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Recently, I was obsessed with the hit drama "The First Half of My Life". ? Zijun in the play spends 80 days on tenterhooks, fearing that her husband will cheat on her. Worried to the extreme, she once broke into her husband's company in full public view, suspecting that the intern was a mistress, and was scolded as "uneducated" by others.
My friends also have what Zijun has experienced, but there are still very few examples of her inspiring counterattacks after her divorce.
There is a saying that if you are unwilling to work hard, no one will be willing to wait for you where you are. Some people also say that there is no such thing as ease and comfort, it’s just that someone is carrying the burden for you. When there is a rift in a marriage, should we repair it before it becomes a big rift, find out the cause of the rift, and try to save the marriage through communication between the two people, or should we coerce him to continue to maintain the marriage by being hysterical, crying, making trouble, and hanging himself?
My friends have told me many times that if I am not afraid of being deceived, I will deceive, whether for a lifetime or for a while. When a woman notices a man's intention to cheat, she obviously doesn't want to face it, but she still enjoys looking for clues. There is a lyric that says so well that I burst into tears after knowing the truth. Some women fantasize about driving away the mistress's tenderness by making noises, and they have also thought about using cowards to win back the man's unkindness. How happy your marriage is, like a person drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold.
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My friend Xiaomei has been working hard in the big city after graduating from university. Her boyfriend Wang Xin and her were university alumni. They met at a job fair. . Xiaomei majored in teaching in college and has been engaged in education since graduation. Wang Xin was obsessed with starting a business. After working for two years after graduating from college, he felt that the education, training and consulting industry was not bad. He and Xiaomei pooled together tens of thousands of yuan, rented a larger house near a middle and high school, and started working in education and training.
It was very difficult at the beginning of starting a business. Wang Xin and Xiaomei were extremely busy, but the results were not obvious. Since this is an emerging industry, parents are not very aware of it yet. Is one-on-one tutoring really effective and expensive? Is the one-on-one personality education advocated really in line with the development of children's interests? After persisting for almost half the summer vacation, I only recruited two or three students. When Wang Xin was about to give up, fortunately, Xiaomei encouraged him all the way to persevere. Xiaomei and Wang Xin switched their work contents, and she was put in charge of planning enrollment promotions. Xiaomei's generous conversation and elegant temperament quickly conquered some parents. As the number of one-on-one tutoring training institutions increases, parents are increasingly recognizing this tutoring method through word-of-mouth. Wang Xin and Xiao Mei, two wandering hearts, come together because of the same ideals.
Xiaomei was responsible for external enrollment promotion, while Wang Xin stayed at home to focus on the quality of training. Their careers began to slowly take off. Three years later, they opened two more branches and established their own company. Five years later, they opened three more schools. Just when their career was booming, Xiaomei became pregnant again.
Xiaomei has been pregnant several times in the past few years, but she always had habitual miscarriages because she was too tired and worked overtime. In order to allow the child to be born smoothly, Wang Xin arranged for Xiaomei to stay at home to wait for the birth. But when Xiaomei was free, her weight soared rapidly in the second trimester of her pregnancy. Her whole body looked bigger, and her insteps began to swell. Wang Xin was focused on his career and didn't care much about Xiaomei, nor did he take care of Xiaomei's emotions. The two often quarreled over trivial matters, and later he simply moved to the company to sleep. One night, Xiaomei went to the company to find Wang Xin and happened to see him and a new beautiful girl working overtime at the computer. From the angle she walked in, the two figures looked very intimate from behind. She rushed over angrily. After slapping the girl, Wang Xin supported the girl and said to her angrily, are you crazy? That look was also scary and cold.
I gave birth to your baby at home, but you were fooling around outside. Xiaomei cried and gritted her teeth. Seeing that Wang Xin did not come over to explain, but instead comforted the sobbing girl, Xiaomei rushed downstairs.
Xiaomei didn’t expect that she was wearing slippers. Her foot slipped and she fell down the stairs. The child was gone, and both of them blamed themselves very much, but they still couldn't get over the hurdle in their hearts. Xiaomi also lost her fertility. They did not divorce, but Xiaomei became Xianglin's wife, nagging her all the time. She became nervous, and the company's business gradually declined.
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The neighbor Qiaoqiao also discovered some clues of her husband’s cheating when she was pregnant, but she did not choose to make a fuss and become hysterical, but instead tidied herself up even more. Exquisite and quietly appearing within the scope of her husband's career.
After the child was born, Qiaoqiao worked as a full-time mother for two years in order to take care of the premature child, but she always insisted that she must make progress. Over the past two years, she has continued to learn, she practiced calligraphy, and picked up writing, which she loved so much before. She converted her story into words with a grateful heart and published it without leaving any trace, so that the article appeared in front of her husband without leaving any trace. In the eyes of her husband, she is independent, intellectual, and elegant. Of course, he should cherish her even more!
It is difficult for everyone to hold sand in their eyes, especially when the one they love shows signs of cheating. Instead of worrying about gains and losses and being hysterical, it is better to start re-examining yourself. Do you like what you see in the mirror now? If you are a man, do you like yourself now? Think more from others' perspective, always be grateful, and be an intellectual and elegant woman.
A good marriage allows each other to grow better, rather than hurting each other. Falling in love is not easy, but it must be done and cherished. If you cherish me, I will cherish you even more. If you don’t know how to cherish me, I won’t be hysterical or give up on myself, because no one will reject their confident and elegant self.