How can a daughter-in-law be filial to her in-laws?

I wonder if you have any children. If you have children, first of all, children should be intermediaries, which is a very important issue. As for yourself, you shouldn't make any face-to-face comments on your mother or wife's behavior, otherwise it will be difficult for you to remain neutral, but it will make them think that the other party has made you like this. The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a traditional problem in China, not a personal problem, which has certain inevitability. Children living with their parents for a long time, still so after marriage, often lead to a "war" to "grab" their husbands or sons. This kind is rare abroad now, because their children will move out and live by themselves when they grow up. Anyway, you can "create" and show your mother or wife's kindness to each other through your words and deeds in the usual details. For example, what supplements did you buy for your mother? Although you bought it, you should tell your mother that your wife asked you to buy it for your mother. Of course, your wife must know about it. At the same time, it is best to let the elderly go out with their wives and family. If they are quarreling, you should be a little "partial" to your mother, because you also said that she is a stubborn person. After that, you talk to your wife privately and tell her to be reasonable. Anyway, my mother is an elder, she cares more about everything, and usually works harder and takes care of it. Then, take care of your wife's feelings and don't let her think that you are protecting your mother.