In the usual study, work or life, when it comes to deeds, everyone is certainly familiar. Deeds have the purpose of summarizing the main contents or materials of advanced deeds. So what kind of deeds are standardized? The following are the main deeds of civilized parents that I have carefully sorted out. Welcome to read the collection.
The Main Deeds of Civilized Parents 1 There is an old saying in China: "A wife is virtuous and her husband is less unfortunate, and her son is filial to her mother." Hou Dongjia is such an ordinary family and a happy family of three, with his lover and a lively and lovely son. Their family, like most families, has no vigorous deeds, but they are law-abiding, respect the old and love the young, proactive, willing to contribute and helpful. Since we got married 15 years ago, we have helped each other, cared for each other, cared for each other in life and work, respected each other and respected customers. * * * isomorphism has built a civilized and healthy harmonious family.
Hou Dong is the vice captain of the transport team. He works hard. While assisting the secretary of the team leader to do a good job in production safety, he should conscientiously perform his duties, do a good job in safety technical training and quality management, and successfully complete all tasks assigned by the team. During his tenure as squad leader, the team members will be severely punished for any violation of discipline and discipline, and the effect is not very good. The occurrence of events made him fundamentally change the management of the team. After employee Guo Xibin suffered from hepatic ascites, his wife divorced him. Guo Xibin himself also has the idea of world-weariness and suicide, and he is distracted from his work by taking a flower class. After noticing his condition, Hou Dong offered to buy medicine for him and took a taxi to send him to the hospital for treatment. He also went to the team to ask for aid money to help him tide over the difficulties in life. Guo Xibin was very moved and found the courage to live again. Now I am in a stable mental state and willing to work actively. Through this incident, Hou Dongming understood that only harmony and stability, people's emotional stability, can bring a stable security situation, and employees can work with peace of mind without ideological burden. During his shift, the team ensured that there were no three violations, no personal accidents and no production responsibility accidents, and they could complete the tasks assigned to them with high quality and high standards, which reassured the leaders and satisfied the workers.
It is everyone's responsibility and obligation to honor their parents and educate their children. Old people have worked hard all their lives and should enjoy their old age. Hou Dong's father accidentally fell and fell into paraplegia at the end of 2008. In order not to affect the children's work, the old man hired several nannies, all of whom resigned because of the heavy workload and tiredness, and chatted with the old man to relax. Most of this burden falls on the shoulders of his wife Cheng Fengli. Don't think this is a simple matter, because my father-in-law lives in Yaobao and spends more than 2 hours commuting between diaobingshan city and Yaobao every day. In order to let her husband devote himself to his work, Cheng Fengli took the initiative to take up the heavy responsibility of raising children and tried to handle everything in an orderly way, without her husband worrying about children and housework. She knows that the transport team has recently undertaken the task of dismantling and transporting two working faces in the mine. Usually, her husband is very busy working underground, and he is on duty in the well to make measures. Every time her husband comes back from work, in order to ensure that he has enough sleep, she tells the child to speak softly and not to affect his father's rest. She drew the curtains tightly and even walked barefoot for fear of waking him. In the first half of May last year, I had a child with a cold and a fever of 38.5. She fell and knocked out two front teeth, but in order not to affect her husband's work, she didn't tell him until her husband came home from work for two days. My son Hou is also very smart and sensible. He goes to the third primary school by bus every day. Every day when he comes home from school, he eagerly looks at the parents who pick up their children at the school gate. How much do you want mom and dad to pick them up once? He knows that this is just an extravagant hope, because it is a dream to have a meal with his parents at a time. Only by studying hard and being a child with all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and beauty can he be worthy of parental rearing. The sixth grade of primary school has always been an award-winning major, and dozens of various awards are proof of children's efforts. In addition, he is also good at dealing with the harmonious relationship between neighbors and is ready to help others, which has won unanimous praise from everyone.
It is precisely because of such a harmonious family that a good family atmosphere and family living environment have been created, an unbreakable Great Wall of family safety has been built for mine safety production, and a model of harmonious family has been set for us. Hou Dong himself won the title of model worker of the group company for three consecutive years, and his family won the harmonious model family of Xiaoqing Mine for five consecutive years. 20 10, their family was also rated as a harmonious model family by the group company.
The main story material of civilized parents 2 When I saw that our parents were asked to write stories about excellent parents, I was really scared. As parents, we just did some due responsibilities and obligations, but the school gave us such a high honor, which is really shameful. Let's talk about our experience in educating children.
We believe that family is the first environment for children's life, and its influence plays an extremely important role in the cultivation of children's good moral behavior. Every parent is a child's first teacher and a lifelong teacher. Parents' education for their children is a useful supplement to school education. It is the urgent need and hope of every parent to cultivate their children into a person who is physically and mentally healthy, has an independent personality and is useful to society. We have paid attention to the cultivation of children since childhood, so that she can grow up healthily in a normal environment.
First, set an example and let children have a good example.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children's initial words and deeds are obtained from their parents. Usually, I insist on doing things honestly, being friendly to others, never slacking off my career, and making a mirror for my children in all aspects. And often tell children that if you want others to be good to you, you must be good to others first; As you treat others, others will treat you. Always tell children stories of doing good deeds, guide children to get along well with every classmate in the class, be good at discovering the advantages of classmates, be willing to help classmates, and let children understand that only when they like classmates will classmates like themselves. Let children develop a good style of integrity, friendliness and diligence from an early age.
Second, communicate with children often and be their mentor.
Children often have their own ideas. If they can't communicate with their children in time and effectively, they can't understand the problems they encounter on their way to growth. So every day when I get home, I will chat with my children for a while. During this time, I will listen to my child tell me how she felt during the day like a story. I got full marks in the exam and was praised by the teacher. I was criticized by the teacher for writing wrong words in my homework, and I was in a bad mood when I was in conflict with my classmates. There are several colors of flowers in school. Insist on listening to children tell their own stories every day, which sounds trivial, but listening to children's voices makes them willing to express their thoughts and opinions. Parents point out her advantages and disadvantages like friends, and if there is something, change it, and if there is nothing, encourage it. It plays a very important role in children's growth, especially for their physical and mental health.
Third, always put learning first.
Learning is the bounden duty of students, so we have always stressed to our children that learning is the first thing at any time. I cooperate with the teaching measures of the school. Usually, I actively read various educational magazines, learn good educational ideas and methods from them, get in touch with teachers and cooperate with teachers to educate children. Children begin to study formally from the first year of high school, and their study habits are very important, so I accompany them to do their homework every night, help them do their homework, recite dictation, read extracurricular books, correct their sitting posture and so on. Slowly, the children formed the habit of studying consciously. Our parents began to accompany them. When the children are doing their homework, I read my professional books, from tutoring homework to checking homework. I emphasize that the child is not serious about writing and homework, which further makes her develop the habit of consciously correcting mistakes. At the same time, in the process of accompanying children to study, I strengthened my professional knowledge. This is the best of both worlds! When children see their parents lead by example, they will follow their parents' example and study harder and harder. I often hear some colleagues say that children are doing homework and parents either watch TV or laugh loudly; Or invite a group of people to play mahjong at home. I think this is very bad for children, both physically and psychologically!
Fourth, actively participate in extracurricular activities and give children room for free development.
Nowadays, children are basically only children. Apart from going to school, there is little time to play with children at other times. Playing is children's nature. If the child's nature is artificially strangled, there will be many psychological problems, either withdrawn or arrogant. Therefore, in order not to let the child have this regret, in addition to normal study, we try to let her contact with the child and play with other children on weekends. In the youth activity center, this problem is just solved. She not only has many good friends, but also has a wide range of interests. Children have participated in piano, calligraphy, singing, painting, dancing, small hosting and so on since childhood. For these hobbies, we only ask the child to study happily and play happily, and don't force her to achieve anything. Because there is no pressure, children learn easily and happily. Children's life has become colorful, their personality has become cheerful and generous, and they are warm and friendly to children, United and friendly, helping others, and become good children that everyone likes.
Two words are particularly popular now, IQ and EQ. In modern society, it is not enough to let children compete in their studies. It is also important to let children adapt to the development of society and deal with the relationship between good people. IQ is the capital of survival, but EQ is the guarantee of quality of life. As each of our parents, everyone who has experienced it knows that only by organically combining the two aspects can children become excellent children who are fully developed morally, intellectually and physically, adapt to society and become outstanding talents in the future.
My educational philosophy is: listen to children's voices and give them free space; Share children's successes and setbacks and give them rational guidance. I am willing to work with all parents to light up their children's life course with smiles and encouragement, and be a mountain that children can always rely on.
The main deeds of civilized parents 3. Family is the first environment for children's life and plays an extremely important role in the cultivation of children's good moral behavior. Parents are their children's first teachers and their lifelong teachers. Parents' education for their children is a useful supplement to school education. It is the urgent need and hope of every parent to cultivate their children into a person who is physically and mentally healthy, independent and useful to society. I have paid attention to the cultivation of children since childhood, so that they can grow up healthily in a normal environment.
First, cultivate children's good ideology and morality, and attach importance to the growth of children's minds.
A correct outlook on life and world will affect a child's life. I teach my children to respect teachers, unite with classmates, help others, regardless of personal gains and losses, try their best to help those in need and learn to thank others, so that children can live in a world full of love from an early age. Parents' good quality and self-cultivation, good psychological quality, cultural quality and behavioral norms can subtly influence and educate their children. I work hard myself, treat my work with a positive attitude, let my children know that I take my school seriously and try not to take time off when I have nothing to do. Children have never arrived late or left early since they went to school. Every day, I always remind them to be on duty at school early. The academic performance has declined slightly. I am really happy to ask my children to consciously strengthen their practice and see their healthy and happy growth!
Second, pay attention to emotional communication with children and be their good friends.
Children are timid since childhood, so I often encourage them to enhance their self-confidence and play games with them every day, so that children can be educated in activities, cultivate their perseverance and hard-working spirit, and at the same time give them a lot of indirect knowledge. Have a heart-to-heart talk with your child once a week, make a study and physical exercise plan with your child, and exercise with your child. In recent years, through my training, my children have learned many skills, such as cycling, roller skating, skateboarding, skipping rope, kicking shuttlecock, playing table tennis, playing chess, computer, painting, calligraphy, erhu and so on. These skills have a positive impact on their future development. Through these activities, the relationship between me and my children has also been promoted. My children are willing to communicate with me and tell me the truth, which enhances the feelings between me and my children.
Third, actively cooperate with the teaching measures of the school.
Children's academic performance has improved year by year, and now they have entered the excellent ranks. At the same time, the children also actively participated in various activities organized by the school and were rated as "three good students" for many times. I cooperate with the school's teaching measures and actively read various educational magazines. Every year, I carefully read the book "For Children" subscribed by the school to parents, learn good educational ideas and methods from it, get in touch with teachers and cooperate with teachers to educate children. I insist on tutoring my children in their studies every day. At first, it was difficult for children to read and recite the text. I taught them to read separately paragraph by paragraph. After reading it for 3-5 times, I began to try to recite it. I know I have recited it skillfully many times. I also checked the children's learning content of the day in time and consolidated the review, which made the children make obvious progress in their conscious learning. The teacher asked the students to make a cuboid model. In order to make better works for the children, I helped the children to actively prepare all kinds of materials, carefully produced them with the children, and finally made solid, beautiful and practical works based on the children. I can actively cooperate with every task assigned by the teacher. The teacher asked the students to check the information, so I taught the children to check online by themselves, and I was also guiding and supervising myself. Let children actively participate in the sports meeting organized by the school.
Fourth, try to meet the requirements of children's learning and development and make every effort to create conditions for children.
Now children want to learn erhu. In order to cultivate their elegant hobbies, they have to buy erhu for their children and pay high tuition fees for teachers' guidance. The child insists on practicing hard every day. When their children took the grade examination, I accompanied them to Tianjin Conservatory of Music for the grade examination. The efforts of the children and me were not in vain. When I saw my child happy with a big certificate of six-level erhu, I felt great comfort in my heart. This is a reward for my continuous efforts. July 2008 is the most frequent time. Children and classmates hurt their fingers and can't practice erhu, so they have to stop learning erhu. The children missed a chance to compete, a great opportunity to exercise, and they were very depressed. I actively encourage children to take them to see a doctor to help them regain their confidence and cheer up. After a period of training, they will continue to practice erhu. By the fifth grade, children's English learning is more difficult. In order to make children learn better, after discussing with them, they are sent to the teaching and research section of Jinnan District every week to learn new concept English. We are gratified by every progress the children have made; I am happy for every achievement of my child! The careful care of children in life and the infinite care of children in school make children deeply understand that only academic performance is the best reward for their parents.
Fifth, cultivate children's good reading habits and teach them all kinds of knowledge.
Parents are good teachers for their children. Reading magazines and newspapers every day can make children feel directly that they can get information and happiness from words! Because I am a teacher, I also like telling stories to children. I often tell stories to my children vividly, over and over again, and I never get tired of listening to them. Sometimes it involves the knowledge of many subjects. After the lecture, there will be questions for children to repeat, and gradually cultivate their understanding and thinking ability. With the increasing amount of reading, I bought many books for my children, such as Robinson Crusoe, Naughty Bag Ma Xiaotiao, Tolstoy's Fairy Tales, Aging, etc., which helped him develop good reading habits and a wide range of interests. Through reading, children's comprehensive quality has improved, and under my guidance, children's writing level has also improved. Besides educating children to read, I also have a wide range of knowledge, because I am a teacher. From childhood, teaching children to know the maps of China and the world, reciting the national flags of 56 nationalities in China's provincial capitals, world capitals and China, astronomical geography, historical figures, biological knowledge, physical knowledge and chemical knowledge almost all involve children's education. When I saw the national flag of the athletes on TV, the children immediately said the country, which I think has a certain effect.
As a child's first teacher, I know the importance of setting an example. So I pay attention to my words and deeds and study, treat my work seriously and professionally, pay attention to my spare-time study at home, and set an example for my children to respect their posts, love their careers and be diligent and eager to learn. At the same time, I am also very concerned about children's ideological education. From an early age, I taught my children to be decent people, honest people and people who pursue faith. My educational philosophy is: after all, I am a newcomer, understanding and sharing. Give children the sky to grow up, share their successes and setbacks, and give them rational guidance. I am willing to work with all parents to light up their children's life course with smiles and encouragement, and be a mountain that children can always rely on.
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