"Last night, it rained and the wind blew suddenly, so a deep sleep didn't leave any wine. Ask the shutter man, but the Chinese flowering crabapple remains the same. Do you know, do you know? It should be green, fat and thin. " A thousand years later, a novel, Know No, explains the growth story of Ming Lan, an official in the Northern Song Dynasty. His pace is slow and he tells the emotional story of love, marriage and education. The Sheng family has three sisters. They have different personalities, but they are all famous talented women with extraordinary beauty. But in the end, their marriage ends are quite different. It is not difficult to find that if you want a sweet marriage, you should do the following. The Sheng family has a daughter who has just grown up. People who keep her in the boudoir don't know if you ask, who is the happiest daughter of the Sheng family? So there is no doubt that the answer must be the eldest daughter Hua Lan. A family, three sisters, are all married. Why do they have different endings?
She is the first daughter of Sheng Ju and Wang Jiada. When she was a child, she was raised by Zhu Rubao. She is the apple of a housewife's eye. She never needs to think about her identity. She is the noblest girl in the family. When Hualan passed his twenties and eighties, he was married by Shengmou, and his fiance was Yuan Wenshao, the second son of Yuan family in Tokyo Marquis House. In the play, Yuan Wenshao never appeared, but in the narration, it is not difficult to find that Yuan Jia is a handsome dude with both civil and military skills. Since ancient times, marriage has always been highly valued. Sheng Zhen turned out to be a small official. He married his daughter to a family with a history of 1 years, which is naturally regarded as a noble marriage. To outsiders, this marriage can be described as glorious, but Yuan Jia is not taller than Sheng Jia.
He was recorded in Dream of China in Tokyo: "Anyone who marries a daughter-in-law should first draft a post, and then make a detailed post." When the Yuan family was hired by the Sheng family, they were given a hard time. Yuan Jia's elders should have visited in person, but Yuan Jia broke the contract temporarily and only sent Yuan Wenchun, the eldest son of Yuan Jia. Because of his face, sheng let his wife put up with it; Yuan Wenchun is very arrogant. When Long Feng wanted to lose Hualan's dowry, he didn't stop it, but wanted to see a good show. All these show that Hualan is not easy to live in Yuan's house after marriage. Hua Lan, who grew up in the old lady's room as a child, learned the etiquette and rules of poetry and calligraphy. After marrying Yuan Jia, she was the gentlest wife and the most filial daughter-in-law.
However, her mother-in-law is very strict with her. Her mother tidied up four or five rooms in Yuan Wenshao's room. According to the old saying, the elders can't refuse to give them up, so Hualan must offer them in the room, and they can't be beaten or scolded. Marquis's house looks beautiful, but it's really a mess, losing money year after year, day after day, and Yuan Wenshao is the legal second son of the family, so his title has nothing to do with him, but his mother is interested in Hualan Shili red makeup. When Hualan got married, Wang Da's wife and Sheng Zhen prepared a dowry for their beloved daughter, hoping that her daughter would be stable for life. After the earl's wife asked Hualan to take care of the pickles in the house with her dowry, she immediately caught her housekeeper, and Hualan had to go home and cry. When Wang Ruofu wanted to fight for his daughter in the Earl's Mansion, the old lady of Shengjia said, "If all the quarrels in the world can be peaceful, then sixteen prefectures would have taken it back long ago.
who doesn't have a dirty account? Don't mention the leisure of a few spare money. Your girl is weak and tired. She dumped the housekeeper, carefully raised her, took medicine according to the royal family's prescription, and gave birth to a child is the business. If you are sick, you still have to come back and say it. Don't read the book pedantically, it is true that you are carefree! " The old lady awakens the dreamer. Hualan no longer pays attention to ordinary affairs, but pays more attention to Yuan Wenshao, the "xianggong". Erlang sees dedication, understanding and by going up one flight of stairs. In family conflicts, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like a stone between husband and wife, which makes the relationship between husband and wife drift away. In fact, the key is not the wife, nor the mother-in-law, but the husband. As a man who loves two women deeply, he should be double-sided tape to stick them together tightly; He should be a bridge, with his mother at the end and his lover at the other end. A family that stands up leads to happiness.
Like Yuan Wenshao in the original, it took him ten years to understand. There is no doubt that he is a "baby boy", but he still loves his wife's husband. It is not terrible to encounter a "bad mother-in-law" in marriage. The most difficult thing is "mother-in-law". If your marriage is in conflict with your mother-in-law, you'd better push your husband out and let him face the conflict. After all, he is the key. Calculated love is stolen happiness. I don't know when I will come back. Moran's love was stolen from heaven. She knows that Miss Lin knows that only Master Liang does not know. As an ordinary daughter, Moran was doomed from birth. She may become a concubine in Plutocratic family or the real wife of a poor family, but she can never be the legal wife of a formal family.
Moran never believed in evil. Her little girl Lin once took her hand and said, "Daughter, you have to strive for what you want." In her mother's nagging, Moran learned to make tears her own weapon. Being small and gentle is her own means, and you can be fearless of success. It turned out that Liang Jia took a fancy to six girls below the old lady, while Sheng Zhen found Wen Yanjing, a poor student for Moran, but Moran was used to the mortal world. How could he tolerate inferiority after marriage? She pretended to be a maid, met Liang Han, and had a dew love affair from then on. But when she stood timidly in front of Liang Han, she said,
"I heard you calling me in my dream. Later, it was reported that Lin Xiaoniang was executed by Sheng Yu to protect Moran. Moran married Liang Han, which is different from Hualan's grand wedding. Although she married into a rich family, Moran's wedding only had two characters: "cold and cheerless". No husband greeted her, no brothers and sisters saw him off, only a green wedding dress. Although Moran had a beautiful concubine, she still loved her until Moran's lies were exposed. Moran wanted to set up an immortal monument for his mother, and pretended to intercede with Minglan, but Ming Lan accused him of being a murderer, and Liang Han doubted his wife in a few words.
Later, Liang Han realized the truth and asked angrily, "Why did you marry me?" I love you! Liang Han shouted angrily, "You talk nonsense! You are clearly jealous of your sixth sister, bribing the concierge of the Sheng family, and having a private meeting with me in Jade Qing. You and your little mother discussed it with one hand! You mother and daughter are as vicious as me, and nothing you say to me is true! " They met by chance after careful calculation. The dystocia of concubines was Moran's plan, and Liang Han's love for Moran disappeared instantly. In fact, "Moran" is not a minority. They regard marriage as a springboard for success and their lover as a cooperative partner. In their minds, love is just a deceptive trick, and money and interests are the eternal pursuit.
in Shengjia, rulan is the only girl who has the right to marry love. Although she is the second daughter, she is not as lucky as her sister Hua Lan. Her father loved Moran from concubines, while her grandmother raised Ming Lan who lost her mother. Like all darling daughter, she is headstrong and reckless, but she hides a heart of gold under her careless appearance. Shengmou said that he wanted to talk about marriage with Moran, but he was partial to Rulan's love at first sight. In the Song Dynasty, morality strictly abides by ethics. For example, Lan met him privately, which is different from the plot of Moran. For example, Lan did it for his own love. Although Gu Yanye sent someone to propose marriage, it was a delaying tactic, but Ru Lan was not seduced by the overwhelming wealth. She just wanted to stay with her own brother all her life. She also thought about giving up.
Not to be a high-ranking official's wife, but for her parents and family; When she marries Brother Wen, she will be afraid that her lover will betray her. Although her mother-in-law is rude, her husband always stands by her side. To love a girl, it is better to keep her and work hard for her happiness than to give her up for her happiness. Material conditions should not be the conditions for us to choose a spouse, but the talent of love is that if he really loves you, he doesn't want to live in heat and water, and he wants to be your shoulder and support a piece of sky for you.