Losing your partner in life
When you are widowed, the meaning of being a human being without a partner is largely lost, because everyone wants to have someone by their side when they grow old.
When a middle-aged person is young, he is not young, and he is not old when he is old. If there is a lack of a partner at this time, it will be like a house without beams, and the burden of the family will fall entirely on her. She will lose her spiritual support, and the burden will fall on herself, and her body will easily be crushed.
Ten years of life and death are so uncertain that they cannot be forgotten without thinking about them.
From the Northern Song Dynasty poet Su Shi's "Jiangchengzi·Dreams on the 20th day of the first lunar month of Yimao"
Bereaved in middle age
The saddest thing is that there is no child If you have a child, you may not be able to give birth to it, and if you don’t give birth, you will live this life in vain
Losing a child in middle age is the greatest pain in life
The cause of Yuan Kuocheng’s death has been revealed. Losing a child in middle age is almost fatal. Strike
Yuan Kuocheng, a native of Yingkou, was born in Tianjin. Born into a family of storytelling, his uncles Yuan Jieting, Yuan Jieying and his father Yuan Jiewu are known as the "Three Masters of the Yuan Family". Together with Liu Lanfang, Shan Tianfang and Tian Lianyuan, they are collectively known as the "Four Great Storytelling Performing Artists". Yuan Kuocheng is good at telling "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms" and "Water Margin". He is famous for his "Five Women and Seven Virgins" and "Five Women and Seven Virgins". He has won the China Golden Record Award for Performer in the Folk Art category and is known as "the leader of new books". There is also a saying that "in ancient times there was Liu Jingting, and now there is Yuan Kuocheng." Mr. Yuan's storytelling, like his name, is known to everyone. On the basis of inheriting tradition, he learned from the strengths of others and absorbed the strengths of drama, film, opera, cross talk and other art forms to form his own style.
Losing your job
Fear of losing your job. If I lose my job and have no source of income, how will I repay my home mortgage loan? How do you pay for your children’s schooling? How can I support my old mother in the countryside?
No money. Having no money at this time is a big problem. There are seniors and juniors, all waiting for you to eat.
When people reach middle age, in addition to working harder, they also need to have a calm and steady mentality. Don't be surprised if you are favored or humiliated, you can stay or go as you like. As long as you do your best, you don't have to worry about gains and losses. Being content and always happy is the true truth.
Young people are afraid of good times, middle-aged people are afraid of leisure times, and old people are afraid of adversity.
I think everyone in middle age should have accumulated a lot of life experience. They should use these experiences or technologies to do something meaningful, use their own light and heat, and don’t let Keep yourself idle and make yourself feel like a useful person. Life is not in vain. I think this also goes with the saying: "Live in the moment".