On the significance of harmonious interaction between parents and children in family education
1, to help children establish good social relations with people around them.
"The dragon gives birth to the dragon, the phoenix gives birth to the phoenix, and the son of the mouse can make holes." Although this proverb is not accurate, it illustrates the importance of family education. Because children are in the physiological development period, they need the protection of their parents both psychologically and physically, so they have obvious worship and cleanliness addiction to their parents. The harmony between children and their parents will directly affect the establishment of the relationship between children and the people around them. If the relationship between parents and children is not good, children will be hostile to the people around them and refuse to communicate and contact with outsiders. If children have a harmonious relationship with their parents and have a harmonious parent-child interaction, they will have a sense of dependence on adults, thus trusting people around them more and being more willing to establish friendly relations with adults, children or teachers around them.
2. It is helpful for children's self-cognition and social cognition.
Children have no obvious self-cognition, which is formed through the interaction between family and society. As a social animal, people must establish clear self-cognition and social cognition in order to find a way to communicate with others and integrate into society. Children have frequent contact with their parents, so their social cognition is mostly composed of relatives, friends and neighbors. Although this social cognitive circle is narrow, it is an important environment for children to carry out self-cognition and social cognition. Harmonious parent-child communication and interaction can give timely and accurate feedback to children's cognitive activities, thus helping children to establish correct self-cognition and social cognition. In the long run, this kind of cognition will expand to a larger social life circle, thus becoming a broader social cognition with the growth of children. In this cognitive process, the harmonious interaction between parents and children can improve children's self-confidence and initiative, help children form positive social cognition and lay the foundation for social development.
3. Promote the formation of children's healthy psychology.
Incomplete investigation shows that children are more likely to grow up healthily in a harmonious parent-child relationship. However, in the family environment with frequent family conflicts, children's psychology and personality are likely to be distorted, leading to psychological obstacles and mental health problems. This is because in a harmonious parent-child relationship, children are more likely to find a sense of security, which helps children develop a confident personality and rely more on and trust adults.