Mother is the kindest and warmest title in the world; Motherly love is the greatest and most selfless love in the world! On the road of the child's growth, the mother's concerned eyes have been staring affectionately.
However, around us, some children have lost their maternal love for various reasons. Among them, there is an orphan whose parents both died overnight; There are abandoned babies or single-parent children who have no maternal love since birth; There are "left-behind children", whose parents are forced by life to go out to work and are left unattended. ...
However, there are such a group of "surrogate mothers" in Jingyan County. They are not mothers, but they are better than their mothers. Among them, some families are not rich and some are not short of children, but they have written touching stories with the greatest and most selfless love in the world. These acts of kindness make the tender life not pale and withered because of the lack of maternal love. In the cold winter, reporters walked into this group of "surrogate mothers" and their children.
Yu Weihua: Let children grow up healthily.
Yu Weihua was born in an ordinary teacher's family in Jingyan County. She is nearly 40 years old, but she looks less than 30 years old. She likes to laugh, she is optimistic and very young. Her smile is like an angel's smile to Yu Ting and her younger brother Yu Congying of Zhoupo Township Central School in Jingyan County. Yu Weihua is an office worker who lives on wages. She supports a daughter in junior high school, and her husband works in a company in Chengdu. In such an ordinary family, she undertook the task of cultivating Xiaoyu's two brothers and sisters.
In the interview, Yu Weihua told reporters that because she was born in a scholarly family, she attached great importance to the cultivation of children's personality. Xiaoyu's parents work in coastal areas and earn a lot of money. They don't lack material things, but they need affection in the spiritual world. In view of this situation, she often takes her younger brothers and sisters to her home and lets them communicate, study and live with her daughter. During the holidays, she specially made up lessons for her younger brothers and sisters. Yu Weihua said that at this age, if a child's personality development is not perfect, it is easy to become a "problem of juvenile".
Liu: The mother of eight orphans.
Zhou Rui is in the first grade of junior high school in Jingyan Middle School this year. His annual tuition and fees of more than 400 yuan and his living expenses of several thousand yuan are paid by a "mother" named Liu. When the reporter saw the shy farm boy, he was playing basketball at school.
Zhou Rui told reporters that his parents died in a car accident, Liu took care of his life like his mother and helped him study. His 80-year-old grandmother was also taken care of by Liu's mother. Led by Zhou Rui, the reporter made a special trip to visit his grandmother. In a humble room, Gong, 8 1 year-old, told reporters the touching story of Liu's mother. The old man is ill. Liu's mother took her to the hospital and asked her to have a physical examination. Liu's mother often brings Zhou Rui to her home and lets him eat, live and play games with her son. When Liu's mother is busy with her work, she never forgets to arrange for her family or nanny to visit her grandmother at Zhou Rui's home and school regularly. "My mother is the boss." Zhou Rui is pleased to introduce to reporters. It turns out that Liu, a young woman who is doing such a good thing in obscurity, is a member and the boss of Sichuan Hongyu Pharmaceutical Co., Ltd. Liu told reporters that she is now the mother of eight orphans in Jingyan, Ziyang, Dechang and Qiaojia counties in Yunnan.
Xue Tao: Surrogate is both a father and a mother.
People think that "surrogate mothers" are all women. During the interview, Huang Liping, chairman of the County Women's Federation, told the reporter that "surrogate mother" is in a broad sense, and there are also "surrogate mothers" in Jingyan who are male. Xue Tao is a government cadre in Jingyan County. From May, 2005, he began to be a mom and dad for Qu Biexiaomin, an 8-year-old Yi girl. Xiao Min's parents divorced and his family was poor. Xue Tao paid her tuition and insisted on visiting her every month. I usually help her with her homework and buy clothes. When I learned that my family was very poor, I also sent two sheep to Qubie Xiaomin's house to graze. President Huang Liping also told reporters that there are more than 70 surrogate mothers in Jingyan County, some of whom are men. According to their current figures, surrogate mothers are raising more than 70 surrogate children, all of whom have clothes, food and books.
The love of "surrogate mother" continues
The relevant person in charge of the county told the reporter that the County Working Committee for Women and Children, the Civilization Office, the Education Bureau and the Women's Federation jointly launched the "surrogate mother" activity among the left-behind students and the special students who lost their single (double) parents in May 2005, in order to make up for the shortcomings caused by family reasons of students from special families, heal their mental trauma, cultivate their healthy psychology, enhance family communication and let them "learn to be human". At present, the surrogate mother's love continues. ...