I have seen such a story before. A father in a high position doesn't write very well, so he didn't want his son to follow his old path, so he invited many teachers to practice calligraphy for his son.
after a period of time, the children's handwriting really made a qualitative leap, and the handwriting was atmospheric and beautiful, which was very popular with dad. Once, the copybook written by my son was taken to the workplace by dad, and the staff around him thought it was written by dad, so they praised him for writing beautifully.
Dad's vanity was also satisfied, and an idea was born, that is, let his son write things instead of himself, such as speeches or some documents that need to be handwritten, and everyone who saw the words would praise Dad.
On one occasion, in order to thank the leader, my father wanted to write a thank-you note by hand. He felt that the thank-you note made his son write too insincerely, so he picked up his pen and wrote two long thank-you notes.
However, when the leader saw the thank-you note, he flew into a rage and felt that he was ungrateful. The leader thought his handwriting was beautiful and he appreciated it, but now he has received such an ugly thank-you note.
But my father can't say that he has a hard time. He can't say that his handwriting is ugly, and he can't explain it to the leader. And he can't explain it. He just shoots himself in the foot.
Therefore, many parents are more concerned about their children's handwriting. When they see their children's handwriting is not neat and messy, they will be very anxious. They will sign up for some cram schools or calligraphy classes for their children, hoping to improve their children's handwriting.
Especially after children have just entered primary school, some children write fast and steadily, which looks good horizontally and vertically. However, some children write very ugly, and they write hard and seriously, but they just don't look good.
If a person's handwriting is not good-looking, the first impression will not be very good, and the handwriting like children will also suffer in the exam, and the score will be greatly reduced.
This happened to my daughter Linlin before. Obviously, the child is hard-working and studious, and she practices copybooks every day, but the written words just don't look good.
Sometimes, when children practice copybooks, they will find that their hands don't work at all, and the handwriting looks untidy.
When I saw my daughter in a hurry, I was really anxious. I asked many teachers about Linlin. Many teachers said that this was because the child's pen-running ability was insufficient and his hand-eye coordination was poor. If so, it was impossible to write well.
So, if your child is young and worried that practicing writing too early will cause muscle damage to the child, then we can exercise the child's "pre-writing ability" in advance.
There are many pediatricians who advise parents to give their children a cabbage when they play with their children, and let them tear it apart with their small hands. This is to exercise their hand-eye coordination.
or when children were young, their hands and feet were very dishonest, and they always liked to hold this and touch that. This is the development period of children's hands and eyes, and parents should start to cultivate them consciously.
However, training is not to teach children to write, but to let them hold the pen first, so write and draw on paper, and then parents will teach them how to hold the pen after a period of contact.
For children aged 2-3, parents can train their children to draw lines, practice smoothness in straight lines, control in waves and precision in circles.
For children aged 3-4, parents can train their children to draw rectangles, squares and crosses at this age, and practice their control and thinking ability.
For children aged 4-5, high-five can cultivate children to practice left and right diagonals, triangles, trapezoid, etc. depending on their age, develop children's thinking ability and precision, and let them have a clear understanding of their own strength.
First of all, children like to write with their heads tilted, or put the paper askew. When doing homework, the child's body and head are crooked, which is not acceptable. When writing, pay attention to punching his chest off the table and keeping his eyes ten feet away from the book, which is a basic posture.
Secondly, children who write homework don't like to hold their exercise books, which leads to the paper moving up and down because of the strength of writing, so that the written words are easy to be scratched even if they are not crooked.
I can answer your questions about children's psychology, education, personality and other problems. I hope my suggestions can help everyone and make every baby grow up healthily.