Xiaoqiu's mother is the proprietress of the clothing store downstairs. She probably has such a daughter who is worried and eager to live up to expectations. She is more and more energetic in business, and she is even more eloquent than the matchmaker who used to reverse black and white.
However, Xiaoqiu's mother is not the kind of vulgar woman who drags everyone to talk about her daughter. Not only that, she rarely basks in her niece in the circle of friends, and even she is extremely shameless about the behavior of sunbathing in the circle of friends.
In her words: "Be a low-key person, low-key ..."
However, Xiaoqiu Ma, who always welcomes guests with a smile, is not in the mood to hold her customers recently. My mother stood in front of the mirror and looked at the clothes, while listening to Xiaoqiu's mother talking.
Xiaoqiu's mother is a member of the parents' committee, so she added many parents' WeChat, including Xiaolin's mother.
Xiao Lin's mother is an old child, and she is a madman who basks in babies. The record of the circle of friends is turned over at will, which is simply a super full version of Kobayashi's growth diary. This makes Xiaoqiu's mother, who can't get used to sunbathing, very annoyed.
"tell me, what does she have to bask in? Just signed up for the Rubik's Cube class, and she can't even know the third level, so she bought a bunch of strange Rubik's Cube for her son and sent it to a circle of friends. What is there to bask in? "
"Isn't her son just writing an assignment for a calligraphy class, and his handwriting is not good, so what's there to bask in?"
"Her son only jumped more than 16 times in the student skipping competition. How dare she bask in such achievements?"
"When I went to a parent-teacher conference, the teacher didn't praise her son, but our family Xiaoqiu was always praised. I didn't even bask in it. How can she bask in it? "
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As Xiaoqiu's mother spoke, she couldn't help but lift her face slightly and snorted contemptuously at the air with her nose, with a look of disdain.
"You said please don't hate, send this kind of thing every day!" She handed my mother a new windbreaker and asked herself.
"Yes, yes, it's quite annoying. Why don't you block this kind of person? " My mother carefully compared the clothes in hand, half perfunctory and half confused.
"This kind of person, at first glance, is too fond of children and can't educate them. For example, she also sent a message that day ... "Xiaoqiu's mother didn't hear my mother's question or deliberately avoided it, and angrily accused Xiao Lin's mother of all kinds of behaviors of drying her baby.
I sat in the soft chair in the shop, supported my chin with my hands, and listened with great interest to Xiaoqiu's remarks and thoughts of all kinds of new women and good mothers of the times.
in xiaoqiu's various fancy examples and crazy talk, I only summed up two main points in xiaoqiu's thoughts-
first, there is nothing to bask in children's daily life.
Second, Xiaoqiu is a hundred times better than Kobayashi. I didn't get a tan. What qualifications do you have?
I have to say, Xiaoqiu Ma's logic is so powerful that people and gods are angry.
despite xiaoqiu's disdain and disdain, while carefully reading the duplicity of Xiaolin's circle of friends, I am really crying and laughing at xiaoqiu's spit.
First of all, I don't want to say that Xiao Lin's mother is an old child, but she cherishes children especially. I believe that every new mother who is a new mother will not want to miss the footsteps of her children's growth.
occasionally, I will look through old photos with my parents. I was born in the late 199 s, and photography has not yet fully entered thousands of households. The digital video camera in my memory was also a new equipment added after primary school. Only then did we get the first photo of our family.
When I opened the photo album, the first photo was taken when I was one month old. My chubby cheeks were wrapped in layers of thick clothes, and I half-opened my eyes for the camera and smiled reluctantly.
The second picture shows me as a toddler, with my hands stretched forward as if to reach for something, and a short leg lifted off the ground and made a step gesture.
Two photos that have missed so many growing years are placed on the same page, with only a vague dividing line between them.
Mother rubbed the photo and couldn't help feeling "what a pity".
The conditions at that time failed to let her record the moment when I grew up gradually, nor did she record the joy of witnessing my growth. Although she tried her best to describe me as a child, she always lost some warm interest because she was too abstract. In the TV series, the scene where the old man took out a thick photo album and pointed at the photo to tell his children his childhood story can only appear in her imagination.
Maybe it's a pity for my lack of childhood memory. Now my mother's mobile phone is full of my photos, such as traveling, doing housework, acting cute, pretending to be ugly ...
The circle of friends is originally a semi-closed platform for individuals to record life moments. I believe that Xiao Lin's mother didn't brush the screen maliciously, and she didn't mean to show off. What she did was just like my mother when I grew up, trying her best to catch the tail of time, recording every meaningful moment of her children, and remembering the present years with photos and short words.
Secondly, I really don't understand why Xiao Lin can't compare with Xiao Qiu in some aspects, so Xiao Lin's mother should be ashamed of her baby drying behavior.
Every child is an angel of parents, and every child is unique in the eyes of parents. Perhaps the fact is as Xiaoqiu's mother said, Kobayashi's grades are not as good as Xiaoqiu's, and Kobayashi's hobbies are not as extensive as Xiaoqiu's, but what's the harm?
No matter how good other people's children are, they also belong to other people's families, so envy can't come; No matter how bad your children are, they are also your own, so you can't force them. Achievements and specialties may be one of the criteria for others to evaluate their children, but they should never be one of the criteria for parents to love their children.
Xiaoqiu's mother never sunbathes in a circle of friends and criticizes others for sunbathing, but she still can't help peeping at others' sunbathing and speculating on what their children have learned and learned, in order to keep their children from losing at the starting line.
Xiaoqiu's mother said, "Be a low-key person", but she sought stronger psychological comfort from other children's disadvantages and earned that weak sense of superiority.
She preached "Don't compare with other people's children" all day long, but forcefully forced her own children into other people's children. She peeked at other children in the circle of friends, and when she saw those who were better than her own children, she couldn't help but be sour, and when she saw those who were not as good as her own children, she was complacent.
if you ask me, there is nothing wrong with sunbathing a baby. If you are willing to share the happiness of others, just like it; If you don't want to be wrapped up in other people's information all day, it's not rude to block that person's circle of friends.
What's really rude and disgusting is to peep tirelessly for psychological comfort, while gossiping behind your back to show your high profile.
Finally, it's the first time to be a mother. Leave yourself alone and others alone! Most importantly, let the children go.