Compared with other talented women in the Republic of China, Lin Huiyin is a lucky woman, a rational woman and a perfect woman.
She never wanted anything in her life, never gave up at the beginning, never died of old age.
In this way, she is loved, loved and spoiled by three men and envied by all women.
The most admirable thing is that she is very firm in pursuing her career and has very clear expectations for her life. Although she has been confused, she has never been confused by the so-called feelings. She knew that she was going to engage in architectural design since she was a teenager. She has been striding along this road, and even her partner has chosen an architect. What fascinates her is only her ideal and career, and men are crazy about her.
Xu Zhimo was the first man who was obsessed, mad and killed because of her.
When people talk about Lin Huiyin, it seems that they will talk about Xu Zhimo, because she is a woman that Xu Zhimo pursues all his life.
But I think Lin Huiyin handled Xu Zhimo's case very rationally and correctly.
A man who forced his first wife to have an abortion and divorce regardless of her life when she was pregnant is basically worse than an animal. If Lin Huiyin chooses him, Xu Zhimo will lose his fascination with Lin Huiyin as love falls into the boredom of life. Later, the story of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman just verified this point: Xu Zhimo is a real love rat. He thinks he is a lover, but he ruined other people's lives, including his own, of course. I just want to send him two words, what a suck!
Lin Huiyin can grow into such an excellent intellectual woman, thanks to her father.
Lin Huiyin's father is Lin Changmin. Maybe you don't know him, but you must know his younger brother: Lin Juemin. In fact, Lin Changmin is not inferior to his brother at all. He graduated from Waseda University, Japan, and was good at poetry and calligraphy. He was the chief justice of Beiyang government.
At the age of 8, Lin Huiyin moved to Shanghai with her father and entered Hongkou Patriotic Primary School. At the age of 12, his family moved to Beijing because of his father's position in the Beiyang government, and studied in Beijing Peihua Girls' Middle School run by the British Church. At the age of 16, she traveled to Europe with her father, and was influenced by the landlady architect in London, so she made up her mind to study architecture. During this period, she also met Xu Zhimo, her father's disciple, and became interested in new poetry.
It can be seen that it is precisely because her father provided her with such a platform that a young girl can meet the most advanced people and have the richest knowledge of the world. How can she not be excellent?
I have seen a lot of talented women, and basically none of them have such a sunny life as Lin Huiyin. This has a lot to do with their family of origin. So if you are a parent and you want your child to grow into an excellent person, first of all, you need an open mind, an enterprising attitude and a broad vision.
Lin Huiyin, after flatly rejecting Xu Zhimo, chose Liang Sicheng. On the one hand, it has something to do with being suitable for her, on the other hand, it actually has something to do with Liang Sicheng's kindness to her.
As we all know, Liang Sicheng is an architectural historian, architectural educator and architect.
But what you may not know is that before he met Lin Huiyin, he didn't want to engage in construction at all. It was because he fell in love with Lin Huiyin that he chose architecture.
At the age of 2, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng both went to the United States to study architecture. Both of them entered the Academy of Fine Arts of the University of Pennsylvania together, and both of them started from the third grade courses. Liang Sicheng is in the Department of Architecture of the Academy of Fine Arts. Because the Department of Architecture does not accept girls, Lin Huiyin is registered in the Department of Fine Arts. However, she still took the main courses of architecture department and realized her wish. It was this companionship that led them to get married eight years later.
Although Lin Huiyin is a rational woman, she can expose her bad temper in front of Liang Sicheng. When she is tired of drawing architectural drawings, she will stay there and wait for Liang Sicheng to help her finish.
It is common for a man to spoil a woman, but it is really rare for him to choose the same major and devote his life to her. Moreover, this move is too cruel. For a woman with a firm career, such as Lin Huiyin, no other suitor can beat her.
Therefore, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng have been close friends for the rest of their lives.
Although many people say that Liang Sicheng married Lin Zhu after Lin Huiyin's death, he is actually not as good as Jin Yuelin. But I don't think so, because when Lin Huiyin fell in love with him and Jin Yuelin at the same time, Liang Sicheng told her: "You are free. If you choose Laojin, I wish you happiness forever."
for a man with such a big mind, love is both rational and perfect for him. Now that the Sri Lankan people have passed away, why not continue to live as you like?
As Lin Huiyin said, Liang Sicheng gave her an unbearable burden in her life, and she must pay him back with her whole life.
Speaking of Jin Yuelin, this man really puts most men in the world to shame.
Jin Yuelin is the first China philosopher who used the method of western philosophy, integrated the spirit of China's philosophy and established his own philosophical system.
Lin Huiyin was moved by his love and protection, but he loved her and didn't want to burden her. He waited silently for his life until Lin Huiyin passed away, and he still did not change his mind.
It is said that Lin Huiyin died many years ago, and Jin Yuelin suddenly invited some close friends to Beijing Hotel for dinner one day. It was not until before the opening of the banquet that everyone knew that because it was Lin Huiyin's birthday, he held a banquet to celebrate her.
a man who has never married a woman is already deeply moved, not to mention his deep affection.
However, the reason why Lin Huiyin can get such love from Jin Yuelin is related to her talent and self-esteem. Jin Yuelin knows that Lin Huiyin thanks him for loving him, but Liang Sicheng is more affectionate to her, and she is a person who knows how to cherish, which may be a driving force for him to insist on waiting. More importantly, Lin Huiyin's obsession with architecture, her responsibility for her career, and her persistence in Liang Sicheng made Jin Yuelin believe that this is a woman worthy of his love all her life.
a poetic waterfall, an April day in the world.
Lin Huiyin is an eternal April day!
She loved herself with her self-esteem and got the infatuation of three men.
She did not change her original intention, and achieved such achievements in architecture.
with her talent, she got everything for a perfect woman.