So many people began to take the road they thought fit, only to find that there was no hope at all.
I once saw a picture in which there was an elevator and a staircase. Few people can take the stairs, but people who take the elevator are crowded.
People who don't know how to be flexible still choose to squeeze the elevator with others, and smart people have long chosen to turn.
Our life is full of uncertainty, and we can't predict the future life.
You think that the current setbacks can't be overcome, but there is no solution. As long as you change your state, you can see opportunities in adversity.
Only when you know how to turn can you change your life.
Only those who really live fully know how to "turn around"
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Read such a story:
There is a farmer who lives at the foot of the mountain and lives by herding sheep and growing vegetables. He always goes to the market to sell goat milk and vegetables.
There are two roads leading to the market:
There is a shortcut to the market directly, but there is a big stone halfway, which can't pass; It takes longer to go to the market by another long way. When you get there, you will miss the morning rush hour.
One day, the farmer wanted to move the boulder, so he brought his son to help. After three months, the boulder only moved a small part.
Once, my son was so tired that he asked the farmer:
"Do we have to move this stone? If you move your home to the stone, you can build a new house in three months, which is no simpler than this. "
The farmer listened to his son and blamed himself for not thinking of such a good way.
Soon, the farmers moved to a place close to the market and lived a relaxed and convenient life.
Sometimes, when we meet a boulder, we just want to move it. In fact, it is more time-saving and labor-saving to bypass the stone than to move it.
Life is the same. If you encounter a road that you can't cross, try to bypass it. Maybe you will find it easier to do so.
But some people are always stubborn and insist on breaking through the south wall until a dead end.
Life can't be changed, and the road won't be changed easily because it stops you. You might as well change it yourself.
We need the courage to work hard and the wisdom to turn.
Many people think that the starting point can determine life. Although there is some truth, it is the turning point that really determines life.
The famous poet Tao Yuanming originally intended to enter the officialdom. At the age of twenty, I began to prepare for the official position and found a way out.
However, he really didn't like the style of pretending to be a snake in officialdom and decided to resign and go home.
In order to make a living, he has to do some idle work with lower positions.
Even if his friends asked him to be an official, he did it for a while and chose to abandon the official.
Because Tao Yuanming had seen the darkness of officialdom, he couldn't see the way out and couldn't realize his ambition, so he decided to retire from the mountains and seek himself in the countryside, and eventually became an "idyllic poet".
For us, not every road can be smooth sailing. Many smart people know how to turn, not giving up on themselves, but working hard in another direction.
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There are thousands of roads. When you come to the end, you may not really come to the end, but you may be reminding you that you need to turn.
The initial road may not be the most suitable for you. It is the wisest decision to change direction when you encounter thorns halfway.
Life is a process of constant choice. From small to large, we are all choosing our own life direction.
Some people go straight, some people turn in time, different roads, different scenery.
Some roads encounter setbacks halfway. No matter how you go, you can't move forward. It is better to give up wisely.
Confucius and his disciples traveled to different countries. He asked his disciple Luz to pick up the broken horseshoe on the road. Lutz felt useless and pretended not to hear.
Confucius saw Lutz and decided to pick him up himself. On the way, he saw the blacksmith, so he exchanged his horseshoe for a few pence and bought some cherries.
The two men walked on, and at noon, the temperature became higher.
Confucius guessed that Luz was thirsty and decided to educate him with this little thing, so he secretly dropped a cherry and Luz picked it up at once.
Confucius walked over and threw it in front, while Luz kept bending down to pick it up at the back.
Finally, Confucius smiled and said to Luz: If you just bent down, there would be no continuous bending behind you.
When people encounter things, don't be stubborn. You should know that life is not just in front of you, but also in the future.
In this way, our road will be smooth.
Only by knowing how to turn and learning to detour can we reap what we want.
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Every time we do something, we hope it can go smoothly, but the reality is that there will always be something unsatisfactory to stop us.
So someone insisted, and as a result, they hit the wall.
Because there is too deep obsession, the problem is not solved, but a lot of time is wasted.
Knowing how to turn around will make the journey easier.
There is a young man who has always wanted to be a writer.
He works hard to write articles every day and sends them to publishing houses and newspapers over and over again.
In a blink of an eye, more than ten years have passed, and none of his manuscripts have passed.
He believes that as long as you persist, you can always see hope and your manuscript will be recognized.
However, he received a reply from the editor who contributed for many years. The content is as follows:
"You persist for so long, I can see that you are a hard worker, but I must tell you that your knowledge reserve is insufficient and your writing is pale, which is not suitable for being a writer.
But I find that your handwriting is getting better and better. You can try new fields. "
The editor's words made him suddenly realize and think twice. He decided to try calligraphy, and in the end, he made great achievements.
He is the famous calligrapher Zhang Wenju.
Everyone's life has certain shortcomings, and everything can't be perfect.
It's not your thing, but it suits you. Maybe you're just suitable for areas you haven't tried.
When life is in adversity, you can be suddenly enlightened by doing one thing, and that is to try to turn a corner.
We can always walk into a dead end inadvertently. You may not find it at first, but once you understand it and know how to turn it, you will see a new turn.
We always hope that we, or our children, can have a good way out. At the right time, try to tell them that knowing how to turn may change their lives.
For life, everyone has his own insistence. Even if he chooses the wrong one sometimes, he is unwilling to let go and carry it out on the wrong road because of his previous efforts and persistence.
But this result can only be repeated mistakes, just like you stand at the wrong bus stop sign. How can you wait for the bus you are waiting for?
Therefore, we must learn to choose in life and throw away things that are not suitable for us, even the wrong things, so as to find the most correct path.
Here, there is a set of books to help you grow. I hope you can read them.
This is a set of books to help you find your true self, teach you to give up life, teach you to let go of persistence, don't think too much, teach you to make the right choice and stop wasting too much time on meaningless things.
Life is like this. Only by letting go of something can we live more easily, more comfortably and live the best of ourselves.