The mother writes a letter to her son who is a sophomore in high school. The purpose is to hope that the son will read it carefully. So how should she write it? Below I have compiled a letter from my mother to my son who is a sophomore in high school. You are welcome to read it.
Part 1 of a letter from a mother to her son who is a sophomore in high school
Hello, son:
When spring comes towards us, you have already entered the sophomore year of high school. It’s been more than half a year, and the college entrance examination is less than a year and a half away. To be precise, there are only 474 days. 474 days may be very short and fleeting in the long river of life, but for you Said, but it is very important. The road of life is long, but there are only a few key steps.
If you work hard for a year and a half, you may gain a lifetime and save capital for your future. If you pass the first, second, or third exam, the results will be completely different. Nowadays, social competition is so fierce that graduation means unemployment. To find a place in today's talented society, it is enough to be able to support oneself. Mom has never had too high demands on you. As long as you work hard, it doesn't matter where you get admitted, but you must not waste your youth. In this good time of life, study hard and practice hard to withstand loneliness and temptation. In the colorful world, people born in the 1990s, especially those born after the 1990s, are in this ever-changing era. In this era of rapid progress, the invisible hand of the Internet reaches out to every post-90s generation. All doubts and hurts are brought to the post-90s generation. Comes in too many shades. Maturity and childishness, excitement and indifference, pursuit and escape, meekness and rebellion, enthusiasm and numbness coexist, don’t be lost in the trend. No matter how the times develop and society changes, true talent, practical learning, honesty and trustworthiness are the foundation for success.
I also know that the children born in the 1990s are a very rebellious generation and a very individual generation. There is a deep generation gap between them and their parents. Sometimes I don’t want to say too much to you, just an understatement. , click to end. But sometimes what you do cannot be solved by understatement. It has reached a critical period that is imminent, but you don't have any tension and indulge in eating, drinking and having fun. During this winter vacation, I basically didn’t sit down and study with peace of mind. I watched the time disappear like this minute by second, and I was heartbroken. You have to know how much you have lost! Your classmates are all studying hard at their desks, and even now your opponents are also flipping through books. There is no shortcut on this road of learning. Only by down-to-earth study and hard work can we reach the other side of our ideal. A hard work brings a harvest. In ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, all those who have achieved success and fame have spent ten years in cold weather. How can you get the fragrance of plum blossoms without going through a cold that cuts to your bones? ?I don’t need to explain all this in detail, you should know a lot.
Look at the friends and classmates around you. Some have entered prestigious universities, some are studying in big cities, and some have returned to their hometowns. Isn’t this what everyone yearns for? If you work hard now, everything is possible. , if you work hard again after a year, it may be too late. By then, you will already be yearning to see the high school class again. Maybe you don't cherish this learning environment now. You study in a provincial key high school (which many people aspire to), receive a perfect education, and have famous teachers with rich teaching experience preaching and teaching. There are so many teachers who care about you, but you still don't Raise the whip and spur the horse to catch up?
Son, as the saying goes: "People compete for a breath, Buddha competes for a stick of incense." ?In life, who is willing to admit defeat, and who is willing to fall behind others? Of course, things in the world are complicated, and you may not get anything in return for your efforts, but after all, God rewards hard work, and opportunities come to those who are prepared. Even if we fail, so what? As long as we work hard, we will have no regrets in life. A young life should always move forward with an upward heart, and a young dream should be won by its own efforts. A grown man should aim high.
Of course, son, I don’t want to put any pressure on you, nor do I want to impose my will on you. You have your own rules of survival. But as a mother, I have the obligation to teach you some principles of life and work, and share some experiences with you. I don’t have too high requirements for you. As long as you can make a living in society in the future (not earned through hard work), have a few friends who are sincere and sincere, have a happy family, and a safe life, that is my biggest wish!
Mother
Spring of Renchen Year
A letter from mother to her son who is a sophomore in high school, Part 2
Dear son;
I am still willing to call you this title, even though you are not very willing.
My dear son, you have grown up! The time away from your parents is getting longer and longer. A lot of social knowledge has to be understood by oneself, and parents say less, but the ancient saying of respecting teachers will not change. ?The more knowledgeable a person is, the more humble he is. ?Here we are talking about not only natural science knowledge, but also social knowledge.
Growing up, we may have been beaten and scolded many times, but you rarely investigate the details and reasons of things. To be precise, you are not a naughty child, but this does not mean that you have never been naughty. It is certainly the teacher's fault for losing his temper regarding your mistake, but you are also responsible. Warnings and fears at the edge of danger are very necessary. Preaching is the curriculum guidance of parents and teachers on your life experience. I hope you do not have any cells that generate resentment.
Planting seeds of resentment will not bear any good fruit. I hope the story of your father, your grandpa and grandma can give you some inspiration. I hope you don’t blame others, look for the reasons from your own side, and establish a healthy outlook on life and learning goals. My dear son, there should be major changes in your education methods. I have felt it for a long time. Really, Dad is getting old! He can’t keep up with the times and would rather read some classical literature. I was watching "A Dream of Red Mansions" some time ago, and I was particularly interested in the content about Jia Baoyu and his father Jia Zheng. I will copy a paragraph below. You appreciate it, and at the same time you can also experience my feelings as a parent, okay?
Last time I posted a story, you said it was not interesting. Let me tell you a rough story. It tells the story: The Grand View Garden had just been built. Jia Zheng took his guests to play and asked Jia Baoyu to accompany him. Objectively speaking: Jia Baoyu performed very well at that time. He wrote every poem very well, and the guests also agreed in unison. However, Jia Zheng did not show any joy at all, and remained gloomy as usual. Think about it, why is this? This is what the ancients often said: a loving mother and a strict father. As a father, he will be more stable and will not go around showing off how capable his son is.
I don’t mean to make you fear me like a tiger, but you can understand Jia Zheng’s thoughts. Why does everyone think Jia Baoyu writes well, but Jia Zheng still criticizes it? Why did those young men still go to Jia Baoyu to receive the reward after Jia Zheng openly taught Jia Baoyu? My son! I hope you understand.
Also, it is a very serious issue, the topic of teacher corruption. Your father is a teacher, and your mother used to be a primary school teacher. Think about it, would I look at a student differently just because his parents are cadres or bosses? I advise you not to have such thoughts. Teachers only like children who are obedient and have good academic performance, and will never change because of family reasons.
Furthermore, neither you nor I can decide, let alone choose, your current teacher. Therefore, you have to learn to adapt to each teacher's teaching methods.
I wish you progress in your studies and happiness every day!
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A letter from a mother to her son who is a sophomore in high school 3
Dear son:
Hello, I just returned to school after leading a team at the practice base for a week, and received a notice from you to hold a parent-teacher meeting (you also asked me to write a letter to my son) ), this is exactly what I want to do in the near future, and I hope you will read it carefully. If it touches you, your parents will be pleased.
Son, Mom and Dad have communicated with you countless times, and I have been fully prepared every time. Mom and Dad want to share your joy, share your worries, and be your close friends. I hope we can talk freely. Really, we understand you very well, because we are also 16 years old. We have experienced what you are doing and thinking now.
Son, I’m going to start reminiscing. You may be disgusted with my chattering, just as I was disgusted with my father's use of memories to educate me when I was a boy. Only now do I know that recollection is the same method used by every father. The memories of the previous generation do not mean that they are old, but that they need to use memories to prove their propositions.
Son, since the birth of your life, you have always touched the hearts of your father and mother. Thousands of children are born every day in the world, but you are born into our family. It should be said that we are destined. We are happy because we have a son that we are proud of; you are lucky because you have a father and mother who love you with all their heart and soul. Our hearts are connected, our destinies are connected, you are the life flowing in our blood, our life, our destiny. For you, we will give everything and cherish you and love you at all costs. Your mother led you through your elementary school every day for six years. We are delighted with your achievements. Dad took you through junior high school. In three years, your achievements and progress made us proud. Looking at the past two years in high school, we have more unique conditions, our classes, our accommodation? In sixteen years, I only hit you three times, do you still remember? I remember! Every time I remember it vividly, every time All responded with serious illness. We love you. Have you noticed that your father's hair is turning gray day by day, and your mother is aging day by day? Son, your grades or current grades are just in the past. I think that as long as you solve your ideological problems and find the motivation to study, your academic grades will improve by leaps and bounds. Please analyze your son's test scores carefully. You need to face both high and low scores, because this is what you have to face, and you have no choice but to face it and overcome it. Today's efforts will surely yield great results tomorrow!
Son, my father and mother hope that you will be a down-to-earth person. Be high-spirited and down-to-earth, start from small things, start from scratch; treat the people and things around you with a heart that is kind to others and yourself; have a tough perseverance and a spirit of continuous improvement and perseverance, and never give up. You must bow your head to difficulties; you must not be arrogant in victory or discouraged in defeat, and you must have a healthy and peaceful mentality. Only in this way can you calmly face the complicated world.
You will grow up year by year, and you will gradually meet people who are stronger and better than you. You will find that you have many shortcomings that you are not aware of. This may make you depressed and inferior, but you will definitely We must face it, don't avoid it, and correct it bit by bit. It is more difficult to conquer yourself than to conquer others.
In terms of being a person, Dad and Mom hope that you will gradually develop a sense of responsibility. Don't always think about what others should do for you, but think about what you can do for others. You should do your own things by yourself, and you should also help others with their things. People without a sense of responsibility will have difficulty achieving great things, will not have real friends, and will find it even harder to be recognized by society. The sense of responsibility is reflected in all aspects of family, school and social life.
Learn to communicate with others. You often don't like to greet people, you are not enthusiastic enough towards your elders, and to put it mildly, you just go your own way. In fact, this is a weakness. This is not to teach you to please others. The simplest thing is that you can get information about the adult world through communication. Communicating with parents will deepen family ties, communicating with teachers will clarify things, communicating with classmates will enhance friendship, and communicating with the outside world will help students better understand society. Good communication can help you eliminate depression in your heart, and good communication can make you feel the beauty of life. The method is to be diligent in reflection and treat others sincerely.
You must understand and cherish feelings, have a grateful heart, be grateful for your parents' care, be grateful for the teacher's teaching, be grateful for the friendship of your classmates, and be grateful for the help of the society. You must love yourself and others, and you must understand yourself and others. You must know that love is selfless. If love requires something in return, it only hopes that you will be a healthy person, an accomplished person, a grateful person, and a useful person to society. Your healthy growth is the best reward for your parents, teachers, classmates, and society who love you.
As the saying goes: "The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop; the child wants to be raised but the relatives are not there." The above are the heartfelt words your father and mother said to you. Your healthy growth is the endless happiness of your parents.
Dad and Mom hope that you will be a sunny boy and an upright man! I also sincerely wish that your son will carve out a bright future through his own efforts and hard work!