How should primary school students choose interest classes?

Brainwashed by the concept of "don't let children lose at the starting line", parents want to cultivate their children into all-round talents with "all-round knives and sharp knives", but what puzzles parents is that children are uncertain and let them learn, fearing that it will be a waste of money for three minutes; Don't let them learn, for fear of accidentally burying a genius ... So, how should we find children's interests? Do you want to cultivate their interest? ◎ Parents Blog I accompany my children to remedial classes. My daughter, Yun, started to go to Grade Two. Every few days, when she starts to sign up for interest classes, she always says to me, "I want to join any interest classes." Children's energy, time, perseverance and enthusiasm for sticking to one thing are limited. After weighing all aspects, I signed up for her painting this semester and went to school every Saturday morning from 10: 30 to 12: 00. Today is the first class of this semester. The teacher asked each child to draw a picture of anything, which can be regarded as a bottom. I glanced at Yun Yun next to her and saw that she couldn't hold back for a long time. In less than two minutes, she drew a beautiful sheep with the sun, trees, white clouds, grassland and white rabbits as the background. She is fascinated by this animation these days. She can't do anything without those sheep. The children drew one by one, and the teacher posted some pictures on the blackboard to comment. Yun Yun's pictures were also in it. Eight photos were posted, six of which were set against the sun and white clouds. The teacher said that we should use more imagination, not just confined to the sky and grass, and did not comment on her favorite beautiful sheep. This can be said to be a blow to Yun Yun, because everyone praised her paintings at school and at home. After class, the teacher came up to Yun Yun and said that your painting is actually quite good. You should innovate on the basis of the original, because the world is infinite and everything can be painted with a brush. I believe you will do better next time. When she got home in the evening, Yun Yun said that she wanted to draw another picture. She still painted pleasant goat and beautiful goat, but there was no sun and white clouds. Yun Yun said that she should paint well and try to get the teacher to praise her next time. Through this incident, Yun Yun really took painting as his interest. I think all parents are the same. It is the most important thing to hope that your children are healthy and happy. The other is to cultivate children's hobbies in all aspects. On the premise that children like it and have the ability to cultivate her, I still hope that children can participate in all aspects. Hobbies are with them all their lives, completely their own things, and a spiritual sustenance. Li Wenjun ◎ Experts should first understand the needs of children. Expert: As a parent, teacher Jiang Hong of Kaiping Road Primary School in Qingdao must know the characteristics and main contents of each interest class in advance, so as to be aware of it; Understand the child's inner world, know what the child really thinks, discuss with the child and see what kind of interest class the child wants to attend. Choosing an interest class can first be chosen according to the actual situation of the child. If children are introverted, they can choose more enthusiastic and energetic interest classes, such as Latin dance and modern dance, so that children can feel cheerful dance music and become more cheerful and lively; Extroverted children can choose painting, calligraphy and other interesting classes that can calm people down and make their personalities complement each other. Secondly, you can choose according to your child's extraordinary intelligence. Some children show strong language talent, and we can choose interest classes such as eloquence class and writing class to exercise language function according to their characteristics. If children have excellent hands-on ability and coordination ability, they can choose interest classes with rich body movements such as manual classes and dance classes to give full play to their advantages. In addition, the most important point is the choice of teachers. This is particularly important for primary school students, especially the teaching methods and teaching atmosphere of the subject initiation teacher. The child's first teacher must be chosen! Choose a teacher who really goes to the child's heart. Such a teacher is good at guiding children's interests into learning. Have you gone into the misunderstanding of the interest class? It's been some time since school started. At this time, most parents will give their children interest classes, hoping to cultivate their children's literacy in all aspects. Indeed, it is good for children to start learning something at this age, but the mentality of hoping for children's success sometimes leads parents astray. How can we avoid these misunderstandings? Today, we invited Mr. Xue Yanting from Qingdao all the virtues School to give us some advice. Myth 1: Only pay attention to the results and ignore the process. Narrator: Ms. Zhang, her daughter always wanted her children to learn more when she was in the third grade of primary school, forcing her children to learn this and that, and didn't want her to lose at the starting line. As a result, she didn't learn many songs in a month. At first, she felt that the teacher she was looking for was not good, and the effect was still not obvious. Experts suggest that parents who learn piano only pay attention to which tune their children have learned; Parents who learn to draw only pay attention to whether their children have drawn a complete picture; Parents who learn abacus mental arithmetic only pay attention to whether their children can be fast; Parents who learn dance only pay attention to whether their children have learned to dance a complete dance. Focusing only on the results has brought great pressure to both children and teachers. In fact, teaching children, the process of learning is far more important than the result. In the process of learning, we can mobilize their various organs and senses and cultivate their various abilities. Myth 2: Going to an interest class on weekends is like rushing to tell a story: Ms. Liu, my son is in the sixth grade. This semester, I enrolled him in painting, saxophone and chess. These courses are arranged every Saturday and Sunday. Maybe interest classes take up a long time and spend less time communicating with children. I found that my relationship with my children was not as close as before, and I didn't tell us any questions when I came back from school. Expert advice: Some parents don't care how much they spend, so they sign up for one interest class after another on weekends. Children are inseparable from family ties at this age. Being with parents is the basis of their normal psychological development. If you ignore the communication between children's psychology and family ties, you will find that children become disobedient and easily angry. It is easy to have psychological barriers with children in the future, and it is difficult to communicate. Myth 3: Impose your ideals on your children. Tell me: Teacher Li, my son liked English very much since he was a child in the first grade, but the conditions of our time did not allow it, so I especially wanted my children to learn English well. In my spare time, I reported new concept English to him, hoping to make him a master of English and realize my unfulfilled dream in those years, but I found that my son was not interested in English. Have I done something wrong for this many times? Expert advice: Some parents have poor conditions when they were young and have no conditions to realize their ideals. After having children, they pinned their ideals on them. The child is an independent individual, and he has his own ideas. He knows what he likes and dislikes. If adults impose their interests on their children and let them shoulder their parents' wishes, the burden on children will be too heavy, and it will be a painful process for children to learn. Therefore, we should respect children's interests and let them choose what they are interested in. Children can learn what they are interested in quickly and well. There are parents' own ideals, or their own efforts to get close to the goal! Do you think it is necessary for children to enroll in interest classes at an early age? Guoguoma: You can report according to your child's interests, but don't be too demanding. Swallow: I think it is necessary to report, of course, not many, but few but fine. What interest classes have parents reported to their children? The legendary swordsman: My son likes modeling, so he signed up for a modeling class to exercise his hands-on ability. Guoguo's mother: I signed the children up for skating and swimming. Big cat: at present, the more successful ones are: English, swimming and art; The martial arts he urged to apply for was cancelled after I did my work; The violin he urged to apply for is expected to start next month. How do parents view the benefits of children's interest classes? Swallow: You can cultivate children's temperament and do something you are interested in after school. This is the best pastime. Guoguoma: I think if a child loves something and can stick to it from beginning to end, it is very beneficial to cultivate his self-confidence and perseverance, and he will also know the benefits of persistence. Dodoma: Personally, I think students should know at least one musical instrument. Cultivating children's understanding of music can cultivate children's temperament and greatly promote the formation of aesthetics.