How can we choose the right target correctly? How can we work hard?
Secondly, the establishment of life goals should be practical. American writer william faulkner said, "Don't try your best to compete with your colleagues. What you should care about is that you are better than now. " Of course, we advocate lofty goals in life and admire people who have lofty goals, but we should be more rational when setting goals. Don't want to be a singer just because she is beautiful; Yang Liwei is a space hero. He is determined to be an astronaut. Liu Xiang is our pride. He vowed to be an athlete. Bill Gates is very rich, so he dreams of becoming rich ... In fact, we should not blindly follow them, because we only see their beautiful side and know little or nothing about the details. When they set their goals, they all set out from reality and strive to achieve them. As we all know, when Sima Qian was convicted of corruption, he took the completion of Historical Records as his life goal, which made us admire. However, the strong cultural atmosphere of his family has given him a good cultural influence since he was a child. "At the age of ten, I can recite ancient prose", and I have studied historical books such as Zuo Zhuan and Guoyu, which has cultivated profound cultural accomplishment and firm ambition to write history. In addition, Sima Qian once roamed the whole country purposefully and visited historical sites on the spot. Wherever he goes, he will visit historical sites, listen to local elders telling historical events, collect historical materials and learn about mountains, rivers, products and social customs. He also broadened his horizons, raised his consciousness and made material preparations for the writing of Historical Records. So his determination of this goal is not emotional, but practical. Each of us has different conditions. When setting goals, we should foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and choose suitable goals. The so-called appropriateness is to make the goal conform to the individual's ability, don't aim too high and do what you can. If the goal is set too high and the strength and ability are insufficient, it will lead to frustration and loss of confidence, which is what we don't want to see. As long as our life is valuable and meaningful, it is worthy of recognition. If we can't be the sun, we will be stars and shine in our own constellations. If you can't be a big tree, be a grass and decorate your hopes with your own green; If you can't become a vast sea, then make a quiet stream to nourish the seedlings. If you can't be a great man, be yourself. This is also the need of the people and the country. Because society is not only composed of thinkers, scientists and artists, such a society is also imperfect. As long as we rely on our own conditions and try our best to contribute all our strength to the motherland and the people, we will not live in vain. We are also heroes and great men. Third, to achieve the goal, we must be mentally prepared to meet the difficulties. Things in the world are often like this: if you don't succeed in your career, you will taste the bitter fruit first; If you don't pay for your ambition, you will fail first. Difficulties often seem to be against us. The higher the goal, the greater the difficulty. Therefore, whether you want to enter an ideal university in the near future or realize your long-term goals in the future, it is a necessary process. The process of actively preparing for the exam, getting up early and going to bed late, and trying to overcome one problem after another is precisely the process of cultivating your own quality of overcoming difficulties and pioneering, and is the necessary and necessary preparation for achieving long-term goals in the future. Teenagers' persistence and perseverance are not very mature. They do things easily and anticlimactic. They can stick to short-term goals, but it is difficult to stick to long-term goals. This requires you to exercise your will and always be ready to meet difficulties. As a teenager, geologist Li Siguang wanted to "build first-class warships, ships and a powerful navy" to resist the invasion of imperialist powers. 16 years old went abroad to study shipbuilding. After returning home, he went to study metallurgy and solved the steel needed for shipbuilding. Metallurgy needs prospecting, mining, mining and geology. Since then, he has been engaged in the research of geological science all his life. In order to make his dedicated career useful to the country, he changed his major many times and overcame many difficulties. Peng is a plant virologist in China, determined to contribute to the scientific cause of the motherland. He struggled with the disease for more than 20 years and once wrote such a poem: "How ambitious is seven feet? How about transforming the Gobi?" When the tiger came out of the mountain, Lin Wei lost confidence and was willing to bow his head and let it sink. "In order to achieve his life goals, he insisted on going to Xinjiang for scientific research on plant viruses many times regardless of his illness, and finally died in the Gobi Desert in Xinjiang. In the process of achieving our goals, sometimes we can't foresee the difficulties. When dealing with these, we need to consciously cultivate our will quality in our usual work and study, and make full preparations for overcoming difficulties in the future. Students, you are full of vigor and vitality, like a red sun just going out to sea; You are full of energy, like an aspen. Go on an expedition with your life goals! There are difficulties and obstacles on the way forward, picturesque scenery. Only enterprising people can appreciate it. Modesty and success Huang Yankun, an open-minded person, can do anything, while a complacent person can't do anything. " Attitude is everything. "Former China men's soccer coach Milu once said this. Although some of his theories are absolute, they are also reasonable. A correct attitude is an important condition for a person to succeed. In the process of our life growth, it is particularly important to ask for advice modestly. Because we have to face a lot of new and unfamiliar knowledge every day, and people's understanding of new things is not smooth sailing, and it is easy to make mistakes. It is from constantly making mistakes that we learn modestly and increase our knowledge. In addition, there is a process of deepening understanding. It is inevitable to make some mistakes in the learning process, and the key is to treat them.