"From the flowers covered with blue-eyed grass, from the dust of thousands of country roads, the ever-stopping song flies out." This song is like a shooting star piercing the sky, piercing the sky. Our souls have been numb for a long time; this song is like a long and winding stream, nourishing our hearts that have been dry for a long time. "The Bridge of Lost Dreams" - this is a masterpiece of love that was written by the American writer Robert James Waller for a year and became popular all over the world as soon as it was published in 1992. It uses the "bridge" as the carrier to show us a different story. of affection and love.
"The Lost Dream of the Covered Bridge" - a farmer's wife long forgotten by time, a strange man from afar, an accidental encounter, four days of lingering love, and a lifetime of watching . A touching story about a person who buries his love in a life without any passion, who upholds "love is respect" and forgets his love while wandering alone, and finally dies in depression. It can be said to be a typical work describing extramarital affairs. The reason why it shocks people is not the author's writing form and writing subject matter, but the author's spare no effort to explore and collide with the madness and innocence in the depths of human nature.
This thought will not change - The Bridge of Watch
? "When laughter turns to silence, when confidence turns to loss, when I step into my dream, will I still be firm and persistent?" After years of hard work and reality, how many people can stick to their faith and never give up? No one can jump to conclusions, lest there are too many worldly fetters, the moth rushes towards the ideal, and finally becomes a prisoner of the flames. Francesca still carries her girlish dreams - reading poems, reading articles, and the unspeakable ignorance in her body, even if the children of Winterset do not understand the love for Yeats in her eyes. Even though people in this Wheat County never pay attention to things other than basic necessities, food, housing and transportation. But she always persevered, and she always understood that an invisible torrent surged in her body, generating huge potential and giving her the courage to persevere under the constraints of ordinary life and family, no matter what. Can't break her.
? The time of watching is hard, the waiting heart is fragile, the dream leading to reality always has to be polished, and the years are like a cold executioner who destroys the ideals that people once insisted on, like heads. , chopped off one by one, the blood stained the Venus Square, and the blood flowed into a river, forcing everyone to surrender.
Three years after Francesca graduated, she was teaching aimlessly but reluctant to give up her dream. The harsh reality forced her to realize that her choices were limited. In the ruthless reality, she chose Richard "treats her well" because he still yearns for the United States, which is full of wonderful hope. Life is like this, ideals will inevitably give way to reality, and survival and life will never reach a balance. I thought that life would be like this. However, as Francesca said: "I may not be able to stay on the farm for so many years..." ··Even when he is not in my consciousness, I still feel that he is somewhere.
? It is difficult to take care of everything - the bridge of responsibility
? "The most beautiful person in the world." There is nothing worth cherishing more than love, and nothing worth persisting in the world is responsibility." In the late night of the clear breeze and bright moon, in the graceful and subtle dance music, it seems that you can really feel Francesca standing under the porch, sleeping with her eyes open. She was wearing a robe, letting the gentle breeze of the summer night caress her smooth body, and the scent of perfume spread with the wind. Kincaid was intoxicated in her plump, mysterious, and sweet body. It must be said that this is a person's physiological desire for sex. However, what seems more relevant is the desire for life - freedom from moral constraints and plans, physical and mental stretching and enrichment, and the integration of soul and body. All this strong desire for life is inspired by a sudden love. Light at times, desperate at times, all the surrounding reality is dissolved in the night wind. There are only two men and women with transparent bodies and hot hearts, eating, dancing, kissing and making love in the night wind. However, the sun is always shining during the day. It will pierce the silence of the night. Life must always be carried out under the sunshine, and the late-night drama must be continued or ended by the bathing of sunlight.
Four days of knowing each other and loving each other. The two have been looking forward to each other for almost half their lives. Between true love and responsibility, Francesca chose responsibility, and Robert Kincaid chose respect. Although this true love has been long awaited, although this true love is strong and intoxicating, although both of them are convinced: "This is true." "Love comes only once in a lifetime." True love once will never happen again. There is nothing wrong with falling in love, but this love comes too late, carries too many responsibilities, and causes too much harm. Meeting the right person at the wrong time, It is still a beautiful regret. In the end, Francesca chose the latter between love and responsibility - responsibility
? Love that is higher than self-interest and desire always makes people move, regardless of everything. Love requires bearing too many tears, bearing too much guilt, and facing too much blame. Even though Francesca was in pain and unable to make a choice, she resolutely left herself in her husband's car on that rainy day. The moment Kincaid walked towards her in the rain, she already understood that he was saying goodbye to her, not staying.
The choice between family affection and love is always cruel, but it is also a powerless reality. Family responsibility is above all else. Love will one day transform into family affection. Family gives people long-term plain but warm happiness, which inadvertently transcends. Those four days were a brief surge of passion. Francesca devoted all her life to her husband and children, and left everything left after her death to Robert Kincaid, whom both of them remembered throughout their lives but never met again.
I am on this side of the bridge, and you are on the other side of the bridge. The mad river of responsibility blocks you and I hold hands for a lifetime of vows. I am watching you on this side of the bridge, and you stick to me on the other side of the bridge. We My love still flows in the river of responsibility and will never dry up.
This life is not a burden - the bridge of love
Some people will never forget it once they have seen it; some love, as long as they meet it, they will no longer regret it; some love, A moment is eternity. "How to let you meet me, at my most beautiful moment. For this, I have been praying to the Buddha for five hundred years, begging him to let us form a mortal relationship." Four days of love, a lifetime of anticipation, and half a lifetime of "persistence". This kind of love is short and long. I can't help but think of "if two people are in love for a long time, how can they be together day and night". This is the love between Francesca and Kincaid, rational, faithful and eternal.
In the past twenty-two years, many things in the world cannot withstand the vicissitudes of time and have changed their original appearance; in the past twenty-two years, many oaths cannot withstand the warmth and warmth of human relationships, tearing apart the original promises. What’s four days of love? How long can it last? It should be a night of passion, it should be a flash in the pan, but Francesca and Kincaid spent a full twenty-two years, no, it should be a lifetime, to explain what true love is, what is love that is passionate and ends with courtesy.
This kind of love is explained in Franceca's "National Geographic" that focuses on visible lovers, in not abandoning the old table that witnesses love, and in cherishing that warm piece of clothing. collared dress. Francesca's love lies in simple things related to Kincaid; Kincaid hid his longing in the mountains, hidden in three cameras, and also hid in that note, the two of them Love has condensed into white hair on their temples.
If someone asks what love is, Francesca will say that love is four days of tenderness and more than twenty years of persistence. Although we will never see each other, the golden body has been cast and will never be separated. The separation is not in the physical body, but in each other's spirits and souls. Kincaid would say: Love is "On foggy mornings, or in the afternoon when the sun dances on the northwest water, I often try to imagine where you are and what you are doing"; it is "I remember everything: your breath ", your summery smell, the feel of your skin against my body, and the sound of your whispering when I love you"; "No philosophical reasoning can stop me from wanting you, every day, every hour, every moment." "Francica and Kincaid's love is to scatter my ashes by the covered bridge and look forward to the day when I can reunite with you; it is to give my living life to the family and the remaining remains to you; it is "I love you" , love you deeply and with all my heart, forever."
"Yin and Han are far away in darkness, but we meet in golden wind and jade dew." You and I are finally together, buried in this place where love began, buried under this incomparably beautiful covered bridge, and "live forever" from now on. Love and stay”.
When I waited for you, I didn’t see you. When I married him, you came late. "Give meeting with love, give love with desire, give desire with climax, give climax with poetry, give parting with melancholy, give longing for the distance, give warmth to husband, give mother's love to children," give sincerity to death, give the past events Grand, giving understanding to true love, this is the different kind of love and affection in "The Bridge's Lost Dreams". True love is not a moth fluttering into the flame, it is strong but reckless. Love that cannot withstand the wind and rain of the world is not true love. Love that cannot bear the loneliness of Lianai love is not true love.
Covered bridges connect pure and beautiful souls and bear witness to sad and true feelings. Covered bridges stand among the beautiful mountains and rivers, explaining that there is true love and true feelings in the world. This feeling, this love will never pass with the passage of time, and will never change with time.