During this period, the most frequently heard news in the workplace is layoffs and resignations, because I just came out of the online education industry of K 12, which can be said to be forced out. It is to lay off employees in disguise, and then major manufacturers can't even do it in disguise and close the campus directly. Some students around me talked to me as soon as they were laid off, and the boss of the institution who could not do it offline asked me to discuss what to do next. My former colleagues sent me a message as soon as they received the news of layoffs: hey, I know I'm going to be laid off, but I still have to work hard to handle the resignation procedures for others every day. I am so depressed!
At this moment, I not only want to ask, how do you feel every time you leave your job? Won, or always feel a little sorry?
In the 12 years of hard work in the workplace, I have seen many people leave their jobs, and of course there are also several times. If you look closely, everyone is more or less sorry when they often leave their jobs.
My earliest awareness can be traced back to 20 1 1. At that time, I had just worked for two years and finally entered my dream foreign company. One day, a colleague (I still remember the name Su Wei, because we hardly know him in this email) sent an email. Our names are farewell letters. I was still confused at that time. He wrote euphemistically and used some. But what the full text reveals is the feeling of disappointment and regret growing up with the company, which makes me, a newcomer, really think about what happened between the company and him. Why did I let a dynamic young man leave so disappointed and unwilling?
My colleague left after working for two years this year. I invited him to dinner before I left. I only feel that although he has found a better job, he is still unwilling in his words. Everyone seems to have left with a feeling of loss. Why?
Where should I go about going to work? Why do you regret leaving your job? How can I not regret it? This is what I want to share with you today. Today, I won't share what an enterprise should provide to its employees, which belongs to the management category and is beyond my discussion. I only said one person. )
My career can be divided into six years in Beijing and six years in Xi.
During my six years in Beijing, I worked hard for my dream. At that time, my dream was to go to a big city, join a foreign company, have an international working environment and be with a group of excellent people, so that I could learn a lot and one day I would become excellent. I am a lucky man. Really joined a good foreign company. During that time, I did sit at the negotiation table with many people from well-known companies to talk about the terms of the contract, and I often reported my age a little older to show my experience, so that the other party would not treat me like a child. . . Well, it seems that I am really deceiving myself today. How can a little girl in her twenties and sixties fool a person in charge of millions of projects over her forties and fifties? The other party just looks at the reputation of the company, and the little girl has worked hard and doesn't care!
? Until one day, the environment I once relied on changed, the person I once admired left the company, the atmosphere of that dream changed, and my work could not go on, and I had no direction. What do I want?
Leaving this time is a blow and a confusion, because there is no direction to move forward and my heart is empty. It seems that I have done a lot and can do everything, but I seem to be not good at anything. So what have you got from your work these years? Besides the resume of a foreign company, what else does mine really belong to me?
? Six years after I returned to Xi 'an, I found my own career. Yes, it's not a job. I dare not call it a career at present, but I have my own career!
I remember 17 when I went to a training institution, I had a vague goal in mind. When can I go out to give lectures? Once again, I'm lucky. In the third month of employment, one afternoon I said I needed a business etiquette lecturer for two hours, but I gave too little money to find a lecturer. Colleagues in the business department said, you go! I want to answer, but I dare not. I can't do it. I can't do anything. Then I immediately looked for information on the Internet and made courseware overnight. I went to the customer's office for two hours the next afternoon, and the result was very successful. Later, I went out to give lectures twice a week and paid the class fee on time every month. Now that I think about it, I am very grateful to the company and my colleagues, because it has achieved my goal of going to this company and giving lectures outside!
Last year, offline vocational training could not be done because of the epidemic. In order to survive, I went to homework help for internal training. In recent years, I have been working hard on the road of training, learning everywhere, setting the direction, finding teachers and polishing my mature courseware. What I lack is a lot of live lectures. You can't listen to experience, and you can't pretend. It was not until one day that I talked about it that I suddenly understood that it was that feeling. Everything that was confused before suddenly became clear.
My goal of going to homework help is that as long as there are lectures, I will definitely make money if there are lectures. I started to work in September, and after the National Day, I was assigned five courses, one of which lasted for 4 days, with a day off in the middle, and I talked almost continuously, day by day. By June 165438+ 10, all teachers are teaching efficient communication, which means I have to give at least one class every day for two hours, even on that day. At one time in the hotel, more than 65,438+000 people told them once that they were familiar with it. Two hours later, everyone participated, and the students were very excited, and the teacher was also very excited. Everyone was very excited. When the class was over, everyone immediately used my praise skills, and some people offered to perform a program. After that day, I had a feeling that what I wanted in this company.
So I left homework help last month, and I have almost no regrets, because my most important goal has been achieved. Today, I am very grateful to homework help for giving me the opportunity and platform to give me so many lessons in such a short time. I calculated that from June last year 10 to May this year, I gave 200 classes. If I only count one class every day.
I want to share my experience with you. What is the goal of your work? Every time we enter a company, you must have a goal, such as making money, for example, going to a higher platform, such as learning the latest technology in the industry, and so on. Did you achieve your goal? How long did it take to realize it? If you have a very clear goal and realize it step by step, what can you regret? It's more like I'm grateful, grateful that they made me realize my career upgrade!
When I went to the training institution, I joined another colleague at the same time. I clearly remember that I worked overtime the most and wrote the most project proposals. All the jobs in the institute that others don't want to despise were thrown at me. One day, a few minutes left after work, the dean asked us to do a consulting project and ask for a plan. Which one of you worked overtime? Later I learned that the dean didn't like it, so I never did it. People have to stay up late to check information online and make copies for customers the next day. Similarly, in terms of homework help, others feel tired, stupid and unwilling to give lectures. I have the most classes and talk the most. But it is these that give me the opportunity to become a professional trainer and practice my self-confidence at this moment. Because I knew my goal was to be a trainer early in the morning, because I made it clear that I should not only do training but also consult, and I was curious about how to write the project proposal!
My boss in the training institution is also a trainer. I wanted to do a vocational training program with him at that time. I still remember what he said: Students, in the course of career planning, I can't plan for you, because only you know where you want to go most. How can I help you plan? I can only help you understand yourself and give you some suggestions and methods. Only you can plan your career.
? I quite agree!
? Only you can plan your career, because only you know what your dream is, only you know where your love is, and only you know what your goal is? The person who is the most secretive, afraid to tell others and works hard secretly is only the most honest with himself!
Therefore, all my vocational courses are to help you understand yourself. You don't have to promise me or be honest with me. Only dare to admit to yourself in the dead of night and work hard secretly. I just give you some ways to help you dare to know yourself, know yourself, see your own things clearly and some basic ways to make choices!
What has happened at work so far? Of course, this is your goal. The resume of the newly graduated factory is valuable to you and can be your goal. Promotion and salary increase can be the goal; Learning skills can be the goal. If your goal is really achieved, do you still regret it? All people and things are just choices you make for your goals. What's to complain about working overtime? What's wrong with being fooled by the leader? Isn't he a stepping stone to your life?
? As far as the post-95 s we met in the past two years are concerned, you know more than the post-80 s. What we talk about most when we apply for a job is what we have learned. We don't talk about money for our dreams and feelings. What I talked to you most after 95 is how much money I gave. This is the progress of the times, and young people are more pragmatic!
I hope you won't regret it next time I leave my job. I wish everyone a better life!