In the group chat at noon, I accidentally saw a friend talking about fate. He said: Only with sufficient conditions can there be six consciousnesses. Without conditions, where are the six consciousnesses? Obviously, from what he said, I read a hint of Zen that is difficult for ordinary people to understand. I don’t understand Zen, so I certainly don’t understand its meaning, but I enjoy the artistic conception.
So, what is fate? How to have a predestined relationship?
The ancients said: "Destiny comes from the circle and is destined, that is, fate." We meet each other in this life in the course of hundreds of millions of years, and we meet here and here in the vast sea of ??mortal beings. Regardless of whether we are male, female, old or young, rich or poor, beautiful or ugly, our connections in this world are precious and our encounters are worthy of being cherished.
The mind is clear, the moon is coming and the wind is blowing. Destined to come thousands of miles to meet each other, but not destined to meet across the street. In the world of mist and rain, in the vast sea of ????people, people meet and know each other by fate. A word of fate tightly connects you and me who are far away from each other. From then on, there is endless affection and deep love, but we know each other in our hearts, even the end of the world is close at hand.
Taiwanese writer Lin Qingxuan said: "Only when you have a wish can you have a destiny. If you don't have a wish, even those who are destined will miss it." "Destiny is God's will, and destiny is man-made." Regardless of whether the fate is deep or shallow, whether it is long or short, getting it is destiny. Life is short and luck does not come easily, we should all cherish it. Cherish fate when fate comes, and leave empty space when fate comes. I always feel that the love between a man and a woman, like a mirror in the mirror and the moon in the water, cannot last long.
Therefore, having a good friend is much more practical than having a relationship. In a person's life, every sincere investment is a kind of harm, but friends are different. While having friends, you can appreciate the pure beauty of human nature and the value of true love. Friendship is also a kind of love, a nobler and more sincere love. Isn't it a blessing to be able to have that pure and clear emotion that is as pure and clear as a mountain spring without any impurities?
Nowadays when walking on the Internet, I still meet some people I like and like myself, but I am no longer as easily obsessed and intoxicated as before. For those who like me, I always retain my sobriety, but for those outstanding men, I only watch from a distance instead of admiring them up close. Because only by looking at it from a distance and appreciating it silently can you be at peace and be at ease with your heart.
Reminds me of the lyrics of a song: "Too close to you, I'm afraid of burning you. Too far away from you, I'm afraid of being forgotten by you. Too much lovesickness, it will make you grow old. Too much lovesickness, it will kill you." "My heart is tired." I know my own fragility and my feelings, and I don't want to tremble for you, and I don't want to burn you. Therefore, I will place myself in the distance of your heart, reading silently and watching from a distance.
Meeting is a beautiful fate, as Zhang Ailing said: "Meeting the person you meet among millions of people, in millions of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, there is no One step early and one step too late, I just happened to catch it. "
Life is a wandering journey, and everyone I meet is a beautiful accident. I cherish every one that I can call. People who are friends, because that is the place where the wandering heart can stop.