I want my children to take interest classes, but my children don't want to take them. Will you force him to attend?

It is actually a good thing that children can be interested. If parents want their children to attend interest classes, but they don't want to, in fact, we don't have to be too reluctant, just need to guide them to change their ideas in daily life.

First, don't force children. We can think about it. When others force us to do something, we are actually very reluctant, but when we really do it, we will be lazy and not too active. Because we need to take the initiative to do things, the effect will be better. So are children. If we want her to take an interest class, but she doesn't want to, let's not force him too much. Forcing a child to attend an interest class may make him obey his parents on the surface, but in fact, there will still be some resistance in his heart.

Second, the most important thing about interest is the interest of children. The focus of interest classes is actually children's interests. It is said that interest is the best teacher. If the child doesn't want to go to an interest class, it means that he is not very interested in this matter. At this time, if we force him to go to an interest class, we are actually killing his interest. Moreover, attending interest classes is something that children need to do. If parents blindly help their children make decisions and force their children to attend classes, it is actually very reluctant. I don't think the interest learned in this way actually has much effect.

Third, respect the children's ideas. In the process of parents getting along with their children, the most important thing is to respect the children's ideas. If children are unwilling to attend interest classes, there is actually no great need for parents to force their children to attend them. Parents can change their ideas, actively guide their children in daily life, improve their interest, and let them take the initiative to choose interest classes. When doing many things, if children can choose to do it independently, then I believe the effect will be very good.