Whether life is valuable is not defined by whether it can last forever or not, but by finding one's own position in life and doing one's job in a down-to-earth manner according to one's own specific situation. This kind of life is valuable, and it can also be wonderful. Look at history. Li Bai, who raised a glass to dispel his worries, understood that the filth of officialdom could not accommodate his elegant heart, so he traveled and wrote about mountains and rivers and eventually became a generation of poets. Tao Yuanming, who "picks chrysanthemums under the east fence and sees Nanshan leisurely", understands that studying Long Mu is suitable for his own nature, so he returned to the countryside and achieved the reputation of a generation of pastoral poets; Ban Chao joined the army and found his courage and heroism on the battlefield against Xiongnu. Lu Xun abandoned medicine to follow the literature, picked up a pen like a spear and wrote for generations ... These people all found their own life orientation according to their own life characteristics, thus making their lives bloom with strange brilliance.
Maybe you are confused and lost your way under the shackles of personnel; Maybe you are worried that your life is meaningless; Maybe you feel depressed and hate that you have not achieved great success ... my friend, I want to advise you not to worry so much. In fact, God is fair. When it closes a door for you, it may be opening a window for you. Don't complain, in fact, no one in the world is perfect, and everyone has shortcomings. The choice of life needs to be explored by yourself; The value of life needs to be created by yourself. We should be good at finding our own life position in the complicated and changeable world, go forward bravely, cut through difficulties and find our own broad road.
Strong stone pillars support the majestic bridge, which has its own charm despite its ugly appearance; Hard rails support the roaring train, even if it is cold, it is convenient for you and me to pass; Green leaves set off the beauty of flowers. Even if it is not bright, it can fall to the ground and nourish everything.
Please remember Li Bai's poem "Since God has given talents, let them be employed!" . As long as you are good at finding your own life position, no matter where you are or what you are doing, you can bloom your own unique life brilliance!
If you keep looking up, you will feel that you have been below; If you keep looking down, you will feel that you have been on it. If you always feel backward, then you must be looking forward; If you always feel forward, you must have been looking back. The eyes can't determine the position, but the position exists because of the eyes; The key is that even if we are in a certain position, our eyes can still be cast in any direction.
As long as we feel at ease in our own position, everything around us will be centered on us, or leave us, or come at us, or revolve around us, or be silent to us; If we always feel that there is no suitable place, everything around us will become masters. We should wait on them before and after, flatter them from both sides, jump up and down to cater to them, and compliment them from the inside out.
The image of Mount Everest in the hearts of climbers is not because of its location, but because of its height; Whether a stone is placed in the position of gold or a stone will make people look down on that stone even more.
As long as it is gold, it is placed where it is; If it is a stone, it can only be placed in the position of the stone at most. A great man is always choosing his position; Mediocre people look around and choose their own position.
There is not much difference between places, but people in different places often have different impressions when they look at the same subject; There may not be much difference between people themselves, but people in different positions may have different feelings.
In the position of an actor, you must learn to perform; When you are in the audience position, you must learn to appreciate. Society is a big stage, but we always can't tell whether we are performing or enjoying. Perhaps, life is that we perform with the attitude of the audience and appreciate with the attitude of appreciation. Perhaps this can test a person's adaptability at any time.
From the standpoint of Sichuan disaster area, you can sympathize with the suffering of the victims and feel your happiness.
From the standpoint of parents, you can have more love and patience and more hope that will never go out; From the standpoint of children, you can have more true feelings and deep feelings, and you can also have more guilt that will never decrease. Life is about making everyone feel this feeling of hope and guilt, and then arranging for us to become parents immediately after being children for a while.
Only by standing in the position of others can you understand others and miss your own position; A person who doesn't understand others and has no nostalgia for his position can hardly have any position among others. Of course, this also means that at no time should you stand on your own side to show off yourself, and at no time should you stand on others' side to belittle others.
In what position, you have to find meaning in what position; The meaning of location depends on meaningful people to dig and deepen!