The beauty of women
On quiet nights, I am used to sitting quietly in front of the computer and writing something. I'm a little confused at the moment, thinking hard and unable to write a decent article. Facing the writers in Jiangshan who are brilliant in literary talent, quick in thinking, rich in knowledge, unique in opinions and deeply loved by readers, and looking at their shallow, pale and empty words, I feel that my literary thoughts have dried up, and I feel that I am "exhausted by Jiang Lang", and my inspiration is even less touched.
At this time, I couldn't help turning my head and scanning the books in the bookcase, as if I wanted to find some inspiration from there. I stood up, walked to the bookcase and looked through the book catalogue carefully, hoping to touch and inspire me. In an instant, I saw two books in the corner of the bookcase, which looked a little old and the pages were slightly yellow. I know that they are the novels My Life in a Century and China Women in Manhattan that my mother has read. These two autobiographical novels left by my mother. I moved several times, but I didn't want to throw it away, because these are two inspirational novels I like. Their beauty has always been my idol. I have read it back and forth many times, and I can almost recite the story. But I still can't get tired of reading it.
I took the book down and slowly turned it over. I saw many places with handwriting circled by my mother. My mother's rambling words rang in my ears again. My mother always said: girls are not necessarily proficient in poetry, piano, calligraphy and painting, nor are they necessarily well-read, but they must not be shallow. Only by studying hard and reading more books can we be sensible, proud of ourselves, know how to be a man, and become a good woman with rich heart and charming wisdom. I was influenced by my family, especially my parents. I have developed the habit of reading and like collecting books. There are not many books, but after all, there can be books to read. "Good reading, Dont Ask For Help solution; Whenever I know something, I easily forget to eat. " I like books and I like reading. Although I can't say that I am well-read and knowledgeable, I have a wide range of reading interests. Books have been enriching my life, enriching my life.
I never change my mind because of misinterpretation/doubt my faith because of indifference/slow down because of old age. This is a passage written by Dong Zhujun at the age of 97, written on the page of his autobiographical novel My Hundred Years of Life. I was moved by her spirit ... it was a bumpy experience for a century old man. Dong Zhujun, the daughter of a foreign coachman, was forced to become a prostitute at the age of 12. With her natural beauty, intelligent personality and accidental opportunity, she made friends with revolutionaries, thus jumping out of the fire pit and becoming the "inspector's wife". After marriage, because I couldn't bear the feudal family and husband's rights, I rushed out of the cage again and went to Japan to study alone. A weak woman went through all kinds of hardships on her way to school. She changed from an illiterate brothel woman with no ink on her chest to a wise, gentle and charming woman with her own independent spiritual century. Become the founder of Shanghai Jinjiang Hotel. At the age of 97, she published her autobiographical novel My Hundred Years of Life. Her success proves that success is divided into two halves, and half is in the hands of God. This is fate. The other half is in my own hands, desperate.
"I feel like a chicken pecking at the shell. I pecked through the shell with its sharp mouth. Finally, one day I stretched my feet, spread my wings, jumped out of the shell and saw a piece of green. I was finally attracted not only by the world around me, but also by my own existence. " This is the introduction of Zhou Li, the author of The Woman of China in Manhattan. At the age of 30, 1985, unwilling to take a comfortable foreign trade job in Shanghai, she went to the United States to study with $40. In a foreign country, no matter how many hardships and bullying she experienced, she never bowed her head, overcame many difficulties, studied hard, read a lot and worked hard. She has been struggling, trying to change her destiny, and still looking forward to the future in difficulties. In just a few years, she proved her value with her own efforts. Great changes have taken place in her fate. "I overlook the whole city of new york. In the distance, tall windows set off the dark blue sky. Even at midnight, new york is so beautiful. Here, on this window, I found the position that suits me best in the world. " She has her own company in Manhattan, her own apartment in downtown Manhattan Park, a loving husband and a happy family.
Zhou Li wrote in the preface of his autobiography, "Only 15% of a person's professional success depends on his professional skills, and the other 85% depends on interpersonal and social skills." In this passage, she quoted Canel, an American educator. She said: "It is a great comfort for me to get a little inspiration from my book and realize the value of my existence and that my destiny can be changed." Yes! As the author's basic colleagues, these two attractive women have given me great help and encouragement, whether at work or at home. Although I may not succeed in this life, I don't regret it-because I tried my best. ...
I hid my thoughts and sighed: women love themselves more than everyone loves themselves. Women's self-esteem, self-respect and self-love are the most breathtaking beauty of women.
The second woman's flowers bloom gracefully.
Women in the world are like flowers, and faint flowers are hidden in their hearts. When the flowers bloom, the breeze comes. From germination to blooming, from standing to withering, flowers bloom and fall, women are always hazy and graceful paintings, melodious songs and intriguing poems. In the world of mortals, every woman is a unique flower, thin and fat, full of flowers, each with its own charm and strong points. Since ancient times, women's flowers have been swaying in the world of mortals, and flowers are floating and fragrant all over their sleeves.
Flowers are charming and colorful, and women are full of amorous feelings. There is no limit to the beauty in the world, and the most beautiful is a woman's flower. Women have the feminine taste of "quiet as flowers shine on water, and their manners are like the wind supporting willows", the charm of "if the lips point to lotus flowers, moths will throw fire on the ice muscles", the charm of "pink face is full of spring, and red lips don't show their lips before laughing", and there was once a thrush in a dream. "Women's flowers are misty rain in the south of the Yangtze River, frost and snow unique to the north, and it is a dream.
Women are the exquisite masterpieces left by the creator to the world, the embodiment of beauty between heaven and earth, and the spirit between heaven and earth. In a woman's life, flowers bloom picturesque and fall poetically. Women are graceful peonies, lovely roses, graceful lotus flowers, beautiful and refined orchids, outstanding plum blossoms and unknown wildflowers. Women's flowers are not necessarily beautiful, but they must be beautiful.
A beautiful woman, Hua, lives in the hustle and bustle of the world, with her heart between clouds and water. No matter where she is, she silently pours out her fragrance, creates a beautiful scene in her heart, and strives to open up into what she likes. They looked coldly at the snow, rain, wind and frost, clouds and clouds in the world, and walked freely in the autumn and winter, spring and summer and the silence and joy of the world of mortals. A beautiful woman spends her life with the strings in her heart, blooming herself and the beautiful world, letting clouds come and go and duckweeds gather and disperse. I am carefree, calm, and indifferent. Even if I am late, even if I am dying, I am still calm and still smiling.
Every woman has her own flower language. They wrote it in the wind, water and dust. A woman's life, whether with tenderness, chastity, love for the country or loneliness. No matter what day or night, no matter what season, we are looking forward to the arrival of lovers and are eager for the care of flower lovers. Women's flowers, swaying in the corner of the world of mortals, are full of amorous feelings, always waiting for warmth, waiting for meeting with a white horse, waiting for the heartbeat of touching time with a bosom friend, and listening to the abundance of years.
The heart is heaven, the thought is hell, and the flower is a woman. Whether in a city block, in a village and forest in Shan Ye, or in a vast desert, we should have charm and connotation, be elegant and calm, develop our own characteristics and create our own style. No matter who comes and goes, no matter what flowers bloom or fall, you should bring a hint of Zen, take a panoramic view of the charm of the years, keep the dust fragrance of the past in your heart, and try your best to "live" yourself.
The beauty of a woman should be not only the appearance, but also the heart, connotation, cultivation and tolerance. Women should be broad-minded, gentle and drizzling. The beauty of a woman lies in knowing that a woman should be tolerant, contented, grateful and sympathetic. Women should know not to go with the flow, not to go with the flow, to know that "reaching is not expensive enough, and poverty is not sad enough", to know how to turn all the ups and downs of life into soft fingers, and to write all the twists and turns of life into meaningful poems.
A woman can be a lilac in a rainy lane in the south of the Yangtze River, a cotton flying all over the sky, a meter on the Gobi Desert or a snow lotus on the cliff of Tianshan Mountain. Women can be gentle water, beautiful mountains, changing winds and flowing clouds. They are weaving dreams and swaying all the way. They cling to their fingertips and fiddle with the strings of the monsoon, telling the world leisurely. Between heaven and earth, every woman's flowers are precious. Because women's flowers are open, their colors are different, their flowers are floating, and the world is full of splendid and infinite scenery. Women are always the most beautiful scenery in the world. Where there are women, there is romance. Where there are women, there are songs and laughter; Where there are women, there are flowers.
Lev tolstoy once said: "People are cute not because they are beautiful, but because they are cute." . In fact, women don't have to be ashamed to spend months and months, and they don't have to be proficient in everything. As long as a woman has calm elegance, as long as she has a kind and pure heart, as long as she bows her head and blooms in the most beautiful posture in the plain white years, then even if her beauty is swaying and her youth is fading, she is still a flower loved by thousands.
There is no wind and no trace, flowers bloom soundly, women should be pure, women should be wise, women should be elegant, women should be charming, and internal and external cultivation is the unity of beauty, which is the ultimate beauty. Elegant and charming woman flower is always the most beautiful picture between heaven and earth. Over the years, what can't be described is the beauty and charm of women's flowers, the trickling heart of women's flowers, and the infatuation and lovelorn love of women's flowers, which are as beautiful as flowers and jade and picturesque; Women are like flowers and poems.
The future of life is unpredictable, and the flowering period of women is inevitable. In the world of mortals, there are no flowers that will never die, and there is no beauty that will never age. If a woman knows how to be self-reliant, self-respecting, self-loving, writing with a smile, painting a dry mountain green, building a dam for sadness, facing the warm sunshine and simplifying the complex, then she can comb every ordinary day into romance and poetry.
A trip to the mountains and a trip to the water, life is half warm, half thin and half cool, half bright and half sad, so that troubles are put aside and sadness is buried. I will be here whether you come or not. In this life, a piece of ice heart is in the jade pot, which is not ostentatious, noisy or kitsch. It travels through the four seasons, sits safely with time, guards its own fireworks, pours wine with the sun and the moon, pours cups with the wind and clouds, and laughs with the years, free from dust and sorrow, and blooms gracefully, leaving fragrance.
Rule 3: Walk steadily, true love. Enough!
Men are most afraid of doubt, and women are most afraid of doubt. Something is wrong, not the bumpy road, but the inner doubts; Some feelings are gone, not the beauty on the face, but the inner doubts. No matter how good your eyes are, there are places you can't see, which need observation and thinking; Even the best ears can't hear, so you need to listen and understand. Doubt must not be beautiful, and love must not be sweet. Men are also prone to tears and need women's understanding; Women also have tired responsibilities and need men's love. Understand each other and give peace of mind and peace of mind. Family harmony; Life is happiness.
People, a kind of fate: heart and heart, lies in sincerity. Don't test a heart easily, and don't doubt a feeling at will. Don't wait for misunderstanding to realize the value of understanding; Don't wait for regret to know how to cherish loveliness; Don't wait until you lose it to understand the coke you have. If you cherish it, you will be sincere; It's worth knowing something. The most touching thing is not sweet words and vows of eternal love, but that someone believes in you and has been with you. Love needs to be understood, love needs to be cherished; Life will be colorful and life will be beautiful.
People, the more they live, the more they understand that being born in the world, whether it is the common people or the prominent nobles, can't escape troubles; Can't stop desire from entering the heart; Can't stop the unexpected coming. Life is a dream, and life depends on a heart. For people, you don't have to be perfect; Yes, no demand is full. Tears flow, pain complains; Cry, cry, clear your heart and complain. Let go of the pain and cure the pain; Sorrow and joy in the world are stronger than themselves. Life is short, just ask: live healthily, live steadily, walk steadily, and love. Enough!
A person's life is neither as good as imagined nor as bad as imagined. Behind everyone, there will be sadness and unspeakable difficulties. Everyone has their own tears to wipe and their own way to go. Remember to add a coat to yourself when it is cold; Buy yourself a loaf of bread when you are hungry, and give yourself strength when you are injured; If you fail, give yourself a goal. If you fall, get up painfully. Give yourself a tolerant smile and move on, and be your truest self. Don't ask others by your own standards, and don't look at people with colored glasses. Because everyone has his own preferences, personality and value. What you don't like is not necessarily bad.
There are always too many entanglements in life, which makes us helpless; There is always too much helplessness, which makes us helpless. Excellent, others slander you; To be honest, others use you; If you are weak, others will bully you; Success, others envy you. The most confusing thing in life is that no one understands you, and the most uncertain thing in life is the direction of progress. Heart, sometimes inexplicable sadness; Road, sometimes wordless and difficult. Wind and rain life, only alone. Injured, bite the bullet; It hurts. Stand up your waist. Life, smiling in tears, colorful; Life, strong with a smile, is beautiful.
People are alive, there is no need to argue about everything. Clear water means no fish, while clear people mean no friends. Struggle with family, win, family is gone; Fight with your lover, win, and your feelings are weak; Fight with friends, win, friendship is gone. What you strive for is reason, what you lose is emotion and what you hurt is yourself. Black is black, white is white, let time prove it. Let go of your self-righteous opinions, be open-minded and willing to work, and win a lifetime; More peace, more warmth, life is sunshine.
Life is always thinking and looking forward to the future in confusion. If there is no sadness and distress in life, no joys and sorrows, then life is blank and desolate. The beauty of the flower season and the sadness of the rainy season are gradually forgotten with the growth rings, half of which is the pursuit of beauty and half of which is the acceptance of incompleteness. I couldn't stand it once, but now I just smile indifferently. Maturity is not to see through, but to look down.
Love is the strongest, and it will fade after a long time; The deepest love, less response, will be cold; The heart is the hottest, and if you get used to indifference, it will cool down; People are the best. When they are tired, they will leave. Feelings, thankless, only sincere separation; No trampling on people's hearts, only the warmth of companionship. A love begins with a heartbeat and is also a silent joy; A love, stop at chilling, speechless. Love can watch but can't expect, love can tolerate but can't condone. * * * sound mind, continue; Without distractions, you can last forever.
No matter how deep the feelings and goodwill are, the friendship will gradually fade away. That's the way things are in the world. Many familiar people, if you don't take care of them, they will gradually disappear. Many familiar things fade if you don't remember them. It's not that our hearts have changed, nor that we no longer regard each other as friends. It's just that we are far away and can't enjoy our joys and sorrows. The wind of years can not only dilute the feelings in your heart and mine, but also cool the righteousness in your heart and mine. The hand of time can not only blur me in your eyes, but also dilute you in my heart. If you don't take the familiar road, you will be unfamiliar. This is life.
The fourth choice
Women in China like to ask a question best. If their wife and mother fell into the water at the same time, who would you save? This is an old problem. I remember someone asked this question at school. At that time, I suddenly froze, thought and answered, one hand saved my wife, and the other hand threw a lifebuoy at my mother and pulled her out of the water. At that time, my classmates asked me why.
I said, first of all, I can't swim. I will find a shallow fulcrum and try my best to save my wife until I pull her out of the water. Secondly, I will throw the swimming ring to my mother. Because my mother is older, more experienced and can swim a little, it is only a matter of time before she swims out of the water.
Besides, there is no if, only a full rescue together, no matter whether you can swim or not, you will do such a thing.
Let's take a look at what foreigners say. The same problem can only save one person. After a short silence, the foreigner replied: This is a cruel question. If I have to make a choice, I will save my wife. Ask why. He said: First of all, my mother is old (75 years old). Most of her life has passed, and my wife is still young. Secondly, if we have children to support, I will not hesitate to save my wife. Children cannot live without their mothers. Besides, even my mother herself would let me save my wife, not her. He will save her first.
I was deeply touched to see these three stories on the Internet.
The first story: unmarried people understand before they get married. Married people understand and know how to run a marriage better. If they don't understand, they don't have to get married. Story 1: They have been in love for three years and are going to get married. He disappeared a month before the wedding, leaving a note: I'm sorry, I'll marry you when I'm good enough. She tore up the note sadly.
Two years later, he came back in a suit and tie and drove a limited-edition sports car, only to find that she had already married an ordinary worker and had children. He's a little angry. Would you rather marry such a man with nothing than wait for me? Women smile gently, we don't need anything, just love! The man suddenly understood.
The second story: boys treat their wives better after marriage than before. At a party, a friend laughed at him: Why are you still so tired after getting married? He smiled wryly and said, "Before getting married, many boys wanted to catch up with her, and many boys would be kind to her. Only by being kind to her can I catch up with her; " After marriage, there are fewer and fewer boys who are kind to her. Only by being kind to her can I not let her down. Everything I do is to make her happy. "Say that finish, all the friends present were silent, without ridicule, only admiration.
The third story: the husband is nursing his wife who is about to give birth by the bed. Wife: "Do you want a boy or a girl?" Husband: "If it is a boy, we cannot father to protect you;" If it's a girl, I will protect you both. "
It is said that marriage is the grave of love. It turns out that a good woman married the wrong person! Love is not wealth, but caring for each other. Marriage is a happy thing, provided that you marry someone who will treat you as a treasure.
No matter how expensive the house is, you just sleep in a bed; No matter how good the car is, you still have to issue a ticket for speeding; No matter how expensive the bag is, it just has one more function to show off wealth than the plastic bag.
Don't forget your happiness in pursuit of what you don't have, be content!
Choose the person you love, or choose the person who loves you, choose what kind of lover, choose what kind of happiness, choose what is the eternal proposition, choose what, or be chosen. Sometimes, we need to think calmly and make difficult choices, but one thing is for the sake of happy ourselves and happy lovers, so we sometimes have to make choices.
What kind of road you choose, what kind of lover you choose and what kind of happiness you choose depend on your own choice. Happiness is all around us. As long as you are careful, you will find them.