When I heard Li Jian's prose poems, I burst into tears. My father works day and night, and my mother has been with my father. I am working in a foreign country, and my wife is working in my hometown, and I am pregnant. For my work, my father put everything in the family together. Just because I can work wholeheartedly. I have no reason not to seize all the time to make progress.
At present, I am young, eating, working, traveling, singing, climbing mountains, partying … Although I am not rich, I am still in the initial stage except for my work, but my life is still colorful. Work, can only rely on themselves, from a farmer at home, has turned himself into a college student. Work, can only rely on their own efforts and persistence, proactive. As family members get older, they will listen to their own opinions more and more. Even my busy father is still studying my works, really studying my works. Last time I went home, my father actually asked me a very professional question. What I feel is not the content of the question, but how long my father has been studying Baidu, how long I have been thinking, how I grew up as a child, how I grew up, how I graduated, and even how much I have to learn to contribute to my work. Although I didn't answer my father's question on the surface, my heart was full of tears.
My father was young, struggled, and was sad, happy, hardworking and disgusted. All fathers have experienced it. We are keen to talk about interpersonal relationships and state affairs. My father kept it in mind. It is said that shine on you is better than blue, but in the face of suffering, will your performance satisfy your father? As a college graduate, can your attitude and work enthusiasm compare with your father? So, don't treat your father badly just because he is old. Just because my father is old, we should try our best to make him suffer less.
Learn to be a person worthy of respect. Learn to be a person who can be respected by others like a father. I am either diligent, willing to endure hardships, friendly to others, or active in my work ... I must take at least one of these. If, at work, I finish what I should do, ask nothing else, handle the relationship with my colleagues clearly, don't work overtime, don't be late, don't make trouble, don't make great achievements, it seems perfect, but there is nothing to respect. All you do is work, just work. Without passion, you can't drive people around you. If you don't take the initiative, no one will make friends with you. Because you don't have any bright spots. Others can't see that having a deep friendship with you will have any positive impact on themselves. This is not sad, if you are still immersed in your own comfort, it is simply a disaster. Maybe when you retire, you will still be standing still! The beautiful life I miss in my heart may really be just a dream.
At school, it is the longest and longest time together, and each student has different characteristics. Some are particularly diligent, burning the midnight oil, some are in and out of the classroom on time, and some are late and leave early. But the result is not necessarily proportional to these. Those who stay up late reading books are generally not the best, and those who leave early are even better than those who are on time. I have known about this for many years, but I have never understood the real reason.
After work, I found that many doubts in my mind when I was a student still exist in my work. Some colleagues work overtime, but the level may not be recognized by everyone. On the contrary, some people who work from nine to five can always be the mainstay. I find that we are used to defining a person. If we see a diligent person when we want to be lazy, we will acquiesce that this person is a diligent person and an honest person. I will look down on myself for a moment and feel that I am not as diligent as him. If his performance happens to be better than his own, we will envy him for winning the recognition of his colleagues through his own efforts. I am even more dissatisfied with my present situation. If you have a positive attitude, you will catch up with it. If you are negative, you may become more depressed and even begin to doubt your life. However, I also found that sometimes people who work hard and are practical will fall asleep at work. At school, we think that students who always stay up late reading will also be distracted in class. Looking at the whole person, my conclusion is that we once regarded a classmate who stayed up all night reading as he had been concentrating on his studies, regarded a colleague who was late several times as he was often late, and regarded a colleague who worked overtime as he devoted all his time to his work. But in fact, people who are late may have forgotten the time by reviewing their lessons at home. Those who work overtime go to bed, but those who go in and out on time continue to study. So don't see your colleagues relax, you can also relax yourself. A colleague is sleeping, maybe he has finished his work, and you are not even familiar with the workflow. Therefore, the quality of a student's grades lies in the time he insists on, in the time he concentrates on his studies, and not in reading until dawn. The achievement of our work lies in the responsibility in our hearts, in our attitude towards each project, and in whether we are a person who dares to undertake.
In short, learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. Only you know your own situation best, find the most suitable way for your progress, be proactive, be brave in taking responsibility, and be diligent and practical. Stride forward. Be a person worthy of respect from others, and be a person who can make his father proud.