Nowadays, no matter whether they are a member of the rural party or a member of the rural party, they cannot avoid being a follower. Today, I would like to share with you the importance of following a follower.
Sui Ming’s specialties: 1. Put the gift money in red envelopes
In ancient times, when people got married, red envelopes were not popular among Sui Ming. They usually gave gifts as gifts. In rural areas, villagers usually give food, meat, etc. as gifts. Officials' families give gifts such as gold, silver, jade, paintings, calligraphy, etc. Nowadays, when they get married, they give money directly to their relatives. But everyone must put the gift money in a wrapped red envelope. It is meaningful and decent. Don’t give money directly!
Sui Fangzi’s points 2. The gift money should be an even number
p>Chinese people like to be particular about everything they do, and there is no need to avoid customs when getting married. Newlyweds get married sweetly and in pairs, so the gifts we give should also be in even numbers to signify the auspiciousness of the pairing. In the past, everyone used to give gifts worth a hundred. With the development of the times, young people have begun to like meaningful numbers, but everyone should still keep in mind that gifts are best in even numbers.
Essentials of Sui Ming 3. Maintaining Basic Balance
In today’s world, Sui Ming is no longer just a marriage etiquette. We must follow Ming in both big and small matters. At this time, we must learn to maintain a basic balance. Well, at least you can’t let others suffer.
Essentials of Sui Ming 4. Appreciation according to favors
What is appreciation according to favors? To put it simply, don’t deliberately keep the gift money the same, it is best to add a little more according to favors. For example, if you got married a few years ago and someone else gave you a gift of 500 yuan, but in recent years, prices have risen and the money has depreciated. You would feel embarrassed to give 500 yuan as a gift. At this time, you have to appreciate it.
Nowadays, banquets are held in the village, and the minimum price for a table of food is more than 400 yuan, not counting tobacco and alcohol. There are 8 people per table, and most of the neighbors’ contributions are 50 yuan or 100 yuan. It looks like you can make money, but it's not. The gift of 100 yuan represents a family, two elderly people and two grandchildren. This is the most common combination for rural banquets. If it’s a banquet before the Spring Festival, maybe a family of 6 can book a table!
How many dishes can you buy with 50 yuan now? Therefore, it is inevitable to lose money when hosting a banquet. Fortunately, the money given by relatives is based on the market price. A rising tide lifts all boats. They can subsidize part of the loss, but the loss is not much.
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