Poems written by Yuan Zhen to his wife

This poem is a mourning poem written by Yuan Zhen for his dead wife. Looking at the clothes left by his wife after she left, the needle and thread condensed his wife's caring for himself since the past. Seeing things and thinking about people, adding new worries, it is better to give clothes to the servants around you. Seeing each other in a dream at night is another heartbreak. For most people, this kind of parting sorrow has been encountered. But few people can understand that the parting of life and death between troubled couples is more sad and hateful. The poet's sorrow is not poverty, but his wife's "grief for everything" after her death, and she can't stop. Yuan Zhen deeply mourned the sufferings and true feelings of * * *, instead of resenting the poverty of his family.

it's inevitable that husband and wife will die, but it's even sadder for couples who are in trouble with each other. The last sentence advances from the previous sentence to a higher level, and focuses on writing the grief feelings that are different from the general ones. It expresses a sad feeling of losing his wife. However, modern people completely misinterpret the meaning of "but not as those know it who have been poor together", which means that couples who have no money to live are very sad, so they should find a rich one. It seems to be invisibly promoting and exaggerating the main role of economy in real marriage life. Money worship will exist in any era, but I believe that the truth around us is the most touching. It's not that the economic foundation is not important, but that marriage can never be bought by money and status. There is no perfect love, and there is no perfect marriage. People's hearts are changeable and money is hard to change. Whether you can stand with * * *, and stay together for a long time, deep feelings are the most critical factors. We don't advocate the supremacy of money, and we don't think that having money is a sin. A long and happy marriage should stand up to dullness and hardships.

In fact, on the other hand, it is precisely because Yuan Zhen's wife loves him and is willing to accompany him to support him when he is poor and willing to share the joys and sorrows with him, so he is so infatuated with his dead wife. Now, the people who often talk about "but not as those know it who have been poor together" are those who are unwilling to endure hardships, support each other with their lovers, and struggle with each other, but those who dislike, despise, look down upon and constantly humiliate their other half. Is it really because of poverty that such people are "sad" in their lives? I don't think so, but because of lack of "love ...