The beauty of middle-aged women is another realm, a synthesis of self-restraint, self-discipline, independence and love.
Recently, Dong Qing appeared in Xiamen University and talked with Professor Pan Maoyuan, a centenarian. Pan Maoyuan is the founder of higher education in China. Only Dong Qing, who was born in Shanghai, can talk to him.
Dong Qing doesn't need to prove anything. She just told us by words and deeds that the superposition of years is not cruel, but beautiful. The most important thing is not to pursue anything deliberately, to grow old quietly and enjoy the baptism of time. Dong Qing was born in Shanghai, 1973. He graduated from the undergraduate class of Shanghai Theatre Academy 1999 and the graduate class of East China Normal University in 2002, and obtained the MFA master's degree from Shanghai Theatre Academy.
Recently, Dong Qing made a rare good program about China's obscure ancient poems, and many parents and children got enlightenment and insight in the Chinese Poetry Conference and Scholars. She is friendly and calm, gestures are decent, not artificial, not heavy make-up, generous in clothes, leisurely in steps, and her temperament and aura naturally prove her Excellence.
When a woman knows her beauty, is not self-possessed, is not proud of her appearance, only strives for perfection in talent, dresses simply, smiles, and doesn't need to publicize anything, she wins.
When Dong Qing was a child, her father was very strict with her. Her father told her not to go out to play after school every day, but to recite poems at home, read more books and study more. Although her father's strict requirements disgusted her, they also cultivated her accumulated connotation. When she was admitted to college, she was really rebellious. She went to art school and wanted to be an actress. Finally, he became the host. When CCTV was in full swing, she turned and went to the University of Southern California for further study. In middle age, she began a difficult and lonely road to study again.
When a person bravely breaks through her comfort zone, there is a vast sky in front of her.
This visit to the United States is a turning point in her career and a journey of her mental maturity. After returning to China, she was in charge of the China Poetry Society.
A player's father is blind. Since childhood, he has been taught poetry by word of mouth, and his father himself has always maintained the habit of reading blind documents.
Dong Qing thus thought of the experience of the famous Argentine writer Borges, and casually read out one of his very famous poems:
Then, Dong Qing became the producer and host of The Reader, sleeping for three or four hours every day. "I said that I found money today, and I said that the money is gone; After a while, I said to find a studio to set up a stage, and then I said that the studio was gone; One minute, guests can come, and the next minute, people can't. At that time, my white hair grew one by one. " She said.
Dong Qing came all the way, and he met his true love at the age of 40 in 20 14. In fact, for talented people, love is only the result of falling behind, not their original purpose.
In 20 17, Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security, People's Republic of China listed Dong Qing as the National Million Talents Project.
Although she is so talented and accomplished, what we see is her humility. The more humble she is, the more noble she is.
Yi Nengjing is quite controversial. Recently, Antai, who is 52 years old, has become very eager to prove that she is "young and beautiful". Sometimes when she looks at photos, she becomes a Li XiaoLu board, which is very different from before. She often takes photos with people one round younger than herself, as if people all over the world have become her elders.
She said she didn't have plastic surgery, but admitted that she spends seven figures on maintenance every year. In fact, the 7-digit book not only includes braces, beauty and micro-plastic surgery, but also includes high-priced beauty products to eat and wipe. No matter what the facts are, even if her face moves, her irreconcilable figure and posture are really related to her self-discipline.
In her essay, she said that braces were worn for four years, during which she was miserable and couldn't sleep. Her diet is sheep eating grass. She has rejected animal meat for many years, even any sugary drinks. She never eats cold drinks and refuses to freeze food even in summer. This is what most women can't do.
Yi Nengjing's past is actually very tragic. She/kloc-started her career at the age of 0/5, and graduated from middle school to make a living at home. The money and knowledge she earned passed through her hands, and then she used it at home. She didn't have the money to buy stage clothes. She sewed them all by herself. So she wanted to find a good man and get married in a hurry. Her biological father died in a car accident on his way home after signing her first record contract. And there is a large family behind her supported by her singing performance, which are all memories of her youth.
So, on the last day of her 19, there was no sunshine.
On the last day of her 49-year-old, she tried to keep the sunshine every day in her 50 s.
Through self-discipline, she consciously told herself that if we rely on ourselves, nothing is impossible. The preservative of youth is not in the hands of others, but in our own hands that are good at embracing everything.
Some people often doubt Liu Xiaoqing's age. She is nearly seventy, but she still feels young and enthusiastic. Although Liu Xiaoqing's plastic surgery has also been criticized, it is still more like the original. She just wants to reduce aging.
When Liu Xiaoqing was 47 years old, she just got out of prison, her career was gone, and her boyfriend left. Her glory is over. As soon as she got out of prison, she paid off all the taxes she owed. Then she became the "first drifter in Hengdian", starting from the beginning with a small role without lines, taking all kinds of plays, from 50 yuan to 200 yuan one day, and starting from a walk-on to shoot all kinds of film and television dramas. Then he came back for more than ten years, acting plays, movies and so on. She looks high-spirited and indifferent today. She can find many movie scripts for her, but she can pick and choose. So much so that in "Eight Hundred", we saw a real Liu Xiaoqing, who expressed a female boss who didn't care about state affairs, but donated money in times of crisis through actions, eyes and expressions.
Her rebirth, starting all over again, and eternal hope are the foundation for her to stay young.
I saw an interview a long time ago and asked her how to stay young. She said, keep yourself busy, keep trying different things, and don't stop. So, be a judge, play drama, stage play, do charity, do interviews, exercise, write calligraphy, support new people and so on. Creating life and enjoying life go hand in hand.
"Broad-minded people are everywhere," Liu Xiaoqing said. "You won't win everything because of the good in front of you, nor will you lose everything because of the bad in front of you."
Her autobiography "Life is not afraid to come back" is not only chic, but also her creed. God has given everyone two worlds, one is smooth and brilliant, and the other is inevitably gloomy. When going uphill, she is in high spirits, and when going downhill, she can calmly deal with it, never thinking about the past and never giving up. This is a beautiful woman.
Dong Qing, Yi Nengjing and Liu Xiaoqing are in their forties, fifties and sixties respectively.
Whether it is scientific or not, if a woman has something she likes to do, even if it is to make a living, as long as she has a ray of light in her heart to help her, at this time, even if she comes to see her, she will make a detour.
The only people who look at aging are those who are confused, rude, arrogant, who see through the world of mortals (in fact, they have no experience in the world of mortals), rude, swearing and doing nothing all day. I think this is the kind of woman that Wendu Tao talked about.
And a woman who can remain beautiful after middle age must be:
Cultivation: Cultivation is actually a person's backbone and also a person's spiritual realm. "Honesty inside and rigidity outside" is a kind of personality beauty based on internal quality.
Self-discipline: Self-discipline with knowledge and self-discipline to keep healthy and young.
Independence: a beautiful chapter of your own, not attached to men or children, doing your own thing well and doing your best in your own field.
Love: Be kind to the world and people around you, and treat every ray of sunshine and every dark cloud with gentle eyes.
For such a woman, the second half of her life is the best baptism of the years and the real dream.
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Text/Ye Zhengling