No one living in this world can live without pain. Maybe, what you expect will never come true, and what you desire will never come true. But in fact, life is a process of perfection and deficiency, with ups and downs, ups and downs. If something is lacking, you need to be confident; if it is perfect, you need to be sober. You should not be persistent but not decadent. Fight for what should be fought for and let go of what should be let go.
After going through a period of life, you will find that life gradually becomes plain, less whimsical and more down-to-earth. When inner needs are reduced to a minimum, life becomes more fulfilling. In addition to enjoying the feast, changing glasses, fussing over things, and having endless desires, you should not be attached to power or excessively greedy for money. Your mind should be as calm as water, without any complaints or arguments. If you live a simple daily life, you will feel more happy inside.
Life is like a leaf, which becomes green and withers; youth is like a flower, which blooms and withers away. Money is like a train, it goes in and out; the past is a scenery, forgotten, far away.
Career is a game, if you lose, you win; Emotion is a cup of tea, if it becomes strong it becomes weak; Life is a funnel, if you gain or lose. All of this is just a bustling scene, just like the fireworks blooming in the night sky. After a moment, it is still the most ordinary night like water.
When you think about it and take it lightly, you will no longer be so attached to gains and losses. Gaining is good, but losing may not be a real loss. Sometimes gains and losses are just a matter of a thought, it's just a difference in what you care about.
Fame, wealth and prosperity are just like passing smoke, and gains and losses come and go in a hurry. These things that are destined to not last long are really not worth occupying all our energy and thoughts. Leave a blank space and calm down to give to those people and things that are more important than money, interests, and prosperity. See who is always with you and who is always thinking about you. Life is a dream, with sounds, dogs, horses, flowers, red willows, and only temporary prosperity. On your way home at dusk, you come here alone and leave alone.
Time cannot take away true friends; years cannot retain illusory possessions. As time changes, you will experience the fickleness of fate; if it is dull and speechless, you will feel the warmth and warmth of human affection. A person with a heart will miss you no matter whether you are present or not; a person without a heart will be indifferent no matter whether you are good or bad.
In fact, sometimes I still think that it is better for people to be a little older, because the baptism and experience of the years will bring a person more insights and knowledge, and make a person more warm and thorough. I am becoming more and more understanding of the difficulties of other people’s lives, and I am also becoming more and more able to understand some people’s choices. I no longer get hysterical about things I don’t get, and I no longer get entangled in people and things that have little to do with me.
We have learned to bear the good and the bad by ourselves, and Three Thousand Prosperity will never lose itself again. After witnessing the cruelty of life, I also strengthened my heart. With a little desire and longing of my youth, I bravely went on my way and lived up to the rest of my life.
Author: Xinrou, formerly known as Tan Chengyan, has published essay collections "My Heart Is Like Water" and "The Years Are Long, Don't Panic". The public accounts are Xinrou Xinyu (XRxinyu) and Xinrouwei Literature (XRweiwenxue). WeChat xrwx668899.
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