlfriend in the future.
In front of parents and teachers, you must be in awe, listen carefully to parents' warnings and teachers' persuasion, think carefully about everything I say to you, and don't turn a deaf ear to what parents and teachers say as orders. If you are not afraid of anyone, you will not listen to them. In the end, you will suffer. Remember that all freedom is based on constraints.
Regarding dating and dating, if you are destined to meet your sweetheart, you should be able to take care of your girlfriend and have the desire to help each other in the same boat. If you just want to have fun, don't say it. Whether you spend time or energy, there is a price for you. Try to attract by strengthening your own strength, and don't flatter each other.
Son, your ship of life has set sail. Set sail boldly. The voyage will not always be calm, and there will be strong winds, huge waves and reefs at any time. You must always be vigilant and take precautions in advance.