The reason for the expulsion of Liu Lanzhi, Jiao Mu said in the poem
The grandmother said to the official, "He Nai is too small! This woman is rude and makes her own decisions. I have been angry for a long time, so you can't be free! The master has a virtuous daughter named Qin Luofu. She's pathetic. My mother wants to see you. Send it here quickly, and be careful not to stay! "
It shows that Liu Lanzhi is too self-centered, doesn't understand etiquette, doesn't ask for instructions early and report late, and doesn't listen to advice. Jiao's mother had long abandoned her, so Qin Luofu, who was gentle and virtuous, could be his wife.
It shows that Jiao Mu hopes to find a daughter-in-law who is obedient and clever and can serve others. I don't want a daughter-in-law who is too capable and disobedient.
In fact, it is a story of a strong mother-in-law and a strong daughter-in-law.