"Speak slowly and be kind", where do these six words come from?

"Speak slowly and have a better attitude" comes from Wang Ji's "Playing the King of Changyi" when the Emperor was abolished in the Western Han Dynasty (just unearthed some time ago). When you are young, you should "speak slowly", so that you can think thoroughly and make fewer mistakes, so as to protect yourself and seek development. When people reach their prime, mature and powerful, they must be "kind-hearted." Only in this way can we make fewer enemies, have the demeanor of an old man and be respected. In fact, it has another sentence. The whole sentence is like this: "speak slowly, be kind and sensitive." Bone should be strong, gas should be soft, ambition should be big, courage should be small, heart should be empty, words should be true, wisdom should be increased, blessings should be cherished, and worries should be near. " "Speak slowly and be kind" is the most important sentence. Remember these six words, which will benefit you for life.

77 BC coincided with the heyday of the Han Dynasty. There are many restaurants and businessmen in Changyi City, Shandong Province. What a lively scene! As the fifth captain, Wang Ji was transferred from Qibin County to Wang Mi of Changyi, and from Qibin to Wu Pin, which can be described as "soaring". However, Ji Wang is even more worried when he is sad. It turned out that although he was promoted, he worked under Liu He, the moody and dissolute grandson of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, and had to work with a group of villains who were good at sowing dissension and gossiping. It's really unpredictable!

The road ahead is complicated and unpredictable, and the sadness in my heart is difficult to display. At that time, it can be said that my heart was full of mixed feelings and worries. At this time, fortunately, he met an old man who took him out of the maze. They hit it off and chatted happily. Wang Ji poured out his own situation and troubles one by one. The old man gave Wang Ji three words, "Speak slowly!"

From then on, Wang remembered the old man's teachings, worked hard, thought twice before acting, and even lived safely in the undercurrent of Changyi, and saved the day several times. Wang Ji, who was low-key and diligent, was appointed as an remonstrator by Xuan Di and Liu Xun, Emperor Gaozu, in 73 BC, specializing in commenting on political affairs and impeaching dereliction of duty officials. Wang Ji became an important official in the DPRK and held a high position.

Wang Ji went back to his hometown to visit relatives and met an old man. The old man gave him three words: "Be kind!" Hearing this, Ji Wang was ashamed. From then on, he was strict with himself, honest and clean, generous and kind, and eventually became a famous minister. It is said that this old man is the famous prime minister GongSunHong during the reign of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty.

"Speak slowly and be kind." This classic sentence was handed down from generation to generation by Wang Ji as the king's family instruction. All descendants of Ji Wang should listen carefully and act cautiously. From the Eastern Han Dynasty to the Ming and Qing Dynasties, among Wang Ji's descendants, 36 were queens, 36 were husbands, and 35 were prime ministers. It is clearly recorded in Twenty-four History! Established the prominent position of the royal family.