Xiong Haizi's performance is too numerous to mention. Sometimes people gnash their teeth and become extremely angry. They can only say to themselves: I was born, I was born, I was born.
It's a little devil on earth. He is not as obedient, sensible, excellent and likable as Xiaoming next door.
Everyone says that every child is an angel who falls into the world, but they have lost their wings and need to grow up under the protection of their parents' loving wings; If you are frustrated, I'm afraid this sentence is hard to hear.
Xiong Haizi sometimes makes people fly into a rage, sometimes makes people fly into a rage, and sometimes I wish I could throw him outside the door and let others pick him up. At this time, I want to say that Xiong Haizi must be an angel sent by heaven to help us in Du Jie. Practice hard and become an immortal.
When I communicate with my parents online these days, there will always be a topic of * * *. When the child is crying, when the child is disobedient, and when the child is procrastinating, we can't help it. We will hit children, even if we know that hitting can't solve the problem at all, we lack patience in the face of children.
As children grow up, we will find that we have more and more experience of such things, and we will pay more attention to the reasons behind things rather than the performance of children. We are becoming more and more tolerant, forgiving the mistakes made by children on their growth path and accepting their personality.
I remember a reader saying: I am a mother who loves to lose her temper and regret. Sometimes I really should learn from my children. It's simple. A lot of times yelling doesn't solve the problem. A gentle baby, mom, I love you, and I can make the child behave. Compared with parents' tolerance for children, children are much more tolerant of adults.
If education is compared to investment, it is a long-term investment, in which money, energy and feelings are invested; And our Xiong Haizi gave us this endurance, knowing that the benefits need to wait. As long as we manage well, we will get the desired results at that time.
The child's class teacher told us a story: everyone said that the child was born with a blank sheet of paper, but I don't know when there were several small black spots on this blank sheet of paper. These black spots are the shortcomings of children, and these shortcomings make them Xiong Haizi; We have been staring at these small black spots, completely forgetting that most of the whole paper is still white.
I feel guilty after hearing this story. Why not learn to look around with appreciation? Although children have shortcomings, who can be perfect? In Xiong Haizi's eyes, we will always be the most amiable and respectable parents, even though you scold him, beat him, teach him a lesson and even hurt him. Afterwards, he still hugged your neck, kissed your face and said the most beautiful words in the world: Mom, I love you.
In fact, children teach us to look at others with appreciation. When we focus on the shortcomings of others, the world will show you the good side. Leaders are actually very responsible, subordinates are actually very hard, and customers are actually very reasonable.
Children are parents' refracting mirrors, which can reflect parents' ideas and principles of being human. Although we may not be perfect, we must try our best to have a beneficial influence on children in every little thing.
A friend once told me about an incident that happened between him and his son. Seeing that his son has been playing video games, he said, son, you have been playing video games these days, can't you control yourself and concentrate on your studies? His son replied, "You are still talking about me. My grandfather often tells you not to play mahjong outside. Why do you always play all night? "Friends can only be tongue-tied
If you can't do it yourself, why let the children do it? In order to set a good example for children, we become self-controlled; Put down the game, leave the mahjong table and start reading, writing and exercising seriously. Slowly, we saw another life, becoming positive, healthy and confident.
Ji Bolun's poem Your Children Are Not Your Children says: What you can give them is your love, not your thoughts, because they have their own thoughts. You can try to become like them, but don't let them become like you, because life will not go backwards and stay in the past.
Children should go their own way. He's an independent man, not our body. body double, he can't follow your plan. Many times, we put the great banner of being good to children on our bodies and impose it on others, so that children can realize their unfulfilled dreams and carve them into works that they are proud of.
Children carry the hope of adults and become more and more unhappy and anxious. Slowly, many parents are reflecting and sympathizing with their feelings when their parents put too much pressure on them.
When we learn to put ourselves in others' shoes, we will forgive many people, get used to many things and let go of many hates. Empathy can make us think from each other's perspective, be considerate of others, and be more tolerant and considerate.
The most indispensable thing in this era is learning ability. The authors or readers of the education section want to know more about parenting and input some opinions. Some parents say that they are impatient with their children, some parents say that they always lose their temper, and some parents say that they force their children to attend many interest classes and everyone comes to study.
Our parents of the previous generation would have filial sons under the sticks, which caused more or less scars in our hearts. The times are changing and the environment is changing, so the concept of parenting also needs to keep pace with the times. If we don't have the ability to learn, if we refuse to learn, we can't keep up with the times.
I'm glad to see such a scene. Women who become stay-at-home mothers after graduation pick up books again, and fathers who work hard to earn money to support their families will not use this as an excuse to ignore their children's education and growth. We not only have a learning mind, but also have the ability to learn.
When we become learned, we can quickly keep up with the rhythm of the times; When we become self-controlled, we can be more and more self-disciplined; When we become patient, we can wait for the flowers to bloom; When we can empathize, we always look around with appreciation; When we become such people, which way is not Du Jie's success, but becoming an immortal?
Every family has a Xiong Haizi who tells you that he is an angel sent by heaven to help us in Du Jie.
We work hard on education, stumble all the way, get up after falling, sum up and adjust, don't complain, don't abandon, don't give up, and the road to education will eventually become smooth.
Finally, this article ends with Ji Bolun's poem "Your child is not your child".
Your children, in fact, are not your children, but children born of life's desire for themselves. They came to this world through you, but not because of you. They are by your side, but they don't belong to you.
What you can give them is your love, not your thoughts, because they have their own thoughts. What you can shelter is their bodies, not their souls, because their souls belong to tomorrow, which you never dreamed of.
You can try to become like them, but don't let them become like you, because life will not go backwards and stay in the past.
You are a bow, and your children are your arrows. Archers look at the target on the road in the future. He tried his best to pull you away, so that his arrow could shoot fast and far.
Bend over in the archer's hand with a happy mood, because he loves the arrow that flies all the way and the bow that is extremely stable.
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