Second, it's not good to be carefree. Don't make unnecessary hopes and feelings, but strive for self-improvement and continue to be self-reliant. American novelist Dreiser. Unfortunately, in this world, once people feel safe, they must find something else immediately. -(America) Mark Twain: The Works of Mark Twain Fourth, when an individual encounters setbacks and knows that human resources cannot be changed, it is better to take it as it is. There is a song that goes like this. In order to get real happiness and avoid troubles and mental stress, we should all have some hobbies. -Churchill 6. Too much trouble and too much happiness are all ways to overestimate the world. The former is worse than the latter. -[English] Halifax: "Moral Thoughts and Views" VII. Our troubles are precisely because we can't live alone. -French writer Labroue Yale, "All sentient beings are in phase" VIII. Acacia and emotional troubles make people's hearts suffer the most. -[Austrian] Zweig: "love and mercy" IX. Less money and less trouble-Britain X. For a man with high consciousness and far-reaching mind, pain and trouble are his essential temperament. -[Russia] Dostoevsky: Dostoevsky's Collected Works XI. The biggest source of distress is suffering from loss and gain, which people often can't understand. If you want something, you must give it up. -[France] romain rolland: "Luo Xiao Lanyu" XII. A person infected by a hobby, no trouble, no nameless sadness, can hurt his heart again. If you can't drink happy wine any more, you might as well try a collection addiction, no matter what you collect (even posters are in the collection! ); At that time, if you didn't have all the pleasure, you could at least get some sporadic happiness. The so-called hobby is the sublimation of * * *. -Balzac XIII, French writer. If everyone goes to the market to trade with their neighbors with their own troubles, then anyone who sees other people's troubles will be more willing to move their troubles home. [Greece] Herodotus: History?