Humor is everywhere in life, and it has become a taste. People who lack a sense of humor give the impression that they are too serious and rigid. Humor can make a serious topic easy: as soon as the exam is over, a student brings a lawsuit to the court, claiming that the head teacher violated his right to privacy and his father violated his right to exist. The judge asked him what was going on. After the exam, the class teacher told his father the results, so he was severely beaten by his father. This humorous story seems to tell us in laughter how teachers and parents should correctly understand and treat children. Another story is that the township head and a young man were caught whoring in the same hotel, and their inspection books were very similar. The inspection of the township head is: forget that you are a cadre in party member, and confuse yourself with an ordinary citizen. The examination questions for young people are: forget that they are ordinary citizens and confuse themselves with cadres in party member. The humor of this story lies in that they all think there is nothing wrong with whoring itself, and they make mistakes because they forget their identity. The township head thinks that it doesn't matter if ordinary people go whoring, while young people think that party member cadres go whoring alone. This humorous story, in laughter, gives us a warning: the legal concept from cadres to the people is weak. There is also a story that satirizes dogmatism. The robber escaped into a supermarket. The inspector ordered the police to block all the exits of the supermarket to ensure that they were caught, but nothing was found. A policeman said he might have escaped through the entrance. It's really ridiculous, but the police didn't disobey the order, because they really blocked all the exits of the supermarket, but they didn't pay attention to the entrance of the supermarket. The warning from laughter is "humor", and humor in life can sometimes resolve many contradictions. When the bus braked suddenly, the person behind accidentally stepped on the foot of the person in front, and the trampled person angrily said, "What virtue!" " The people behind said with a smile, "It's not virtue but inertia", and a conflict was resolved with laughter. Wang Meng said: "I wish I were more humorous, less flustered and less extreme." This is reasonable.
In fact, you should be humorous to yourself. Humor to oneself is self-mockery. Some people say that self-mockery is better than self-deception. No matter how others laugh at you, you might as well laugh with others and let a lot of embarrassment pass. Taiwan Province artist and host LAM Raymond is not handsome. I remember he said at a Spring Festival Evening: I am ugly, but I am gentle. This is humor. This sentence has now become a famous saying. Ah Q doesn't want others to say that he is bald, and then he doesn't want others to say "light" or "bright", but the more taboo you are, the more people say it, as if they have caught you. A bald man called me "extremely clever" and "I was the first person who knew it was raining in the rain". His self-mockery made it impossible for others to disgust him with baldness.
When Liu, the former secretary of the Guizhou Provincial Party Committee, was censored, CPC Central Commission for Discipline Inspection asked him to explain the problem. He solemnly wrote: "The secretary of the provincial party Committee doesn't know the law, which is a big problem.". It seems that he is not inspecting, but giving a report and teaching others. I'm afraid this is the habit of senior officials. They are used to teaching others and forget to discipline themselves. People who teach others are often more likely to make mistakes than others, which is also a kind of humor. We hope that this kind of humor is as little as possible in our life. As Wang Meng said, "I mean, I want humor, not just to laugh." Of course, I also hope to laugh more and live less. "