An analysis of the feelings of men and women in Zi Jin:
1. Zi Jin's "Zi" is the second name.
Zi is often used as a title of respect, such as Confucius and Laozi.
when zi is used as the second person, it is generally used to address men with equal status and peers, and can also be used to address men with lower status.
That is, men can call another man "Zi", but women can't.
The same title often appears in the Book of Songs, such as the famous sentence "Drumming" in "Tai Feng": "Hold your hand and grow old with your son", which is the agreement between soldiers.
2. Qingqing Zijiao is a kind of clothing, the uniform of the Zhou Dynasty (mostly the children of officials) and the costume of scholars.
This shows that Zi is a high-ranking scholar.
Calling it "Zi" means that I am a male with the same status and equal generation.
3. "Even if I don't go, Zi Ning won't come?" In Chinese, "I" is a knowing word, which refers to the person (male) holding Jin Yi.
"I" is the first person of men, used among peers.
At that time, the first person of women was "Eh", and this word has evolved into "slave" and "slave family" in modern times.
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4. "If you choose Xi Da Xi, you are in the city gate.
"Pick" means scratching your head, "Da" means stepping, and "Pick Xi Da Xi" means scratching your head and standing still (pacing), which is used to describe the way men wait anxiously.
"in the city gate", that is, above the city gate.
the "city gate" is the gate tower, which is the entrance to the city. The gate tower is often guarded by guards, which makes it difficult for ordinary civilians to go up, and women are even forbidden to enter, just like the ancient army banned women.
Therefore, "I" is a man with a certain status.
5. From the analysis of poems, it is usually "I" who goes to find "Zi", so there is a saying that "I will not go".
if "I" is a woman, it is not in line with the etiquette at that time, and it is too active.
If "I" is a woman, it must be a nobleman's child with a higher status (comparable to that of a green fern), and the etiquette requirements for her are even stricter, so it is impossible to appear in a public place like the City Gate Tower, which is surrounded by basically pure men and visible to everyone.
If it is a common woman, she has to go to the gate building and actively pursue the noble "green", which is only available in modern novels.
To sum up, Zi Ji is not an expression of feelings between men and women, but a poem expressing deep affection between men and women.
"Even if I don't go, Zi Ning won't come?" Explain that the two sides have an appointment. This is a story about a man who is waiting anxiously on the gate upstairs because he has something to stand up, and he is slightly complaining about another man in his heart.
Zi Ji is an emotional song for men and women.