Because I love you, I want to be a better self. Probably, this is the magic of love, and it is also the secret to make love sweet forever.
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The most beautiful love: you are excellent, and I am not bad.
Traditional marriage pays attention to "being suitable for the family". This view, once abandoned by people, has returned to people's sight. Finding the right person to fall in love and get married is not only the same family background, but also the convergence of values.
The happiest love in the world is that you fall in love with someone as gorgeous as a rainbow, and he loves you deeply. Inspired by love, everything you have will unconsciously align with each other and become closer.
In order to be with each other, no amount of effort is willing. Just like the story told in the movie "Listen", the hero said to the heroine, "I have long thought about it, and I will carry you across the mountains like this." The heroine's response is "I don't want to be a burden to you. I've made up my mind and I want to support you behind my back."
Because of love, one party is willing to carry the burden for the other; Because of love, one side is determined not to be a burden, and both sides are doing their best to become the pride of the other side and better themselves. This kind of love is full of vitality and gives people a beautiful call.
This can't help but remind people of a popular sentence for a while: "You are responsible for making money to support your family, and I am responsible for beauty." As a woman, marrying an excellent person is equivalent to having a lifetime of dependence. But the facts also prove that those women who can't keep up with the other half are often unable to join hands with the people they love to grow old.
The reason is that one party has made great strides and become a better self, while the other party has stood still, and its former Excellence has failed to keep up with the current trend.
Therefore, the most vital love is that two people share joys and sorrows and grow and progress together, so that they can enjoy a higher level of scenery together.
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Because I love you, I want to be a better self.
If you want to love someone for a long time, it's not just as simple as getting along with each other day and night, but you should synchronize with them ideologically and spiritually and become each other's "soul mates".
Therefore, I understand that "the husband sings with the woman" is not only that the wife obeys her husband, but that under the influence and encouragement of her husband, she will eventually become a better self.
My best friend Sister Alian finally fell in love again at the age of 48. Previously, her like-minded lover died of cancer. She has been depressed for more than ten years. With the help of friends and relatives, she managed to get to know her current boyfriend, Wen Jian.
Wen Jian likes calligraphy. In his spare time, he either practices calligraphy by himself or takes students to practice calligraphy. He gives the impression that he is gentle and unique. But before that, Wen Jian had an unhappy marriage. His wife has a tough attitude and is even more dissatisfied with his handwriting practice. She often quarrels with him about it. Their only daughter once suffered from depression due to long-term disagreement between her parents and became a neet.
Wen Jian started a calligraphy class, worked hard to make money, treated his son and saved money for the rest of his life. Because of the divorce, he led an honest and clean life and rented a house with his son.
Alian was deeply impressed by this excellent and poor man. She accepted his confession and they began to fall in love. Alian is a virtuous woman who keeps her home warm and elegant. At the beginning of class every night, Alian, like other students, goes to Wen Jian's lecture and practices calligraphy.
Under the guidance of Wen Jian, Alian made rapid progress. Gradually, she was able to help guide junior students in writing. In this way, Wen Jian felt that with a caring helper, Alian also found the pleasure of making money practically. The two supported each other, and the reputation of the calligraphy training class became better and better.
Because I love someone, I strive to be a better self. In this way, to maintain the feelings with your lover, follow the trend, and always follow the trend.
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Thank you for coming into my life. Even if I pass by, I leave a deep blessing.
Miyazaki Hayao's animated film "Spirited Away" said: Life is a train to the grave, and there will be many stops on the way, so it is difficult for someone to accompany it from beginning to end. When the person accompanying you wants to get off the bus, be grateful even if you don't give up, and then wave goodbye.
Sometimes, we are lucky enough to meet a person as gorgeous as a rainbow, but we are not lucky enough to join hands with him for life. The world of mortals ferry, accidentally, missed each other, leaving only a lifetime of concern and miss.
Therefore, when you really love someone, of course you will give them support, but the best way is to let them learn to love themselves and learn to rely on themselves.
In this way, even if one day, a person has to leave, and he is reluctant to part with it, he will never feel that the sky is falling. Because, in these years together, both of them have taught each other how to face this cruel world and how to support themselves with their own skills; And how to find your hobbies, when you can't get rid of sadness, you can comfort yourself.
In the end, we will only say "goodbye" to this love but not love; Say "cherish" to the person who has given himself infinite affection, then brush off this tenderness and continue to move forward strongly.
Because, it is that relationship that makes us deeply feel that "life will get better if it is bad to a certain extent, because it can't be bad anymore." After hard work, I learned a lot. I persisted and survived. "