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Dear son:
It's 1 1 o'clock, and mom still can't sleep.
Tonight, I watched you lying on the table, pressing the wrapping paper and holding a brush. There were some brushes on the table.
That's my punishment for you last night, because you accidentally wrote it to watch TV. I ask you to write 10 articles carefully today.
But I saw you draw a face on it. There is ink all over the table. The ink bottle was knocked over. Ink dripped on the floor along the corner of the table. There is already a pile of ink on the floor.
I feel that I suddenly exploded and shouted at you: "You are still sleeping, looking at your masterpiece, please get up and help me tidy up before writing."
You were surprised, woke up and looked at me in horror.
"You promised me yesterday that I would write it today, but these words are uglier than others. You can still draw if you are perfunctory. It seems that the fine will be lighter. I can't write well today, please don't sleep! "
When I growled, you wiped the ink on the floor and desk with a wet towel, and then began to practice writing, for fear of being scolded by me, while drying your tears and sobbing quietly.
I heard you mutter, "Why do you want me to practice my handwriting?" What's the use of writing well? "
This word is like a person, and your word is your second face.
I ask you to practice calligraphy, because I hope you understand the meaning of persistence.
Your temper is a little hasty. I want you to practice writing. One is to make you write neatly, and the other is to hone your patience.
Because in the process of practicing calligraphy, you are practicing the patient's persistence, concentration and serious consideration, so these precious qualities are not easy to obtain.
These characteristics are exactly the necessary conditions for you to fully study the course and complete one thing, which will benefit you for life.
Your handwriting is neater than when you started practicing. The teacher praised you many times. You will find that your persistence and efforts are beneficial. Mother sees it in her eyes and keeps it in her heart.
Of course, you may not know it yet, and you don't want to hear it from me.
Just like you don't understand why I don't allow you to go out with your classmates on weekends and let you read classics and recite ancient poems at home.
No matter what you say, I won't allow you to go out to play and make you cry. After crying enough, calm down, or quietly return to the study and take out the book, but deliberately rustle the pages.
I know you are not satisfied.
When I check your recitation, if you make a mistake, I will hit your palm with a ruler.
The more you hide, the harder I work.
You're still in pain and begging for mercy.
You don't understand why I want you to read two books a week and recite five ancient poems.
But during the Spring Festival, when other children of the same age perform their talents, I will never let you recite ancient poems and menstruation to my uncle. Even if you take the initiative to recite the poem to your uncle and have menstruation, I will stop you.
I said, "What is the skill of reciting a few ancient poems? Don't be ugly."
I want you to know the mentality that the poet wants to express in ancient poems, the gratitude when he is proud, the openness when he is depressed, and the concern for the country and the people when he breaks the country. Family members are dead.
Ancient poetry is beautiful to read, but the life concept and lifestyle conveyed in it are what we really want to learn.
Mom hopes that in the future, you can naturally recite poems in rivers and mountains and truly understand the feelings of the ancients.
When I saw the beautiful scenery, what I blurted out was "lonely birds fly in the sunset, and autumn water is the same color", not just "My God, so many birds are beautiful."
I want you to recite ancient poems, because I hope you are in a good mood.
We watched the poetry meeting of the four seasons together. You never read every issue, but you read more carefully than your favorite comics.
I know you like ancient poetry, because you watch the players on the stage fly confidently in the dancing inflorescence, envious and yearning.
You said, "Mom, they are amazing. How can they recite so many ancient poems! " "
You also said, "Teacher Dong Qing is so beautiful and has a good temperament."
You will see that you can appreciate women with the word "temperament", which is a good word.
Let me tell you: "This is the so-called' you have poetry in your stomach', because you have read a lot of books and recited a lot of ancient poems, so you are very temperamental."
You want to be that kind of person, so whenever you watch a poetry conference, you will carefully write down the poems that appear in the program and remember them with great enthusiasm and speed. In peacetime, you recite poems in a completely different way.
"The boss is very sad that young and strong people don't work hard." This is the first ancient poem I taught you to recite.
I think this poem reminds you:
In this life, you are lazy when you should work hard. If you don't work hard, you will get nothing in the future.
At the school's New Year's Day cultural performance, I asked your class teacher to give you a place to perform the piano to exercise your reasons.
You are most afraid of this situation. It should be said that I am afraid of being nervous and self-deceiving.
You choose to teach yourself the piano, but after heating for three minutes, you don't want to practice it anymore.
I tell you, either continue to learn piano or refund the tuition and piano money of my piano interest class, and I agree.
Of course, you have no money to pay me back. You asked me, "You are my mother. Is it natural to spend money on me? "
Do you remember what I answered you?
I hope you remember.
"Nothing in this world is taken for granted. Even if you were my son, I would buy you something out of love, not for granted. You can be ungrateful, but you must remember this. . "
The piano teacher said that you are very talented, but it is a pity not to study.
Besides, we need to be responsible for our choices. You choose to teach yourself the piano. You can't say that you can't study without studying.
What happened afterwards?
Knowing that I was going to perform on stage, I became very strong. When everyone rehearses, you are not serious and always lazy.
So on the day of the performance, you forgot to grade halfway, and of course the performance was messed up.
You locked yourself in the school bathroom and refused to come out. The head teacher called me, and I asked your father to go to the toilet and kicked you out.
You kept coming home crying, picked up the piano board and threw it on me, crying loudly, "It's all my fault. Why should I show it and deliberately make me stupid?" I hate you! "
When you grow up and step into the society, you will find that everyone will deceive themselves, have things that they are not good at, and sometimes even be forced to do nothing. Then what should you do? Still hiding in the toilet and crying?
If everyone is unwilling to pay and just wants to sit down and applaud others, who will perform on stage?
I want you to learn piano, because you want to know that you will practice hard, let people appreciate beauty, and applaud now. You are the best person in the world. Don't let others expect you, show yourself bravely.
You wrote in your composition: "My mother is a terrible mother. She always forced me to recite ancient poems, forced me to write great people, and always made me do many things I didn't like. " I feel very uncomfortable looking at it. "
In your eyes, I am an incompetent mother and always strict with you. Now you still can't understand why your mother is so strict with you.
So I want to write you such a letter, I hope you can understand my good intentions.
As Cai Kangyong said:
/kloc-When I was 0/5 years old, I found it difficult to swim and gave up swimming. 18 years old, I met someone I like and asked you to go swimming. You have to say "I can't do it".
/kloc-When I was 0/8 years old, I found English difficult to learn, so I gave up English. When I was 28 years old, I got a good job and had to speak English. You must say "I don't know how to do it".
The more troublesome and lazy you are at the beginning of your life, the easier it is to miss people and things that fascinate you and new scenery.
Mom, I don't want to see or hear you check the deduction on the test paper one day, check the handwriting and say:
"I'm sorry, why didn't you insist on writing in the first place? Otherwise, you could write a beautiful poem without curly hair and surf the Internet."
Mom doesn't want you to watch a wonderful piano performance on the stage one day and say:
"I regret that I didn't insist on playing the piano at the beginning, otherwise I could play the piano well now."
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I don't even want to hear my lips say, "mom, why did you make me stop practicing?" It's very kind of you to force me! "
Now, you are crying while practicing your handwriting and studying.
I was in the bedroom, writing one by one, listening to your suppressed crying, and my heart began to feel.
Your future is still very long. In the journey of life, there are always countless obstacles waiting for us to choose.
Whether you practice calligraphy or piano, I hope you can stick to it, have good skills and become a person who chooses instead of being chosen.
Because life is only once, mom and dad can stay with you for a while, but not for life.
We can only find your strengths when you are young, and help you find your own strengths, and then stick to it.
Children of ordinary people must understand that if they want to win the respect of others and live a happy life, they must win a bright future with their own hands.
Everything I'm doing now is for your own good.
Enough to make us proud.