Eyes don't lie
About men, we will have some adjectives like "rhetoric" and "affectation" ... Yes, this is because language can be faked, we can lie, our actions can also be faked, and we will deliberately pretend ... But there is one thing that cannot be faked, and that is eyes. Eyes don't lie. Then, when we are with the people we love deeply, we can pay attention to TA's eyes to see if there is light in their eyes, if there is you in their eyes, and if they are as affectionate and affectionate as you. As long as you pay attention to observation, you can always see "how much love" in TA's eyes. So the first skill is: pay more attention to observation, pay attention to each other's eyes, because we can know from each other's eyes whether TA loves us or not.
2. Tolerance and forbearance
When we love someone, we often instinctively have more tolerance and tolerance for TA than others. For example, a person with a particularly bad temper may show rare patience and good temper in the face of people he likes and loves. For another example, a careless person may become more cautious in the face of the person he likes; For another example, a person who can't cook may learn to cook and cook for the person he likes. ......
Yes, when we like someone and fall in love with someone, we can't always say why. We are always willing and willing to be more tolerant and tolerant of each other, and we want to please each other. As long as the other person feels happy, we have a sense of accomplishment.
Therefore, the second measure to judge whether the other person really loves him is to see if TA shows a more tolerant and tolerant attitude when facing us. Of course, we can't always test each other's endurance unreasonably. Everything should be measured. It is still possible to occasionally see each other's tolerance for us within a proper range. Specifically, it is analyzed and adjusted according to everyone's specific situation.
3. Instinctive reaction
I remember watching a funny program before. A person who dresses up in a scary way will suddenly run out and scare passers-by with scary eyes. A very impressive picture is that when a couple passed by, both of them were frightened. The girl sat directly on the ground, and the boy was scared to retreat again and again. Then he stumbled forward carefully, picked up his girlfriend and ran away. It was sweet to see him here at that time, because he was a responsible person. In times of crisis, he reacted instinctively and still did not forget his girlfriend. Because many other couples react by running away, few people take care of another partner around them. ......
Yes, sometimes, instinctive reaction can best reflect the truth.
Therefore, the third skill is: look at the instinctive reaction of the other party. For example, if we play dangerous games together, such as going to the haunted house and the transparent glass bridge, what kind of reaction and instinctive behavior will the other party have? You can try.
Ok, finally, let's share: how to judge whether the other person really loves you? Do you have any other skills? Tell us.