There are many people who have the same attitude towards terminal illness as I do. For example, patients with advanced cancer often end up suffering from diseases. Through continuous chemotherapy and radiotherapy, the physical pain is getting worse and worse, and the spirit is also devastated. It is better to focus on other things, divert attention and live in a quiet and pleasant environment, which may be more beneficial to the recovery of cancer. I heard an anecdote from a friend before. A woman learned that she had cancer, but gave up treatment and chose to study calligraphy and Chinese painting. After a while, she went to check again, and the cancer miraculously recovered. Is this an unexpected miracle? Whether it is true or not, it does reflect the attitude of some people towards terminal illness. Of course, this is only a part of people.
As outsiders, we can't choose treatment or not instead of patients or their families. How to go in the next life, they have to think for themselves. Now the medical expenses are getting higher and higher. For ordinary families, if a person is terminally ill, treatment may ruin the family's life, and they can't bear this heavy economic burden. But if you choose to give up, you will be condemned by morality. But I don't think this is a moral issue. It is based on the actual situation of a family, not without feelings. On the contrary, some families are bound by too much so-called affection, which not only destroys the whole family, but also makes patients in infinite pain. Families with relatively rich conditions can decide whether to take risks according to the wishes of patients.
However, if this "terminal disease" is only considered as a terminal disease by patients or their families, it is entirely possible for doctors to cure it. For example, it is inappropriate for some early cancers to give up because of economic conditions, and it is even more impossible to ruin their chances of survival because of their ignorance. After all, life is priceless.
A: Ma, Master of Medicine.
I think we should face it positively and optimistically, and never give up. Proper treatment can change time for space. We should believe in ourselves and doctors, but don't go too far. Confidence and hard work will be rewarded. I'm trying to fight cancer with my wife. The following is my anti-cancer life experience.
For cancer in situ or very early lucky people, Chinese medicine or western medicine should have the best means. Many of them are cancers in situ or early flukes. There are also many people who have not relapsed for decades after surgery. Similarly, many of these patients were cured by Chinese medicine.
Some Chinese medicine practitioners treat or control the condition of one or two cancer patients, and then exaggerate that some people do so.
Of course, it is true that any doctor wants to cure patients, and it is also true that he wants to make money. It is also true that he occasionally cured Zhang San instead of Li Si.
Chinese medicine can't cure diseases. We can't expect too much from Chinese medicine, and we can't go to Chinese medicine if we are terminally ill.
In fact, any Chinese medicine or western medicine that can cure cancer is nonsense. Any kind of treatment is to prolong the growth period, but some people have extended it for more than ten, twenty or even thirty years. In this process, people's self-healing ability has changed, cancer cells have gradually decreased, and people are basically healthy. Just as the World Health Organization 10No. 15 announced that all the magic drugs previously treated in COVID-19 were ineffective, the statistical results of drug abuse and non-drug abuse are the same.
As long as you can eat, drink, sleep, exercise and defecate, you won't die. Overtreatment will only hurt your vitality. Only by retaining people can we treat the disease and wait for the waiter to update a more reliable treatment method or plan.
It is not easy for a person to live to be over 90 years old, and he is a director of integrated traditional Chinese and western medicine in the provincial cancer hospital who has been engaged in Chinese medicine for nearly 70 years, and he is a respected old Chinese medicine practitioner in people's minds. Last June, 5438+ 10, I was lucky enough to hang his name for Xiaocao. The 93-year-old man said in his pulse, "We should still insist on cooperating with radiotherapy and chemotherapy and take Chinese medicine for five years ...".
What I want to talk about here is a 90-year-old man who has been engaged in Chinese medicine for 70 years. He has seen too much and understood too deeply. The elderly can express this view, which is a reminder to the black doctor of traditional Chinese medicine and western medicine. Personally, I think that if a Chinese medicine practitioner can swear that he can cure cancer directly, it is exaggerated. If western medicine says that Chinese medicine is not, it is not, then he is "demonized" by modern biochemical and cold data. Some people question the authenticity of Chinese medicine by looking at the inspection data of western medicine, and "beautify" Chinese medicine by prescribing some Chinese patent medicines to western medicine! In fact, there is no need for Chinese and western medicine to confront each other, and there is nothing wrong with learning from each other As far as cancer treatment and anti-cancer are concerned, I personally think that surgery must be performed if it can be operated. Although tumor formation and resection can not eliminate cancer cells, at least one "tipping point" can be eliminated, and it is not unreasonable to carry out emergency moderate radiotherapy and chemotherapy for cancer. Therefore, personally, I don't agree with the view of traditional Chinese medicine that western medicine is uniform. Since the human body has evolved, it must have its natural laws, and the various radical measures of western medicine are even more destructive. For example, some people say that "if you don't have chemotherapy, you will die." Although it is a joke, it is not unreasonable. At this time, traditional Chinese medicine can play the role of strengthening the body resistance, eliminating pathogenic factors, removing blood stasis and resolving hard mass, and removing dampness and detoxification.
There is also the so-called western medicine powder, which criticizes Chinese medicine for nothing. Traditional Chinese medicine pays attention to the homology of medicine and food, and everything is mutually reinforcing. If we only pursue modern biochemistry, "western medicine powder" should be given a nutritional injection every day, so why eat whole grains again!
Others say that western developed countries adopt western medicine, and the cancer cure rate is high, to prove the "greatness" of western medicine and the "ignorance" of Chinese medicine. In fact, we have to admit that the cure rate of cancer in western developed countries is higher than that in China, but it is more because of the improvement of their medical system and the realization of the concept of early detection and early treatment. For example, for some advanced patients, the survival time expressed and pursued in many academic reports of western medicine is month and day, while that of Chinese medicine is years … even decades.
It is fundamental to cultivate soil to produce gold and to cultivate soil to respect wood. It is just an image metaphor of the combination of traditional Chinese and western medicine not to generalize the rational fertilization and properly prune the branches and leaves.
If you have cancer unfortunately, it is very important to have a good attitude, which is also a good medicine.
The above personal views, purely by hand, only give you a reference understanding of anti-cancer in traditional Chinese and western medicine.
No treatment! My parents are both my doctors. They told me a long time ago that if one of them got cancer, he would give up treatment, take a step back and choose conservative treatment! Because my parents, their doctors or colleagues got cancer, they chose the last treatment to gamble once, which is basically "both human and financial"! My mother's best friend's father is "prostate cancer" and didn't receive radiotherapy and chemotherapy because they all studied medicine. Mom's best friend bought an oxygen machine himself and went to the hospital and the drug wholesale city to buy medicine for dad's conservative treatment, for a total of 13 years. Finally, before her death, the spread of cancer cells was unbearable. So at the age of 40, I finally have a physical examination every year to check cancer cells and take precautions. When I found out that cancer is basically in the middle and late stages.
First, understand that people can't be cured, because knowing how to cure them is also a waste of money. Always leave the living alive and suffer all the time.
Second, ignorance loves face, only the family can rule and die for face.
Third, the doctor asked you to treat the disease in order to make money, and how to complete the task without treating the disease.
Fourth, relatives and friends are not asked by his family to treat you. These people verbally say that they are filial, caring and pitiful, and they care about my heart. Some people are secretly happy when they are down and out, and would rather be poor than rich.
Fifth, patients know that incurable diseases can never be cured, so conservative treatment will do.
Let me talk about this problem, thank you!
Suffering from a terminal illness is nothing more than terminal cancer. We all know that they have been sentenced to death in this state, and they will leave soon with or without treatment.
Out of affection, it should be treated, and we can't bear to let our loved ones die.
My father, my mother, my partner and my children are terminally ill. If any of them are not flesh and blood, they will worry that even if they die, they will have life back!
You have to cure everything and know that you are going to die soon. If you don't cure it, your conscience will not pass, and you will never pass. I have to try my best to treat it. One day, my relatives left, and I was relieved. I tried my best.
In my opinion, if the family has money, spending tens of millions of dollars on treatment will not affect the family, just treat it! Knowing that the doctor is not alive. If the family can't afford it, then treat it conservatively. Anyway, it takes a little money to treat it, so that relatives feel that we have not given up on him and let him leave happily at home!
In fact, let patients receive radiotherapy and chemotherapy repeatedly, so that patients can feel the coming of death faster and die faster in the depressed environment of hospital wards! I might as well send it home to eat and drink with my family. Or travel around, see places you have never been before, places you want to go. Maybe you feel comfortable, relieved, and your immunity has improved. It is possible to live a few more years or get rid of cancer completely!
If I have a terminal illness, I have thought about it more than once or twice. I will never treat it. I am not rich, and I don't want to drag my family down. Anyway, whether it is cured or not, it will all die. There is no need for future generations to owe me a debt.
People are dead, so you should do more things that are beneficial to society when you are alive!
I have experienced such a thing, but in the face of life and health, I support bankruptcy. After all, money can still be earned, but if you lose your life, you will never have it again.
However, I didn't get what I wanted in the end, that is, the money and people were gone. However, what saddens me most is that the life and health of my loved ones are more important than anything else. Unfortunately, now I only have memories, photos, or dreams of seeing my loved ones.
But if it is defined as a terminal disease, to be honest, patients and their families are under great pressure.
In other words, no matter whether it is treated or not, the result will not be much better, but the treatment may be delaying the patient's life time, and at the same time it will cost a lot and ruin everything.
If left untreated, patients may say goodbye to their families soon and walk painfully, but they will not lose everything.
So, the family sat down and told the story, how to deal with it and not let the family fall into a huge crisis. After all, living in this society is full of pressure. If they lose everything, they will face more unpredictable bad things.
At the same time, on the Internet, we also found that many patients who were defined as incurable diseases were finally cured because of their tenacious spirit.
In other words, the patient's mentality, as well as the family's mentality, plays a very important role in the rehabilitation of patients.
Good luck to you and your family.
When you have cancer, there is another way to relax. It is recorded in the ancient books of traditional Chinese medicine, and the medicine is called Bai Cao Gao. His origin is a cow grazing freely. Every kind of grass is actually an herb. If you don't know how to prepare and use it, just use the feces pulled out by cows, remember that it is the middle part of the last pull.
"terminally ill", literally, must be incurable.
Now that the terrifying has decided to accept me, I will go to see him with dignity. Why should I lose everything?
Money and life can't be compared. If you spend all your money just to live in pain for a few more days, why bother?
A family is not your own. If you really lose everything, how can your children and grandchildren live? How dare you meet your grandparents?
Treat "terminally ill" rationally, reduce the pain as much as possible, and don't let your family see your pain. It is a perfect life to finish your life calmly.