First of all, it was Zhuang Zhou. If he had not turned into a butterfly in his dream like Zhuang Zhou (if he had not had sweet dreams), there would not have been such a gift and such a calamity of love.
It probably means that without meeting you, there would be no gift from God and no love.
Maybe it’s just for you to see and make you happy.
Perhaps you had a quarrel and he felt very sad and felt that it was really a 'love disaster' that was inevitable.