1, know how to think of others.
Don't care about everything, don't haggle over every ounce, and don't refuse to forgive yourself and others just because others have done something wrong to you. What is really good for yourself is to let go of others, that is, to let go of yourself. Usually, you should know how to see through other people's hearts and know how to say hello.
If you succeed, don't look down on others, if you fail, don't look down on yourself.
Be a humble and supercilious person. Even if I have nothing now, I will not feel inferior or belittle myself too much, but encourage myself. Even if I succeed now, I will not look down on others. I will try to check my own shortcomings.
3. Be good at listening to others.
Don't think about what others say before they finish. If you have an opinion about the other person's point of view, don't deny the other person's idea. Don't express your opinion until others have finished. Only in this way can we gain more friendship and true friends.
4. Respect each other's personality and ideas.
Don't talk to people in a tough tone. There are no exactly the same two leaves in the world, so we should know how to respect each other's hobbies. Even if the other person doesn't want to listen to himself, don't talk nonsense. In addition, be good at talking with each other, don't always talk about your own sadness, be good at listening to others' ideas and helping others.
5. Respect each other's privacy.
Don't argue with others about unimportant things. Each of us has something we don't want to answer, so sometimes don't push each other. If the other person doesn't want to answer, or the answer is vague, then immediately understand that the other person doesn't like to answer this question, so don't continue to say such a topic.
No matter who you like or hate, you should learn to respect others.
Respecting the enemy means that we have no enemies and are friendly to everyone. So respecting others is a kind of wisdom. To have a broad mind, to compare yourself with excellent people is to learn from others, and to learn to get along well with those who compare themselves with the poor.
7. Don't make excuses for your mistakes.
Admit what you did wrong and try to accept your own shortcomings. Only by accepting your own shortcomings can you better accept the shortcomings of others. Don't blame others too much for what they have done wrong, be tolerant.
8. If you want others to be nice to you, you should be nice to others.
If you want others to talk to you calmly, don't yell at others. When you notice something you don't like about others, make sure you don't make the same mistake when you treat others. Pass on all the good words and deeds you want to receive to others.
9. empathy.
It is difficult for us to respect other people's opinions without arguing with them. For example, if you have a conflict with someone, imagine what it would be like if you put the other person's experience and feelings on you. In this way, you can better understand their views and respond to them in a more empathetic way. Empathy is a skill that can be improved through practice. The harder you try to get to know others, the more you can be with them. For example, when you don't quite understand something or disagree with someone, ask them to explain it clearly or give you an example.
10, recognizing everyone's intrinsic value.
Respecting others does not necessarily mean liking this person. You just need to acknowledge each other's basic value as a person, no matter who they are or how they treat you. Even if you are upset or angry with someone, he is worthy of respect. When you want to control your temper and avoid being mean or unhappy, try to take a few deep breaths. Don't talk in a hurry, calm yourself down first.
1 1, the mood of others.
Even if you don't mean to hurt anyone, you may say something that will hurt or offend others. When you speak, consider how others will interpret your words. When they react or reply, acknowledge their emotions. If you are saying something sensitive, pay attention to your language. Language is very powerful, so you should be careful what you say. For example, if you want to cancel a plan and you know that the other person involved in the plan will be unhappy, then when you cancel the plan, you have to admit that the other person will be emotional. Tell him, "I'm sorry, I have to cancel our plan. I know you will be disappointed, but I will try my best to make it up to you as soon as possible. "
Be polite to others.
When you need others' help, you don't tell others what to do, but express your request politely. Politeness is actually very simple. Just say "thank you" and "please" when asking for help. Being polite to others actually shows that you respect the time and efforts of others to help you. Review some etiquette skills, such as apologizing when interrupting others' conversation, giving up your seat to others at the meeting, waiting in line, etc. Basic manners can also show respect for strangers and allow you to have positive interaction with them.
Listen carefully to others.
You should pay 100% attention when others are talking. Don't think about how to answer, listen carefully to what they say. Turn off the TV or mute the phone to minimize the surrounding interference. Practice focusing on others, not just yourself. Use some neutral answers to show that you are listening to the other person, such as "hmm", "continue" and "so". If you are distracted, ask the other person to repeat what you just said so that you can get back into the conversation.
14, wait until someone asks you, and then express your opinion.
No matter what you say is reasonable or not, no one needs to ask your advice about everything. Get into the habit of expressing your opinions only when others ask. Even if we sometimes disagree with others, we are giving them the right to make their own decisions. Expressing your opinion in everything, even unintentionally, may hurt others. For example, if you don't like your friends' objects, keep a friendly attitude and don't show your dislike unless they ask your opinion directly or you are worried about their safety. Respect sometimes means letting others make their own decisions even if you don't agree.
15, be a trustworthy person.
When someone gives you trust, you should show that you are a trustworthy person. For example, someone told you to keep a secret and not to break your word. Don't tell the secret to others, it's a betrayal. Especially don't tell anyone who knows the customer. Whatever you say or do, don't break your promise. In this way, others will know that you are someone they can trust.