Excessive pursuit of perfection will get the opposite result.
The same is true of being a man.
As the saying goes, a man should be measured and everything should be measured.
Really smart people know how to master the discretion in dealing with people.
In life, some people pursue winning or losing in everything and have to forgive others, but they are not likable and have few friends; Some people have to forgive others, but they are often blessed and get unexpected results.
As a person, you might as well give others more convenience without hurting yourself. You often leave the benefits to others, and others will miss you. Being reasonable and overriding others is too much, which means remembering others' mistakes, which is not only annoying, but also easy to be eaten.
Small and loving bitterness.
As the saying goes, extremes meet. I'd rather endure three points than go too far. Things, not too much.
Don't ask too much of what you can't do.
Forcing yourself is embarrassing yourself; Forcing others is too harsh; Too demanding is often counterproductive.
Zhang Fei, who is well known in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, lost his life because he did too much.
After Guan Yu was killed by Sun Quan, Zhang Fei was eager for revenge, and asked his men Fan Jiang and Zhang Da to make a hundred thousand white flags and white armor within three days, otherwise they would be beheaded. Knowing that the two departments could not complete the task, they were forced to sneak into Zhang Fei's account overnight, kill him, cut off his head and flee to Soochow overnight.
Most things in life have a cause and effect, whether it is good luck or bad luck, there is a reason. If things are done badly, there is bound to be no room for manoeuvre, and it will often be impossible.
Too much is easy to fold, too much is too much, so it is better to learn to leave some room.
Never do anything, that is, consider others from others' perspective, and also accumulate good popularity and good luck for yourself.
You can't say everything, you can't do everything, you can't go too far, you must remember to leave some room for everything.
People who can leave room are kind and know how to stand in the interests of others and give them convenience.
Blessed are those who can leave room. If you give others convenience, others will give you convenience. Good luck.
Those who can leave room have a wide road, and those who know how to let go have a wide mind.
Ceng Shiqiang, a famous scholar, once said, "No one can hurt you and no one can save you. Everything is self-made. "
Suffer! "This sentence is too profound.
If life will face many dangers, then "self-made" is one of them. Besides, "thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi".
Once the weak, now it has flown to the high branches and become a phoenix; Once a strong man, he is now in prison and dying.
As the saying goes: "people who fall heavily often climb high;" It is often shocking to die miserably. " So, life is long, don't be crazy. We don't know how many highly intelligent creatures there are in the universe, which is the secret of the creator. But we can imagine that human beings are just one of them, and they are very fragile and can't fight against earthquakes, hurricanes, epidemics and other disasters. Therefore, there is no reason to be arrogant.
Indeed, no one in this world can hurt you unless the creator wants to punish you and kill yourself.
No one in the world is invincible, and no matter how powerful people are, they all have fatal weaknesses; All living things in the world are interdependent and balanced.
You may be rich, but overnight, those neatly coded bills become the basis for sentencing; You may be good at getting ready, but you don't expect the situation to reverse.
In the Qing dynasty, Mr. Jin once said, "You can't do anything wild. If you want to do something, you should be willing to do it." It means: people can't do things.
It's too ostentatious. You have to take your own fate. People have no good days, and flowers have no red days. Don't be arrogant, follow the trend. Or escape the scourge.