Liang Qichao: All-round love, peaceful and equal attitude
Liang Qichao was one of the leaders of the Reform Movement of 1898 in the late Qing Dynasty and a famous thinker, politician and academic master in modern times. Liang Qichao has nine children, including three academicians Liang Sicheng, Liang Siyong and Liang Lisi. Almost all other children are elites from all walks of life, and they are known as "three academicians in one school, all of whom are brilliant."
Express your love for your child directly.
China people have always been reserved, and their father plays the role of "strict father", but Liang Qichao is an exception. He expressed his love for his children without scruple. He once wrote in a letter to his second daughter, Liang Sizhuang, "Little Baby Zhuangzhuang: I miss you very much, so I framed this masterpiece and gave it to you as this exquisite hand scroll?"
Psychology shows that the more love children get when they are young, the more considerate and tolerant they will be when they grow up, the more confident they will be, the stronger their hearts will be, and the higher their happiness index will be in their studies, careers and families.
Study is more important than degree.
Liang Qichao was a scholar at the age of twelve, but he never insisted on his children's grades. He thought it was more important to let them learn something and be happy inside. Originally, he wanted his second daughter to study biology, but Zhuang tried it and felt that she was not interested, so he wrote, "I heard your second brother say that you didn't like biology very much. Why didn't you tell me earlier?" All learning is best because it is close to nature, which often gets twice the result with half the effort? It doesn't have to be mud. "
It is precisely because Liang Qichao did not interfere in children's choices that his nine children have made outstanding achievements in the fields of architecture, archaeology and military affairs.
Being a man is more important than studying.
Liang Qichao does not insist on children's grades, nor does he interfere with children's personal interest choices, but there is one thing he cares about very much, and that is children's conduct. When Liang Qichao was very young, his mother was always gentle with him, but once, Liang Qichao lied because of a trivial matter. His always gentle mother was furious and gave him a dozen lashes, warning him that dishonest people would only become beggars and thieves in the future.
Liang Qichao kept in mind that after having his own children, he was more strict with their conduct. He also asked the children to read China's traditional classics "The Analects of Confucius" and "Mencius" from an early age, and taught them the truth that "the knower is not confused, the benevolent is not worried, and the brave is not afraid".
Lu Xun: Let nature take its course, and love is hidden in your heart.
Lu Xun, a great writer, a fighter who used a pen to crusade against the ugliness of the world, a tough guy who refused to compromise with reactionaries, had a rare gentleness in the face of his son Zhou Haiying.
Careful and thoughtful
During a meal, Yinghai heard that his parents had bought tickets for the circus in advance, and there were performances by lions and tigers. He was elated and waited until late at night, but he did not see his parents. Afterwards, I learned that Mr. Lu Xun, considering that most of these programs were performances of wild animals, was afraid that Xiao Yinghai would be frightened, so he and Xu Guangping sneaked away from the back door. Yinghai cried until she fell asleep after knowing this.
The next day, Lu Xun learned about it, patiently explained to Yinghai why he was not allowed to go to the circus, and promised to take him to the circus again later. 1On the afternoon of October 20th, Lu Xun and Xu Guangping took Yinghai to see the circus. Although there are only equestrian and clown performances, I am very happy to meet the sea.
Respect for children
Once, Xiao Hong went to Mr. Lu Xun's home for dinner, and Xu Guangping asked a Fujian restaurant on the street for a bowl of fish balls. When eating, Yinghai first put a few meatballs in the bowl, and after eating one, he said, "It's not fresh, it's not delicious." Xu Guangping picked up one and ate it. It was very fresh, so he criticized Yinghai.
Seeing this situation, Mr. Lu Xun picked up the fish balls on the plate facing the sea and tasted them. It's really not fresh. It turns out that some of the fish balls in this bowl are fresh and some are not. Therefore, Lu Xun said: "He said that it is not fresh, and there must be his reason. It is wrong to criticize without looking. "
Let it develop naturally.
According to Zhou Haiying's Seventy Years of Lu Xun and Me, Lu Xun's educational model is "let nature take its course, try not to give him too many blows, or even disobey his love, unless it is extremely unbearable and unreasonable".
Lu Xun doesn't want his children to become short writers or short artists. He just wants them to become real people and learn some real skills, not flashy. And Zhou Haiying didn't live up to his father's painstaking efforts. He loved radio specialty since childhood, studied a little according to his own choice, and finally became a famous radio expert in China.
Feng Zikai: Innocence and Love, Independent Spirit
Feng Zikai is a famous painter, essayist, cartoonist, calligrapher and translator in China. But he is more praised for his love and education for children.
Natural sincerity
Feng Zikai has seven children. He believes that childhood is the golden age of life and strongly opposes the cultivation of children into "little adults." In life, Feng Zikai called going out to do things "boring". When he was with the children, he was full of joy, holding them, feeding them, singing and teasing them, drawing and making them laugh, and being very close to them.
On one occasion, Zhan Zhan, the eldest son, asked Feng Zikai to carry him to the station to buy bananas, "grabbing hands all over the floor before coming back". When he got home, he fell asleep on his father's shoulder, and the banana in his hand had long since disappeared. Feng Zikai sighed in the article "For My Children": "What admirable truth, nature and enthusiasm! The so-called virtues of silence, implication and profundity in the world are unnatural, morbid and false compared with you! "
Honest and frank
Honesty is the top priority of Feng's family education. Feng Zikai has always taught children to learn to be human before they can talk about learning and art. He insists on honesty and frankness, and must not resort to deceit or opportunism.
1932 In the winter, when Yuanyuan Hall was just built, in order to avoid wasting the homestead, the supervisor built the east wall into an inclined wall, forming an oblique angle. Feng Zikai resolutely disagreed after discovering it. He believes that environment dominates culture, and living in an upright house can cultivate children's upright nature. How can you create a twisted fringe hall! To this end, Feng Jianing is willing to delay for a few months and spend hundreds of dollars to demolish and rebuild.
independent
In addition to letting children grow up freely in the air of love, Feng Zikai also attaches importance to cultivating children's independent spirit. 1947, he entered the age of knowing his destiny and made an agreement with his children. The most important thing is "independence". One of them wrote: "Children live independently after graduating from college, and they have no obligation to support their parents, and parents have no obligation to support their children."
Under such requirements, his children no longer depend on their parents for survival since childhood, which can be described as very independent. Therefore, the proud achievements made by Feng Zikai's children are inseparable from this kind of independence cultivated since childhood.
It can be seen that whether Liang Qichao, Lu Xun or Feng Zikai, their educational methods have a very important similarity-sincerity. Their true self, posing as strict father's face without posturing, shows their love for their son beyond words. At the same time, we also respect our children and let them keep a sincere and frank attitude towards their hobbies without interference.
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