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When I was working along the coast, almost all the company employees lived in the factory because they were far away from home. The concept is not very strong. After working in the Mainland, I slowly discovered that this is actually an issue that deserves great attention in the enterprise.
In less than a year, I have hired more than 100 employees. Most of them, I will take a look and talk to them. One of the questions I often ask is: "How far is your home from here? Why do you want to come here to find a job?" 95% of the answers I get are that it is close to my parents and I can take care of them.
But in fact, I see that they are at the company and only go home once every two or three weeks. Sometimes I have a few days off and watch them stay in the dormitory to play. I thought they were far away from home and couldn't go back. After asking, I found out that the farthest place was only two or three hours' drive away, and most people were less than an hour's drive away from home.
Far or near, in my mind, it has not been a problem for a long time. Modern transportation is so developed that it takes nearly 800 kilometers an hour to fly; 300 kilometers an hour to take a high-speed train; more than 200 kilometers an hour to take a train; more than 100 kilometers an hour to take a car; and more than 5 hours an hour to walk. kilometer.
However, I only went there for two hours during a lazy nap on Sunday morning. If I lingered longer, washed and washed, lost everything, wandered around, went downstairs, forgot my wallet, and went up, When I got down, I forgot my phone again, and went back again, and again, it lasted three hours. In just a short time, I can fly from any inland city to almost anywhere in China. You can even fly from Qingdao to Osaka, or from Shanghai to Tokyo.
This really corresponds to a poet's poem: "The heart is close, and the world is so close; the heart is far, and the world is so close."
As for being close to home, you can take care of your family, or let your family The idea of ??having a sense of security is, to a rough listen, correct. If you think about it carefully, that's not actually the case. As long as the family members are healthy and have no serious problems, then the so-called care is actually to give the family members a sense of psychological comfort or security.
But we often ignore these. I often see that many people stay close to home and stay away from home playing games all night on weekends. Instead, their parents bring food to them on Sunday morning. Or if you have a disagreement or fight with someone else, let your parents handle it through the relationship. Or if you have a disagreement with your boss and complain to your parents when you go home, you are in a wolf's den. Your parents are worried and secretly go to treat you. Or even changing jobs every three days, causing parents to put down their dignity and go around looking for jobs through connections. Is this taking care of your family? No, it is to be taken care of and to make the family worry.
In a company I once worked for, the boss was a Malaysian Chinese. He has seven offices around the world and spends more than half of his time flying around every month. When I was with him, I found that no matter how busy he was, he would call his family every night. If relatives or friends get married or have something to do, no matter how busy he is, he has to fly back to attend.
I also worked with him at the headquarters in Penang for a period of time. He likes to grow flowers, and he takes them out by himself every morning, watering them, and pruning them. He also placed a small pot of flowers and plants on everyone's desk in the office. If the plants were not well maintained, he would help deal with them. I also went to his house. As soon as he walked in, he started mopping the floor, feeding the fish, and watering the flowers. Family or friends all think that he is the most trustworthy person, and they come to him whenever they have any difficulties. But this seems to have nothing to do with distance.
Some people also told me that they are rich people. How much salary do we earn per month? How can you withstand such a torment? Yes, for ordinary employees who earn one or two thousand a month, it is not realistic to fly or train home every week. But taking care of your family and reassuring them does not necessarily mean running home to see you in person, but making them feel at ease in their hearts.
Make a phone call every day, or every week, to chat with your parents, talk about work, talk about life, and make your parents feel that your parents seem to be around you. It can always be done, right? (m.taiks.com) Sometimes, the most important thing parents hope for their children is to be healthy and safe, but not all of them may be rich and famous. The same goes for how we care for our parents.
Life is so long. As long as a person can still do things by himself, there is no need for us to forcefully take the things from his hands and do them himself. For parents, this kind of care is completely unnecessary. When we work outside, we must truly grow and surpass ourselves so that our parents feel a sense of accomplishment. When we handle public and private matters, we are mature and appropriate, making our parents feel at ease and at ease. Treat your relatives and friends with sincerity and honesty, making your family members feel reliable and dependable.
No matter who or your family around you, when an accident or misfortune occurs, you can immediately provide them with comfort, help, and spiritual support, making them feel that there is a pillar of support deep in their hearts. Support, you will never fall...
These are the things that are truly close to home, and this is the real care for your family.