What does it mean to forget without thinking?

"If you don't think about it, you will never forget it" means "If you can't miss it, you will never forget it".

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The source of this sentence is Su Shi, a great writer in the Song Dynasty, "Jiang Chengzi Mao Yi remembers dreams on the twentieth day of the first month".

Excerpts from the original text

Ten years of life and death are two boundless, disapproving and unforgettable.

A lonely grave thousands of miles away, desolate and nowhere to talk about.

Even if we don't know each other, our faces are dusty and our temples are frosty.

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Ten years between life and death is so far away that I can't help but think of it, but I can't forget it.

Lonely graves, loneliness and cold that have nowhere to tell.

Even if we meet, we may not recognize each other. His face is covered with dust and his white hair is like frost.

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What this article mainly wants to tell us is Su Shi's yearning for his dead wife. Although ten years have passed, he has never forgotten the thoughts of his dead wife. This sentence makes people feel the pain of missing, as well as the strong yearning and nostalgia for their deceased relatives.

Creation background

This poem was written by Su Shi in memory of his dead wife, which shows his deep nostalgia and yearning for his dead wife. At that time, the social background was the feudal dynasty, and the idea of preferring sons to daughters was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. However, Su Shi had a unique emotional expression, which made this word a classic handed down from generation to generation.

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Don't think: try not to miss it.

Unforgettable: but unforgettable after all.

Enlightenment of life

The sentence "If you don't think about it, you will never forget it" means that even if we can't miss it, we can't really forget it. This sentence can be used to describe those unforgettable and unforgettable experiences or characters.

In my personal experience, I have been unable to let go of a relationship for a long time. Even though I try not to think about it, I still feel heartbroken and sad every time I recall it. However, with the passage of time, I gradually learned to accept this experience, learned to let go, let go, and let myself not be troubled by the pain of the past.

There are many disappointments and regrets in life, but we need to learn to face them and learn and grow from them. Even after suffering and sorrow, we need to understand that life is moving forward, and we must look forward and bravely meet new challenges and opportunities.

Therefore, for those unforgettable things, we can try to accept and learn. At the same time, we also need to give ourselves time and space to let go, in order to truly get out of the past and meet a better future.