Hi, everyone, I am Xiaoxue, and here are the words of Xue. By accident, it is already the 10th day since I returned home. I have a lot of emotions and strong memories in it.
In fact, I also know that many people will feel the same as me. After all, the smell of home is the smell of the New Year. After all, coming to my parents' side is the so-called real New Year.
Of course, there are times when we are tired. The most tired person in our family is probably Brother Chuan, because he has to drive and make various arrangements. Bao and I just play and eat. Everyone says that New Year is the best time. I am more tired than working. It turns out that the British writer Elbert has a famous saying: "No one needs a vacation more than a person who has just taken a vacation." The more you take a vacation, the more tired you will be. I also found that this is the case, such as in rural areas or some places. Big bosses, after finally making money, go home in glory, and like to make food and wine for their mother and old man. It lasts for two or three days, and there are a lot of people coming and going, so it's strange that I'm not tired.
My friend Huang Xin chatted with me on WeChat a while ago, but he did not go home to celebrate the New Year. He said that he really didn’t want to go back, and he just wanted to go home.
Young people like us now. Many people don't want to go home to celebrate the New Year. Some people in my hometown like to compare too much, especially in our rural areas. Every household is like that. My dad often says: "Look at this family with a car and a house. Don't they drive a lot during the Chinese New Year?" Bringing a big car home is a way to show off your wealth, but our family is still so poor, the house has not been repaired, and the family is having a hard time. "After hearing this, I felt very discouraged, so I often gave My dad said: "Just live your life well and live it how you want. Everyone else belongs to others. If you want your son to have a future, please don't say these depressing words." "I don't know how many people like to compare themselves with each other nowadays. Comparing people is so annoying that I didn't choose to go home this year. Even if I ate a bowl of instant noodles on New Year's Eve in my rental house, no one saw it. But I'm still happy living alone! This year, I'm out of town, working normally, and doing whatever I want without anyone interfering with me.
We're just stuck in the middle. Roujiamo, I want to go home, but I have to wait until I can earn face for my parents.
At that time, I replied to Huang Xing and said, in fact, many people have the same feelings as you, but, Remember to take good care of yourself, call your parents often to say you are safe, and think that they will miss you too. If you have money or not, go home to celebrate the New Year. Huang Xing replied to me with two words "um", and we will No more chatting.
So for those of us who have families and children, we are actually very lucky.
Because I am different from everyone else. They all chose to live at my parents-in-law’s house. Firstly, my parents-in-law are as good to me as my biological daughter. Secondly, Mr. Chuan Ge is also kind to me. Thirdly, I feel that I am in a harmonious and gentle town like Yongchuan District, Chongqing City. When my son returned to Yongchuan and home, I was still the Wang Xiaoxue who loved everyone and made flowers bloom.
Every time during the New Year, whenever I had time, I would choose to be with my sister. , we can chat all kinds of nonsense, talk about all kinds of small topics between us, as if only my sister and I know the little secrets hidden in each other's hearts. We can chat with the Li family and the Wang family until one or two in the morning, I find that there are always endless things to talk about and endless things to remember between us.
Sometimes we can also get together with our aunt, uncle and brother. My sister and brother-in-law both like my little one. Yi Mei, we can go see the night view of Chongqing and enjoy the food of Chongqing together. We will realize that this is the scene where it is difficult to say goodbye when we meet. The east wind is powerless and the flowers are withered. It’s just that Li Shangyin wrote about love, and I borrowed it today. After a while, it must be the deep friendship between sisters when they meet.
Especially in the eyes of my daughter, my baby always says, compared to my aunt, my mother is more beautiful, and my aunt is a bit inferior. Beautiful, haha. After hearing this, I couldn’t help but laugh and laugh, because she had already offended her sister-in-law, but she praised me instead.
So there is no need to say that she is married far away. People, why don’t you choose to go home? In fact, as a woman, you don’t have to feel sad. If you really want to go back, you can go back. My feet are on your legs. If you really want to go back, no one can stop you. Freedom, for example, like me, my dad always told me to go home, but after I explained my reasons, my dad didn't say anything. If you don't come back, remember, the road is your own choice, and so is life. It's your choice. If you want, you can live in confusion all day long, or you can live happily. It depends on your freedom of choice and how you view your life.
Of course, I must choose to celebrate the New Year happily, otherwise you will be sorry for your own choice.
I realize that I am going a bit far. Today I still want to write a short essay after returning home.
I was chatting with Brother Chuan last night. We both had the same feeling. I found that time passed very quickly after returning home, because he said that he felt like he didn’t get much rest. All of a sudden, time flew by. Soon, it will be the sixth day of the Lunar New Year. After the New Year is almost over, many people are slowly migrating back to their various jobs. Of course, we are also missing the taste of home in our hearts.
When I came back this year, I found that the most useful thing is that my mother is so capable. What’s even more amazing is that she actually installed wfai at home. I feel happy and encouraged, including my cousin. I was in the same mood, so he still brought the computer home with me. Every time at night, after all the chores were done, he and I would have two computers side by side, and we could still have fun together. Of course, he was more What I do most is playing games, and I do more coding and writing. My cousin also said: "If my aunt didn't have wfai at home, he would probably have to spend the night at a classmate's house." ”
After hearing this, I laughed and said, it seems that those of us who are lazy and don’t know how to aim high are slowly becoming decadent like this. We can’t do without wfai wherever we go, cousin. He snickered secretly, did not reply to me, and continued to play his game.
Because I remember that during the Chinese New Year last year, there was a computer at home, but there was no Internet, so I couldn’t play as much as I did this year. I write whatever I want, but in my mind, I remember that during the Chinese New Year last year, I read two novels. I used my mobile phone to send out my short essays and poems every day. It’s not like this year. Even during the Chinese New Year, I could update my text every day. That way, you can occasionally use your free time to read your favorite books, or you can take your baby with you every day to play and have fun.
I found that life is like this, there are no ups and downs. , there is nothing brilliant about it, I can live my life however I want, it is plain and flavorful, and my daily life is not boring.
After returning home, I don’t know why, but everything at home is delicious, and I occasionally go out. When I went downstairs, I saw the bean curd rice and Chongqing noodles in other tubes. They were all delicious. I could smell the strong fragrance all over the place.
About eating it. I won’t write today, I’ll write it another day, otherwise I’ll have to drool over it.
Anyway, after returning home, I feel so good. I can occasionally sleep in, chat with fellow snow fans, and occasionally read. I write articles, occasionally chat with my child about various things, and occasionally go out to meet friends I haven’t seen for a long time. I find it very happy.
Over the past few years, I have often found that my child is becoming more and more able to speak Chongqing dialect. , I can’t stop talking about Chongqing dialect, it’s really nice, and after returning home, it feels like the Chinese New Year. I really can’t bear to leave. My daughter also said: “Mom, I found that the night view in Chongqing is so beautiful, and there is nothing like it in Kunming.” So beautiful, and I always tell her, Kunming is as good as Kunming, and Chongqing is as good as Chongqing. The good thing about Kunming is the good climate, the blue sky and white clouds are leisurely, and the good thing about Chongqing is that the sky is thick with fog and moist, which makes your skin look good. Ah, Chongqing is good because there are so many delicious things. After hearing this, she understood a lot and said, Oh, I understand, Mom, Chongqing and Kunming are all very good.
After I got home, I I also found that my child likes the countryside very much and likes to integrate into the various local living habits. She is not afraid of the dirty smell and the various habits of her ancestral home. After all, children have the best spirits. Today, she walked with me. I guess after walking 5 kilometers.
Keep up the good work, honey.
In fact, I also see many friends who are very happy after returning home, although it is rare for a long time. Looking through the circle of friends, I can still feel the deep love for home in everyone's heart.
Xiaoxue finally wishes everyone, no matter whether your life is black or white, whether your life is ugly or beautiful. It doesn’t matter whether your life is a yin or a yang, or whether your life is bitter or sweet,
Xiaoxue hopes that you will have no suffering, and also wishes that friends who are struggling can pick the fruit of happiness. You can also enjoy family happiness.
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